There aren't many Indian (dot-not-feather) strippers. They are the real unicorns. If you were to find one and take her to VIP, this is what it would be like https://youtu.be/mi106DZJhuQ
I know culturally speaking they focus on family and their norms are to stick together. It’s hard to start from the locks of their family unit, so if there are any Indians dancing what sort of distance from their ties occurred? They‘d almost have to integrate to another culture. I don’t see any Indian gang bangers either, drug dealers or crime lords. As a whole they don’t stray from their family ties. Whenever an Indian gives birth, they have their whole extended family at the event welcoming the new member of their family into life. It may explain the low sightings at the club, from a culture standpoint.
There's a Pakistani dancer I used to VIP with. It was pretty much like all the others except she was too concerned with the other girls I had my eye on.
I've only ever seen one Indian dancer in a club, at Sundowners Niagara Falls, a long time ago.
But I've dated my share of Indian/South Asian women, and most of the ones who date non-Indian guys are nuts. Usually rebelling against their tyrannical family norms and taking it to extremes.
I put my two cents in a couple of PM's, but wouldn't completely disagree with what Tetradon said. I'd chalk it up to questioning their entire belief system rather than being nuts, but maybe it takes being a little batshit to give the finger to everything a person's been conditioned to think over their entire life.
I had a little Indian stripper I liked named Sonya who I did lap dances with several times. This was in a strip club where on weekend nights you might have fifty strippers and she was at the top of my list to get lap dances from.
@Wallanon, you're right, it's both. Well adjusted people don't feel the need to overreact to their upbringing. And if they're happy being what they are, they won't rebel in the first place.
But when every female in your family tells you they're going to waste away and die because you're dating someone from the wrong caste, and dating a non Indian is completely beyond the pale, there's no subtle way to disobey such a strict binary.
I've see one in Pandora's once. Either Indian or Pakistani. There are lots of beautiful dot-not-feather Indian girls, the ones I run across come from wealthy families, are overeducated, conservative, and very career/success focused. So at least in the PNW, there's probably less broke girls with low moral standards that would turn to stripping. But give these people a couple of generations in the USA to devolve, and there will be plenty of Indian girls with valley girl accents giving lappers. It's inevitable.
I met a girl on Seeking that was a Catfish in reverse. She put photos of a different girl, a Caucasian girl, on her profile. She shows up and she was even more beautiful than the girl in the photos. She said the Indian community in her area was very small so if she actually put her photos on Seeking, then it would get around very quickly. Very intelligent, came from a very wealthy family, very educated. Worked as a bartender, but had very expensive tastes. So her second gig was a sugar baby to support her lifestyle.
Sugar baby - That's what they want to call themselves when they don't want to be called escorts.
I met 9 Indian origin strippers so far - 2 in Seattle 10 years ago, 1 in Los Angeles 8 years ago, 2 in San Francisco 7 years ago, 1 in New York 5 years ago, 3 in New Jersey 4 years ago.
I work in high-tech, and today I work for an India-based company (what China did to global manufacturing, India is doing to IT). Yes, they are heavily family oriented. Several years ago I managed a few who were in India when I worked at Cisco. I learned that meals are a really big socialization deal, company paid for and they get paid diddly-squat over there. I had to learn a lot about their culture, yet, when it came to adapting to American cultural norms they had no interest (read on).
Today, I'm not a manager, a technology "individual contributor" architect The ones, men and women, I work with tend be subservient to the manager - it amazes me what these managers get away with - "The beatings will continue until morale improves". When told you need to step-up there is someone there to body-check you like the Hanson Brothers (I love "Slap Shot"). There are a few women I work with that are "Americanized" and became US citizens. They are loyal to family, they'll go back to India for a family wedding and be gone for 2 weeks. Yet, they don't take well to being controlled by managers and step up - I consider them part of my "inner circle" I work closely with.
I get that India girls are probably rare in the USA and family values take over. I don't go to clubs very often but I've never see a stripper from that region.
