Comments by Cashman1234 (page 3)

That’s another topic Dolfan! I’ve seen dancers posting about crypto scams - and even more sketchy scams. I think the idea of a get rich quick scheme is appealing to some, and they don’t understand the pitfalls of those scams. I was friendly with a stripper who wasted money on one scam, and since I’m a banker, she thought I could get the money back for her. It was an obvious scam, and the scammer threatened her to send in more money. I told her to ignore it, as she already wasted enough money. Sadly, she sent more money, and she never got any back. I wish she asked me before she sent any money.

I avoid going from club to club if I am staying in my local area. I know the area and the club offerings, and I usually hit my favorite first - so if my favorite is a bust - the next one down the list has much lower expectations. When I would travel for business, I would limit any club nights to a max of two clubs. I think that any more is just trying too hard to turn a bad night around.

I agree with many of the comments posted here. To flip it around, I find it odd when a stripper posts her club info on her IG when she uses the same IG for family stuff. Seeing a hot looking girl in a g-string in a strip club - and then seeing photos of her with her kids - or baby daddy - is a bit odd too.

This is a silly and stupid lawsuit. Wall Street smart doesn’t appear to correlate with Strip Club smart.

Drew answered it properly.

Shailynn - it can take the edge off of a Friday in the office. A good handy is sadly becoming a lost art…

^ Really? You should not use dancer names and specific acts in discussions.

Jzan, I may be a frequent customer at certain extras clubs in northern NJ. After seeing the photos you posted, I think you would do very well at those clubs. You have a cute look, you are buxom and you have some sweet curves - and with your ability to carry a discussion - I think you could make bank at any club you work. There’s no fingering allowed in NJ clubs! What sort of uncultured perverts do you think we are Blah?! And $25 is a bit rich for my fingers…

Julia - I don’t remember ever going to a club called the Erotic Cafe. I know club names change, and I used to be a heavy drinker, so if it was in northeast NJ, I may not remember it. I don’t pay much attention to the other customers in strip clubs. Unless someone is acting like a fool, I likely wouldn’t notice them (or their nationality). I prefer to focus on the hot dancers on stage. That view is more attractive.

Studme53 - I’ve only used blown. But, I am not sure what the proper past tense would be.

I agree largely with the consensus, as stage energy doesn’t always translate to a great time when getting dances. Past performance is the only reliable method of knowing if a girl will be a fun trip to VIP. That can also change, as everyone has bad (or low energy) days. I had one dancer who had one of those resting bitch faces on stage - and her body was not tight or dancer-like. It was coming up on a stripper shift change - so I decided to take her for a few dances. She was amazing in the back room - and she had a quirky sense of humor (that worked perfectly for me). We got a table after and had a good time - and we then enjoyed a great time in VIP later. It’s difficult to judge a book by its cover…

Maybe Apoopdeep can offer some insight? If he’s still around.

I’ve yet to encounter a dancer from India in my strip club visits. There are a good number of folks from India in the northeastern part of NJ. But, I’ve never seen one dance in a club.

Mate27 - that’s a great joke! Lol!

I think Ishmael handled it pretty well, and avoided the highly political areas.

I strongly doubt the OP is correct in his statement. I’m not sure of the reason for creating this discussion either. Maybe the OP is paranoid?

Calling a blow job a blowie makes the OP sound like a juvenile. When you find a dancer who knows how to suck cock, it can change everything. There are some girls who make it feel incredible and the orgasms are intense.

The NJ clubs I usually enjoy seem to have a decent cross section of guys. I tend to not pay much attention to other guys in a strip club, but I think it depends on the club.

It’s bizarre that she commented that her not getting re-elected was because she was treated unfairly because of her race and gender. Yet, those two qualities may have been why she was initially elected as mayor. I think that allowing Chicago to become one of the nation’s more dangerous cities for shootings likely had an effect on her not getting re-elected more so that her race and gender.

The arguments Mate continues to make don’t seem to help his cause. If he believes the dancer wants him to cum in his pants, then there should be no issue for him to tell the dancer in advance (that he is prone to cuming in his pants). Then, if the dancer knows and moves forward, the consent could be implied.

Rick Dugan, I agree regarding consent. I think Mate has run out of reasonable arguments to justify his behavior, and has resorted to baseless attacks against you and Drew Carey. If he was a reasonable guy, he would own up to his behavior and begin to inform dancers before he ejaculates in his pants. Telling us that 99% of strippers love it isn’t helping his argument. That’s simply what he wants to believe.

I don’t care to remember stage names. It’s kinda silly when you think that the same girl is Bubbles at The Titty Twister on Tuesday, and she’s Bentley at The Tug and Rub on Wednesday, and then she’s Ariel at Buck Rubs on Thursday. I had a dancer who wanted me to come and go directly to VIP to meet her. Since the house mom was a stickler, she had to tell her my name. I told the dancer that today your stage name is Mary and I am Joseph. That made it easy.

The argument from many guys who jizz their pants without telling a dancer, is not an effective argument. The guys who try to tell others that they are worse for offering a dancer money to go OTC, aren’t making a logical argument. The entire OTC experience is consentual. I’ve never ripped off my condom and jizzed on an unsuspecting stripper. That would be the only comparable way to engage in OTC that might approach a stealth pants jizzing. When a guy says that grinding on my hard on through my pants is something that dancers know will make me cum, that’s not true. That is not a good argument. It’s not that I think you are having fun the wrong way. I simply believe the dancer should be informed in advance that you can’t (or won’t) control your ejaculation, and you might cum in your pants while she grinds.

I don’t watch much streaming content. I’ve tried a few streaming series, and since I don’t watch much television, I get too far behind. I tried Outlander, but I got bored with it. I like Peaky Blinders so far. I think I’ve made it to the second season. The show I’ve recently started is The Sinner. It’s pretty good, and the guy Bill Pullman is an interesting character. That’s all I’ve got.

There are too many holes in these different reports being strung together. It doesn’t make sense that the money supply fell from Oct-Dec 2022. The velocity of money increases during the holidays, and that makes the theory questionable. In order for the Fed to think the rate increases are slowing the economy, they will need to factor out so much of the PPI, it would almost appear to be cherry picking. The effects of the last congress’ spending - and the current President’s policies - won’t be fully felt for years. That doesn’t mean the Fed won’t act presumptively, and push more increases. Powell had said he won’t take away the punch bowl when the party gets going. I will wait and see if he alters course with planned increases. The markets have largely factored the increases in for 2023.