Comments by merlin05

I don't think this is so suspicious actually and I did something very similar. Basically the discussions here are open for everyone to see so I was lurking here and was sort of like, "Holy shit, I need that with my boring ass sex life (married for a long time)." I just spent $100 or whatever on a lifetime VIP membership so I could check out all the local clubs prior to visiting and I'm damn glad I did as I was able to land a nice CBJ on my first outing since I knew the club I was going to was an extras club and was able to understand a respond appropriatly to the VIP menu when it was presented. Had I not read up, I may not have actually understood exactly what was being offered. To the OP, the main thing I can offer is just to repeat the advise to read all the reviews. If you are in the type of club where they basically just come out and offer extras (although sometimes in a subtle way), you'll know by the reviews and can respond appropriatly. Short of that kind of club, I agree with everyone else to just go and have a good time until you get comfortable with the scene. I've been to 1-2 clubs in RI actually years ago for a buddies batchelor party and had a hell of a good time and suspect you'll be able to find an extras club up there pretty easy.

I think a muck more interesting way of phrasing/answering the question is what percentage of pretax income?

Dude, every day of life is about calculating risk, not whether or not to take them. Buying life insurance, a risk. Not buying life insurance, a risk. Starting a business, a risk. Keeping your same shitty job, a risk. Etc., etc., etc. It isn't about whether or not to take them, it is about knowing how to calculate them so you can benefit from them more often than not.

Wtf?!

Oops, what I meant to say was... I'm pretty new to this but I agree that sex with 6 or lower seems pretty easy in a lot of dive clubs. Meanwhile, finding any 7 or better in these same clubs can be tough and if you do, they are often "top dog" and much less eager to please. However, a bj from a 6 can be way better than angry looks from your 8 wife.

I'm pretty new to this but I agree that sex with <7 seems pretty easy to get a a lot of dive clubs. Meanwhile, it's hard to find a >7 at these same clubs and if you do, they are the "top dog" and don't seem as eager to please. Meanwhile, that 7 is a 5 OTC with her clothes on. Still, a BJ from a 6 is often better than nothing from your 8 wife.

^^^ Haha. Bingo

oh, the internet is so full of things I could link to right now...

I'm solo this weekend and was looking forward to visiting my local recently discovered extras club tonight but I nicked myself this morning in two places while doing exactly what this thread describes. It isn't too bad but noticable if she takes a close look and most certainly makes BB very out of the quesiton. I'm wondering now if I should bail out or maybe check out another club that I doubt has much in the way of extras. What do you guys think?

Tonight I'm gonna try, "Would you like to negotiate your tip ahead of time?" as a not too perverted PL way of opening up the extras conversation when conversation turns to the VIP/Champagne. I think this will turn the tables a bit it so she is in the position to try and sell me rather than the other way around. We'll see how it works.

RickDugan nailed it. Nude in NY is no-alcohol and I would prefer topless with drinks, all else being equal. Just makes things a bit more casual and fun.

Wow, we really need an edit function - sorry about the atrocious spelling!

Also Yes, use the money to pay for college. Be the girl the guy goes to a stip club to keep it interesting with because he wants to spend the rest if his life with her (even if the sex sucks). Not the girl he wants to pimp out, do drugs with, or leech off of.

F'ing Siri, sorry about the typos :(

My advise is that sensuality is making a come-back so know how to be seductive and classy. It will benefit you when dancing and later in life as well. Also realize however that you represent a fantasy to a lot of good guys that just aren't being taken care if by their SOs and turn to you for a safe and low-risk release from their boring ass "home" lives. If your willing to play a little out of bounds but still be PROFESSIONAL, you are actually helping save a lot of otherwise good marriages and hopefully making goodminey and having fun in the process. Come to NY!

Hey Papi, thanks for taking the time for the long write up and great advise. They actually had a printed "menu" for the room fee and that was paid at the reguster and that price has been confirmed by other reviews. It also serms like the going tip rate is that again but I only had $100 on me so I sort of think that is why she covered up. Anyway, when you haven't had your dick sucked in a decade, I was sort of glad it was civered as I got a few extra minutes out of it lol. Anyway, I left happy but have plenty of room for improvement as well which is why I really appreciate all the advise. It's going to be a fun ride and I place a lot of value on the simplicity and spontaneity of it which if I can mive up the hotness scale a bit, I'll be a happy camper.

@JohnSmity69 - Wow, that's a damn good story! Thanks PensionKing and others for the recomendations.

I did write a review originally but decided against posting it because I wasn't a VIP member at the time and wasn't sure how much detail was appropriate to go into because I wasn't able to see the other reviews. I've since just bought a lifetime VIP membership though so I'll get around to writing a review soon now that I've read others and have some context. Seems like my experience at this place is pretty common.

I personally avoid going to a SC in anything that requires dry cleaning to get the glitter or that SC smell out of it.

Thanks for sharing. What other places in the area (30-45 min) woukd you suggest? Dancer safety has to be a priority, without comfortable dancers, their can't be comfortable customers.

awesome review!

Great article. Thanks for writing.