It might get more common down the road. One thing south Asian immigration into America seems kind of new but you see that group popping up in all sorts of places in America now you never thought you would.
This is something I would expect to change in the next 20-30 years at least in parts of the country with decent sized Indian communities.
First generation Indians living in America are usually high caste, high income workers. The whole "they are programmers who work in Tech" is really true.
Their daughters are going to college. They can become Americanized; I had a FWB in grad school who was American born Indian American and acted like a typical sorority girl (with a STEM degree). She also was quite a slut with a thing for white boys.
The third generation is really where all bets are off.
I think it's more about culture than income. The further you get (or flee) from the motherland, or close-knit immigrant communities, the more you become American in every other way.
I've banged a couple "high income" Indian girls, a medical doctor (born here) and a software engineer (born there). Former was just a party girl who I saw chase pills (that she and her friends prescribed one another) with wine/vodka several times. I don't know who the fuck gave her a medical license. Software engineer was the rebel against an uptight and once-abusive "daddy" and thought crushing American D was a great way to do so. Both of them had the dirtiest mouths and fucked like hellcats--I'm popping a stiffy at the memories.
It's the ones who have accepted their culture and have good relationships with their family (especially their fathers) who are off-limits to non-Indians. Going to a top undergrad, I knew a lot of Indian hotties that didn't know how hot they were--doubly sheltered from their tight-knit immigrant families and focusing on academics. Some of them married (probably arranged) some pimply, four-eyed, fat geeks. I don't know if the latter knew how fucking lucky they were.
I love, love, love Indian women. Always wondered if that rumour that many of many of their famous models and Bollywood actresses secretly being escorts is true. I’d be willing to spend serious money, but haven’t had luck finding info on that whatsoever. My guess is that the he scene in India is mostly massage parlors? What do y’all think?
I met one at Oasis in Atlanta one time. Got dances but not VIP. She was fairly hot but didn’t seem like a VIP candidate at least superficially. I did have an Indian girl working out of a London flat once.Good looking Indian prostitutes can be found in London but they’re not very common. I’m not an expert on that scene though.
if they introduce an easy dancer work visa, then you may see a lot in clubs, that too they use it for few years settle down in a different profession. lol
Our company had a college intern that was either 2nd or 3rd generation Indian. Her family was in a different part of the country. No accent and was in a sorority. A solid 8+. Dressed fairly provocatively for an office environment. She was a partying slut. After many drinks she told me she had worked at a strip club for about 2 weeks (a known extras club). As she put it , she was getting plenty of cash and dick. Whenever an Indian guy came in "to fuck white bitches" they would see her and scream at her, throw drinks at her, etc. The club finally fired her because her presence upset the Indian high roller customers. Apparently they would not fuck white bitches until she was out of sight. Cash is king.
^^^ gold, good story. I never have seen Indian high rollers in a club. Most of the dancers say they are waste of time. Which club is that? So, i can believe your story.
Tattletales in Atlanta. The story was told to me about 5 years ago. I have seen Indian guys rarely. They are probably 2nd or 3rd generation, too. These are probably the guys that go and wreck their Ferrari's. Atlanta has quite a few rich Indians living the western lifestyle.
I got the impression this was one small group of big spenders that were there often. They just did not want an Indian woman in their presence.
These are the indian twins at go go rama. I used to see them quite a bit for the novelty. They were pretty hot and one was fun in the VIP, but after discovering brazilians its pretty much game over for any other ethnicity. Would have been fun if the club was high mileage to cross that off my list but not one of those clubs where girls need to. The twins retire and unretire at a whim and I dont think anyone has seen them. There is another novelty girl there. A bronze thick pinay named Ashley. She is one of the best in NJ, but again hard to top brazilians
*also a wierd thing about indian strippers. Indian guys love strip clubs. Those two had a following of indian tech guys who basically thought they had priority service when they walked in the club and sometimes told the girls they should only dance for indian guys. The girls hated them with a vengeance.
