someone has threatened to Out me for not sharing info
K
New Jersey
Someone has threatened to out me for not sharing details on who does what at a particular club because I don't know him, and his account was opened only a few months ago. He thinks on his say so, no one will share any information with me going forward.
First: I will not share information about extras or any potentially illegal activities with anyone I do not know. I expect the same treatment from others.
Second: Am I wrong, should i share such information with people i don't know with only a few months of history on the site? Do you think he is throwing a hissy fit because he can't work up the balls to ask a dancer what's on her menu?
I was going to post our conversation but that is in private messaging so I will respect the private in private messaging for now.
First: I will not share information about extras or any potentially illegal activities with anyone I do not know. I expect the same treatment from others.
Second: Am I wrong, should i share such information with people i don't know with only a few months of history on the site? Do you think he is throwing a hissy fit because he can't work up the balls to ask a dancer what's on her menu?
I was going to post our conversation but that is in private messaging so I will respect the private in private messaging for now.
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I wouldn't share info with a nobody either.
As for the PMs, his unsolicited and threatening behavior makes him fair game for outing.
That guy is just a fucking asshole for getting upset over you not giving him info. Chances are he is just an sjg level creep that can't talk to women in person to ask them what's available and probably doesn't have the funds to pay them if he does grow the balls to ask.
At any rate, I’d ignore him and certainly wouldn’t share info. If you don’t know the guy and he’s got no history here as being credible, he’s showing his character and it’s not looking good. You wouldn’t be doing dancers, customers or anyone else any good by knuckling under to the person.
I had something sort of like this happen once. When I refused to give the answers someone with no history was seeking, he replied with mocking and added a racist screed. Fuck that. The ignore feature is very useful in that case.
I was also curious about the current opinion on sharing such info. It is safe to say that the veterans of this site still think we should not share such info.
A lot of times I think guys are embarrassed to say “I spent $500 and jerked myself off,” as that happens a lot more to even experienced PLs on here than most realize. Others have an ATF at a specific club and they don’t want to share her and we all can certainly understand that as well.
To threaten another member on here for lack of details is childish, not sure how this member is going to “out” you if you’re not concerned with personal info being leaked…
In our PM's he frequently misrepresents what i posted to him.
He said he would tell others I refused to share info about who gives HJs or more and I'd be blackballed. I'm paraphrasing a bit.
My OP was partially to annoy him. Childish of me but he started it. Partially it was to get out ahead of him misrepresenting my comments either in a public post or PM to others.
I also wanted to get I feel for the consensus on sharing such info. So far, either in public posts or PM, not one person disagrees with me that such info should only be shared with those we know or have sufficient reason to believe they are safe. Even then, what I share is up to me
When a stripper agrees to OTC or does something extraordinary ITC, it immediately triggers in me an obligation to keep her confidence. YMMV can have real meaning with some girls, especially in a moderately conservative clubbing area like this. But even with girls who are widely known to do xyz, I still wouldn't run my mouth, though tbh I do try to avoid these girls to begin with.
IMO and IME this approach has paid big dividends over the years. It's not only guys who have asked me for information - plenty of dancers have too. One even tried to coax intel out of me about another dancer while she was sucking my dick - I shit you not. Ultimately dancers come to understand who will keep their mouths shut and who has diarrhea of the tongue, especially in smaller club venues with the same guys visiting over and over. I'm utterly convinced that having a rep as a rock has resulted in some OTC adventures with girls who would otherwise never have agreed to meet up outside.
I'm also not sure what "out you" means in this context. Is he threatening to publicly share your name and identity, or is he threatening to tell other TUSCL users that you won't share the exact details regarding dancers and extras?
To be honest, in either case I'd screen capture those messages and send them to founder. No dancer or customer should be subjected to any sort of extortion on this site.
I've had numerous people ask me for specifics regarding dancers by name. With the exception of two, maybe three, users who have a long history here, I *never* share that information. Sometimes I politely reply to PMs saying that, or I just don't reply.
For what it's worth, I deal with fewer tantrums by just not replying.
Stop talking to that person?? This is silly.
You talking ‘bout Icey again?!?!
He is on ignore now. His tantrums have ceased to be amusing.
I'd bet founder has the ability to access any part of his site which means all K would have to do is just tell him to have a look at the PMs involved.
Who fucking cares what some anonymous handle on a strip club website says? Half of the fucking posters on here lie through their teeth, and half don't do anything but lie about other posters. Unless he can actually doxx you, what do you care what he threatens on this site? If it is true, tell us who it is. We'll fucking razz and heckle him and move on.
Man the fuck up.
I replied with a similar length message with details.
I didn’t want to post a snarky reply to him, and get into a feud, so I exerted as much effort as he did to write his message.
"Blackball" you how? Try to discourage other guys from sharing local club intel? Maybe trash you with a few of the dancers working in your favorite clubs?
Good luck with that. But even if he could manage to get some traction, how much do rely upon other guys for intel in your go-to clubs anyway? I don't know about you but I'm long past needing other locals to clue me in on how to have fun in my go-to clubs.
I also don't care if a subset of dancers doesn't like me. There are always more than enough good ones eager to take my money and I have no doubt that the same would apply to you.
Shit in one club recently a handful of girls were in the DR speculating about who I was taking OTC and generally warning others that landing this was my primary goal. How did I even know? Because that little bitch fest actually encouraged a girl who had I had seen ITC several times but never spoken with before to come over and start chatting. And yes, two days later she was with me in a notel room. There is no Ya Ya Sisterhood when a girl has to pay the bills. 😉
So that was a very longwinded way of saying: Fuck him and let him take his best shot, lol.
If you're procuring prostitution by telling other guys who is or isn't a hoe in a club. Doesn't matter who you send her way as a customer.
What can he call you out on? Telling hoes you're talking about them on tuscl? Post in discussions that you're not procuring a hoe for him?
Ignore him....
You really should shut the fuck up you are such an obvious moron and a troll
I may be a drunk pathetic old trick, but I am no troll. I do admit to looking like one.
K has been a long time member, and a long time monger. I doubt the dude giving him shit has been around here as long.
New Jersey mongers are a special breed of filth! Lol!
Good post. I have had one dancer who seemed odd, behaving differently from
All the other dancers. In the first dance, asking me things like if i love her, pulling my hair crazily. When i asked her about otc, she didnt give a yes or no, her answer was literally asking me if ive done that with anyone else from the club and more nosy questions like if it was my house. I asked her why and her answer was shes just making conversation. This dancer acted crazy in the dances, but didnt want to break the rules or do extras other than grabbing the dick through the pants. She seemed very jealous, always asking about my favorites. It sent chills down my spine, and any boner i had vanished into a turtle. I wonder what she would have done with the info had I given her names of any dancers into OTC or who had done extras or broken rules.
A lot of times I think guys are embarrassed to say “I spent $500 and jerked myself off,” as that happens a lot more to even experienced PLs on here than most realize. Others have an ATF at a specific club and they don’t want to share her and we all can certainly understand that as well. ”
So guys literally jerked themselves after spending $500? How/why?
They dont want to share the ATF...? That seems nonsensical... the ATF is already getting dances from many other men.
“ One even tried to coax intel out of me about another dancer while she was sucking my dick - I shit you not. Ultimately dancers come to understand who will keep their mouths shut and who has diarrhea of the tongue, ”
Rick, are you into fecal play...?