discussion comment
2 years ago
My two cents. Quite often a bartender in a stip club is a former dancer who either aged out or wanted to stop. Its quite rare to find a bartender who would want to bartend in the environment unless they already have done it. Some girls that could definitely still dance just would rather bartend. I would not call them civvies they are in the industry even if they don't actively dance, its way different than if you went out with a bartender in a regular bar.
review comment
2 years ago
I really wish people would just post two separate reviews of these clubs, I specifically want a review of a single club, if I want to compare them I can read each review, but to put both in a review just makes it confusing.
discussion comment
2 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
That depends on how good of a stripper you are lol
discussion comment
2 years ago
^ A fairly reasonable approach.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Pretty easy solution to your problem Condoms were invented for those pesky girls who won't get off of you IMO. Besides have to go with the whole disease thing here, condoms aren't fool proof at preventing them but pretty effective as a whole. That stripper isn't giving you her special just for you bare services, god only knows how many other bare dicks have been in her.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Dang those look downright painful.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Life is too short to worry too much about someone you literally pay to be with you getting upset about you not being exclusive. Yes I'll admit that I would not go out of my way to hurt a girl I have a good time with, but if you want to shop around its your money. I have been on the other end of it where there was another guy there and not getting "my" girl.
discussion comment
2 years ago
I'm going to chime in here
1. Literally no job out there am I required to tip someone. I do it out of my own choice and that choice is largely based on how our interaction goes. If you treat me bad why should I pay you for said treatment?
2. What I do with my time is no ones concern but my own. If I want to go to a club and just drink that is my choice, frankly its more appealing than most bars since I get to look at women in states of undress. Also a similar point to #1 maybe no one there is anyone I want to spend on and as a result I wind up just drinking.
3. Largely dependent on the club and whether or not prices are clearly stated, plenty of dancers will try and gouge customers because they know the prices aren't readily available via signage and such. Also see #7 as that is most of the bargaining that tends to go down.
4. A bad choice in my opinion but to each their own.
5. Every story has 2 sides to it. While I generally agree on not being rude or disrespectful, I can tell you that if you treat me like shit I may just treat you like shit in return.
6. I don't and I can't condone others who do/would.
7. Naïve is the word for this point. While some men don't or even wouldn't this is part of the territory. Yeah, yeah prostitution and so on, but lets face it if you're not providing the services I bet one of your coworkers is. The guy is not implying you have to do such and such just merely asking.
8. Generally agree, but still a bit naïve. While it is good manners certain touching is fairly standard. Touching the V and so on are the types of things you should definitely clear first.
9. Something like this is silly if you get to know the dancer well enough it might come up without asking. If it doesn't then well its not your business.
discussion comment
3 years ago
I mean granted I'm not looking to run anyone over but at times I've considered it. I have never understood the mentality in a parking lot and assuming that a driver will not run you over. The thing I just can't get past is the assumption that the driver actually sees you and will stop, like no one ever gets distracted. When I'm walking anywhere in the vicinity of cars I'm well aware that I will always lose the battle if the car hits me, so its in my interest to get out of the way.
discussion comment
3 years ago
1)&2) Really depend on where you work. I mean if the girl can work in the bigger cities and clubs they'll most likely make way more than enough to not need the second job. If the girl is working in a tiny town with only a couple or maybe 1 club its very unlikely they're getting enough traffic to have enough really good days. I've known at least one girl that would work Mon-Fri at the regular job and then show up on friday evening and saturday.
3) Its a mostly cash business means that the strip club itself probably doesn't give accurate reports on money in and payouts (I mean they have taxes on earnings too), then you're asking the stripper to be 100% honest about actual income. I mean come on its easy to underreport for the food stamps etc. especially if you're a "single" mom. I think only those that are having the second job you're asking about are potentially making enough that is reported for them not to at least have the option to be on some form of assistance.
discussion comment
3 years ago
Lets face it going out to eat a steak(at a reputable place) has always been crazy expensive, but now I mean even to buy a steak to cook yourself is getting ridiculously expensive which will just drive the price even higher at that steak house. I mean a damn good steak could be worth it, but unless you're just rolling in cash the sticker shock is crazy anymore.
