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4 years ago
@spice / 17. I'll have to go with mid-tier with a low/medium volume. My social anxiety makes it very hard for me to make money during the weekends where the customers tend to fill the whole room and are much pickier/judgemental towards the selection of dancers. When the club is not that busy and the custies are actually trying to take a few minutes to connect and feel out their select dancer, I can actually focus on making them comfortable without the high hustle pressure, and there's a better success rate for selling dances - and in higher numbers. I find consistency to be much more preferable too. The last club I worked was definitely had high/low business flow and it was not worth the gamble to me.
I've had my share of success at dives because I tend to stand out a LOT more than their average selection of dancers as far as quality goes, but the clientele it attracts is not always the friendliest or have the slightest hint of etiquette when it comes to the dancers, how the club runs, or even to the customers around them. That's why I can only deal with Daytona seasonally. Heh.
@Muddy, thank YOU for giving me another way to distract myself from the lack of entertainment back home.
@Fish. There's a good chance it will be. (:
@Longball. Penthouse is closed?! I've been away longer than I thought... but Flight Club seems to be a highly repped alternative. And I vouch for pre-fire Gold Club 200%. It depresses me how bad business/management has turned out even after re-opening the whole club again. It used to be THE place to be, whether you were mongering or dancing there. I still talk to some of the girls that have been there for 10+ years before the fire occurred. There's no club like it in Jax as far as the vibe and dancer variety/interaction goes. Not even Wackos, which is the busiest club in town.
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4 years ago
1. For as long as there’s debt to wipe out and/or for as long as the longevity of my physical appearance goes far. Whenever I do retire from adult entertainment, I don’t want to have to worry about student loans, mortgage rates, auto loan, or credit card debt in the back of my mind anymore. Only then could I see myself settling for a vanilla job - but since I actually love this work, I can’t see that happening anytime soon. I think I’ve got enough time. The countdown to 30 has started, but people out in public still mistake me for a 16 year old and I’m still carded at the video game stores.
2. I wouldn’t mind dancing at Larry Flynt’s Hustler Club (in Vegas or St. Louis) or any of the Spearmint Rhino franchises (except the California locations.).
As far as what clubs I want to monger in…All of them? Too many, that’s for sure. Club XTC and Babydolls in Dallas, The Penthouse in Detroit, Upper Brass / Brass Rail in Toronto, Any-And-All-Clubs at Myrtle Beach are what come to the top of my mind.
3. Cities that I haven’t danced in already? I would have to go with Dallas or Houston, Miami, Myrtle Beach, Philadelphia, New Orleans, or Las Vegas. I’ve had fantasies of road tripping and dancing along as I drive around.
4. As a dancer, I feel like I haven’t really explored enough to know for sure what my favorite club is. All of the clubs I’ve worked at had their up and downsides, and I have yet to find one with that perfect ‘medium’, I suppose. Maybe I’m just burned out from the clubs in Jax.
As a customer, formerly Gold Club, but after a roof fire that did massive damage to the property and re-opening once they did renovations, the atmosphere just wasn’t the same anymore. But if we’re talking everywhere I’ve traveled… I’ll have to go with Follies. Because reasons.
5. You just want me to say trench coat.
6. Diamond Dolls in Daytona Beach. I danced for some thuggish kid that was coked or flocka’d out of his mind and was begging for my attention all night while I was busy and already attending to other custies (It was a champagne rooms galore kind of shift). All throughout the dances he’d be complaining and insulting me (You suck at grinding. C’mon kiss me already. Nevermind, your breath smells like dick. Why don’t you have no tits or ass to grab onto? Etc), but for some reason kept asking for dances again and again because he “knew I could do better”. I cut him off at 10 because he was incredibly rude throughout. Then he tried to say he wasn’t going to pay simply because he thought the dances sucked. It took talking to two bouncers, the general manager, and a law officer to pull up before he finally agreed to pay. This was 3 years ago and it still irks me to think about.
7. Business was suffering in clubs in the whole city and I had to prioritize earning money myself rather than throwing it all at the other dancers for the fun of it. That and I had to get my mental health in check because I was dealing with a long bout of depression because of said lack of business, so I no longer had the motivation to write reviews (didn’t have any good club visits to write about anyhow) or really interact with any of the other mongers.
