Do dancers care if you’re married?

27 comments

• Subraman

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  6 years ago

  For the most part, strong feelings about this are reserved for newbie strippers.
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  The problem isn't married customers, the problem is married tricks looking for hookers in the club. I don't think it should matter whether the girl is married or not. But when she asks you questions, about anything, its to size you up.
• rickdugan

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  6 years ago

  Sounds like she's a baby stripper. Give her 6 months and she'll probably have a very different perspective.
• rickdugan

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  6 years ago

  Another realistic possibility is that she just told you what she thought you'd want to hear. For all you know, her next target was an older married man and she told him that she prefers married guys because they are less likely to fall in love and stalk her. It's called hustling for a reason. ;)
• JamesSD

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  6 years ago

  Experienced strippers figure a married guy is more hard up for sex and see cash. Makes sense it's a different hustle than with single guys.
• aham5

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  6 years ago

  Never met one that seemed to care
• BoringLoser

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  6 years ago

  I don’t think she was a baby stripper. She was very comfortable and she fully understood that a good LD isn’t about dance moves. She also didn’t make me feel like there was a hustle. She was really good at the conversation part and thinking back on it I suspect that she has topics that she brings up in order to figure out what her customers are looking for. I think that whether or not I’m single was only a small part of it all. I’m really happy with the way it all went and would get dances from her again if I go back to that club. Being a stripper is a lot more complex than I ever imagined. I’m kind of amazed at just how good she is at those less obvious parts of the job.
• rickdugan

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  6 years ago

  BL posted: "She also didn’t make me feel like there was a hustle." The best ones never do BL. ;)
• JamesSD

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  6 years ago

  Yup. And that makes it all the more impressive. Oscar worthy performance for a few bills
• steeldog65

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  6 years ago

  I get asked all the time if I am married. I assume it's because of my age. I am widowed and soon as the girls know that, I normally get really good dances.
• MackTruck

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  6 years ago

  Some of them like married guys better because they will not talk about whatever happens
• NJBalla

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  6 years ago

  Dancers love married guys especially if they have kids. Many dancers are single moms and the find married guys easier to talk to. Its also because many dancers have father issues and are seeking affection.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  6 years ago

  Almost always no.
• DandyDan

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  6 years ago

  Since I'm single, I have no doubt some of them do care about that, but mostly, you're just money to them.
• Lofn

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  6 years ago

  Married, divorced, single, polyamorous...it makes no difference to me as long as they're spending.
• georgmicrodong

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  6 years ago

  To the extent that it gives a dancer another clue as to how to get you to spend money, I think they “care.” Beyond that, some reasons I’ve heard for “caring” about whether a guy is married: - less likely to want to go on real dates. - more likely to keep certain activities on the downlow. - less likely to be a boisterous jerk who wants to get al handsy without tipping. - more likely to tip decently, or at all. - less likely to treat her like a whore, regardless of whether she is or not.
• DeclineToState

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  6 years ago

  Lots of good responses here. @GMD: +1 for accuracy as to what he’s “heard” or experienced
• bang69

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  6 years ago

  They don't if you are married. All they care about is . How much money they can get from you.
• Papi_Chulo

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  6 years ago

  Dancers tell me all the time how they prefer my small penis and man does it help make a connection
• Papi_Chulo

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  6 years ago

  I assume married guys are seen as preferring to just keep it business vs wanting to date them or stalk them (but of course it's no guarantee). Some usually young and/or inexperienced dancers may see married custies as douches cheating on their wife. Off the top of my head I can't think why a dancer would prefer a single vs married custy (not to say that they'll avoid single custies)
• flagooner

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  6 years ago

  Most dancers I've met get really disappointed when they learn that I'm married.
• Papi_Chulo

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  6 years ago

  ^ LOL - it's not fair that you're off the market
• Tyrion_Lannister

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  6 years ago

  Married men are their specialty.
• IceyLoco

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  6 years ago

  They only care if you can pay them....questions about you personal life are just to size you up
• flagooner

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  6 years ago

  ^I thought that was what the handshake was for.
• shadowcat

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  6 years ago

  My original ATF stopped contact with me for 2 months when I was going through my divorce. She was afraid of getting dragged into it. She was very relieved when I told her that I had settled out of court.
• Cristobal

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  6 years ago

  I don't think she cared, I think it's just a conversation starter or continuer and by building that connection she was able to make you enjoy the dances more.