discussion comment
3 years ago
There is no such thing as a union that goes across all companies. Yes there are several national type unions that have local branches but each and every company has to be put under a contract specific for them. It goes something like: hey you want to join a union?, if enough interest is shown its put to a formal vote by the affected employees and if its greater than 50% ok you are now a bargaining unit, several years later here's the proposed contract (which is probably not worth the paper its printed on) and this is only for actual employees btw, independent contractors are not employees(of said company).
discussion comment
3 years ago
In the club I went to enough both prior to shutdown and post the atmosphere is quite different and it seems like on average there are fewer girls working. From some of the stuff I've been reading I feel like a lot of other clubs have run into similar problems with getting girls to work. I think a lot of the complaining stems from just how different some clubs have become from pre covid standards.
review comment
3 years ago
I'm just confused now after reading this review.
discussion comment
3 years ago
@njballa in your muddy comment I think you’re confused, he was asking about after a stage set not after a vip/ lap dance with another guy.
Besides if she had provided extras I’d be more concerned about other things being shoved down her throat.
I think the time after the stage set can be for any number of reasons. I will say though that it’s an easy out to chill away from the guys.
discussion comment
3 years ago
ATACdawg “ I have relatively little time or sympathy for celebs who sue for $50M for questionable damages”
I’m not sure how you say questionable damages considering he got let go from his role in this latest Harry Potter, he was initially going to be 100% not allowed to play jack sparrow in future pirates projects, and was more or less black balled because of me too. I mean being called a wife beater and consequently losing millions from movie roles is damaging.
Now I think that Hollywood will be more willing to work with him after all this stuff has come out and I’m not saying I feel bad on the money thing just that the article was damaging.
discussion comment
3 years ago
This is one of those situations where your dick led you into a nightmare of a relationship. Man I like fucking her let’s have a relationship. What the hell dick this is not worth it.
discussion comment
3 years ago
Its not too big of an age gap as far as he is concerned, I mean who doesn't want a hot younger sexual partner (within legal parameters). The whole kid thing is where the age thing gets uncomfortable.
discussion comment
3 years ago
If you're hot, you're hot. Plenty of older guys are looking for experienced girls and plenty of younger guys are looking for a MILF. You may not be the hot blonde baby stripper that also gets loads of attention but there's still a market for you. A strip club is selling a fantasy and at some point your age will show enough that it will turn more and more people off of that fantasy. Strip for another 5 years if you want to and the money is there. I think the age thing only becomes a factor if you're bottom line starts hurting.
discussion comment
3 years ago
@ilbb There's not really "the" right price, there's a demand curve.
Exactly I mean the reality is that no matter your wanted price either as a customer or a stripper, the market will only allow so much fluctuation for a “right” price. I’m not 100% on the soreness aspect, I mean it probably does play a part, but at the same time people want what they want and if you’re going to try and charge much above your standard they may just pass, you may have made your nightly “quota” but I mean what about that coming sucky day where you make virtually nothing because it’s slow af.
discussion comment
3 years ago
I guess I’ll just keep replying to this thread that I’m not really sure needs anymore discussion. Unless the guy in question has any real life dirt on you why does it matter as far as this site goes? I’m assuming based on your not wanting to share he doesn’t know you irl, so screw him.
discussion comment
3 years ago
Like rick said ymmv. The longer you know a girl or a girl knows of you by association can make a difference on what is available to you. I mean I could tell you girl A does X and then she says no I don't do that when you ask her about it. So even if I were inclined to tell you about my experiences they may not hold true.
discussion comment
3 years ago
I'm as confused as others on what you mean by out you. What you choose to share is your business.
discussion comment
3 years ago
I think a lot of the girls posting the 5k either don't want to do the extras or think they are so dang hot you're lucky to be in their presence. For realist pricing a lot depends on the area you're working in, the clubs you're working in, and the competition. More run down clubs will mean you're not going to be able to charge near as much, higher end clubs probably will be able to ask more but will still be dependent on how many clubs I have a choice of as a customer and what your "friends" are charging. Strippers are there to make money dancing and taking off however much clothing is allowed, extras are not a guarantee. The girl only offers them for financial reasons and only she knows the state of her finances. I would never pretend to tell someone what to charge, I can only tell you yes or no if you quote a price. And realistically I'm not paying significantly more regardless of the girl.
discussion comment
3 years ago
Well I mean if you think you can get that extra 1500/ month why not I guess? He was either going to get it or be able to legally evict and charge more to someone else even if it was only say a couple hundred more he wins either way. Like TheeOsU says publicity is always good and the victim mentality sells for news.