I wonder if that was the issue with the guys in ATL. The girl I was referring to was dancing for white and black guys (in a club where all extras are common in VIP).
@gold yeah in NJ there's alot of that stuff. And its not just indians. Hacidic jews are hornballs. One guy comes into clancys looking like a rabbi and takes 2 or 3 girls to the VIP before slinking out the side entrance. Its because a lot of these cultures are forced into marriage at an early age and when that happens the women tend to look like shit. So the men need to go on the hunt for some strange. Thats why latinas are so hot, they cant keep a man and must keep themselves presentable for the next boyfriend.
BJBalla that’s a good point. There is a mix of ethnicities in many northeastern NJ clubs, and some of the different ethnicities have interesting habits.
I’ve not yet seen a Hasidic Jew visiting the nearby clubs, but that would be cool to see.
Indian stripper here as in the 7-11 people or engineers. I laugh hard at stereotypes. I just started stripping. If you're in Northern Massachusetts, I dance at The Club in Tyngsboro.
I didn't think anyone would care for an older indian stripper. Was I pleasantly surprised..I thought you gotta be early 20s, blonde, slim. I'm still sure they make the most. I realize guys have different preferences but just thinking about industry standards.
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There are a good number of folks from India in the northeastern part of NJ. But, I’ve never seen one dance in a club.
But I've dated my share of Indian/South Asian women, and most of the ones who date non-Indian guys are nuts. Usually rebelling against their tyrannical family norms and taking it to extremes.
But when every female in your family tells you they're going to waste away and die because you're dating someone from the wrong caste, and dating a non Indian is completely beyond the pale, there's no subtle way to disobey such a strict binary.
Prostitution is universal.
Sugar baby - That's what they want to call themselves when they don't want to be called escorts.
Today, I'm not a manager, a technology "individual contributor" architect The ones, men and women, I work with tend be subservient to the manager - it amazes me what these managers get away with - "The beatings will continue until morale improves". When told you need to step-up there is someone there to body-check you like the Hanson Brothers (I love "Slap Shot"). There are a few women I work with that are "Americanized" and became US citizens. They are loyal to family, they'll go back to India for a family wedding and be gone for 2 weeks. Yet, they don't take well to being controlled by managers and step up - I consider them part of my "inner circle" I work closely with.
I get that India girls are probably rare in the USA and family values take over. I don't go to clubs very often but I've never see a stripper from that region.
First generation Indians living in America are usually high caste, high income workers. The whole "they are programmers who work in Tech" is really true.
Their daughters are going to college. They can become Americanized; I had a FWB in grad school who was American born Indian American and acted like a typical sorority girl (with a STEM degree). She also was quite a slut with a thing for white boys.
The third generation is really where all bets are off.
I've banged a couple "high income" Indian girls, a medical doctor (born here) and a software engineer (born there). Former was just a party girl who I saw chase pills (that she and her friends prescribed one another) with wine/vodka several times. I don't know who the fuck gave her a medical license. Software engineer was the rebel against an uptight and once-abusive "daddy" and thought crushing American D was a great way to do so. Both of them had the dirtiest mouths and fucked like hellcats--I'm popping a stiffy at the memories.
It's the ones who have accepted their culture and have good relationships with their family (especially their fathers) who are off-limits to non-Indians. Going to a top undergrad, I knew a lot of Indian hotties that didn't know how hot they were--doubly sheltered from their tight-knit immigrant families and focusing on academics. Some of them married (probably arranged) some pimply, four-eyed, fat geeks. I don't know if the latter knew how fucking lucky they were.
Rollling my eyes
I got the impression this was one small group of big spenders that were there often. They just did not want an Indian woman in their presence.
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cncx0UmpLtE/
I’ve not yet seen a Hasidic Jew visiting the nearby clubs, but that would be cool to see.
I didn't think anyone would care for an older indian stripper. Was I pleasantly surprised..I thought you gotta be early 20s, blonde, slim. I'm still sure they make the most. I realize guys have different preferences but just thinking about industry standards.
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