After a while, I found a better club to work at and new medication to start for my anxiety (which I’m no longer taking), and I had a trip to So. Flo around the time my interest in TUSCL recovered. I love writing reviews on clubs when I’m exploring new turf, so after visiting 4 clubs with Papi all with different atmospheres and expectations, I think that’s what it took to press the last button to get me to return to TUSCL.
8. Don’t treat it like a marriage proposal, but don’t be tone deaf either. The humblest way to ask about OTC is simply asking if the dancer “Does meetups/anything outside the club?” usually after giving her some level of legitimacy by feeling each other out and then getting some dances from her first. The worst that can happen - just like dancers offering dances to custies - is that they say no. Some girls are all for it. Some may need a bit of convincing, whether if it’s the money for their time with you or whether or not you’re a serial rapist. Just communicate your proposition like a normal person and not like a creeper that hasn’t shot his load in 25 years or a stuck up Fortune 500 hustler because bragging (IMO) has the complete opposite impression.
9. I’ve had a handful dancers give me personally (and not the guy I was mongering with) their number for playtime outside the club, but nothing has actually happened. I think they give it to me as a way to possibly set a double OTC/threesome date with a guy and get money together since 80% of the time they have knowledge that I, too, am a dancer, or just maybe there’s a slight chance they’re total nymphos when they’re not working and just want to get down and dirty with a couple to release tension.
10. They’ve become numerous. Most recent and best is probably the time a dancer squirted on me after a long, handsy, sweaty, daytime private dance session (EastCoaster is a witness). https://tuscl.net/review.php?id=334117
11. Unlikely. Currently in a polyamorous relationship of almost 6 years, and if my partners and I can romantically or sexually adventure about with whomever, it wouldn’t make too much sense to be restrictive if it actually turned into a job (unless it’s for safety concerns, which have come up in the beginning, but have been settled since.). The primary partner I started it with met me at a strip club, and my other partner was/is in the adult industry himself too. I find that by default, it’s much easier for couples to be accepting of sex work if the other partner themself is a consumer or a provider of such.
12. I have very submissive tendencies, so usually, all of my ‘buttons’ get pushed and I get aroused more easily if the other partner is more dominant and assertive towards me - not necessarily during the actual fucking, but to fill the mood or put me in positions all throughout. Roughness/pain to a degree seldom concerns me. (Unless it’s from teeth whitening. You can’t pay me to do that shit again.)
13. When I’m literally T H I S close to cumming and they decide to switch up the technique that got me close to climax in the first place. This drives me up the fucking wall, to the sky, to the moon, and then back. If you already know you’re making me feel good, why make a change? Just why? Justwhyfdvbgnhmjh
14. Done MFF, done FFF, have not done MFM, but really fucking want to (unfortunately, neither of my partners are open to the idea, and it’s not something I’d do with complete strangers.)
15. The industry is huge. It would all really boil to whether she wants to work from home/online or face to face as both are very different hustles. If she’s absolutely uncomfortable with the idea of customers meeting or touching her and possibly violating boundaries or if she wants absolute control of her work schedule instead of committing to however long a shift, I’d recommend finding something online (ie: Webcamming, online seller, filming and posting her own amateur content, or some/all of the above with subscription-based platforms.). Or if she’d prefer to access quicker money, isn’t shy or conservative about her sexuality with other people present, and has no problem providing in-person entertainment in one way or another, then face to face work would be her speed (ie: Dancing, Escorting, Erotic Masseuse, Porn Actress, or a Pro Dom/Sub in the BDSM/Fetish market). Either way she chooses, she has to accept that it’s a very superficial and invasive line of work, there is a big number of predators that look specifically for the newbies to take advantage of them, guys and girls will be cunts straight to your face simply because they think you won’t say or do anything about it, and it requires a very thick skin to work through it.
16. It’s a dead tie between dancing in companionship. With dancing, if I’m not aimlessly throwing money away as soon as it’s handed to me, it’s very easy to build a savings/emergency fund, and it only took me about 6-8 months to get a car and my own place to escape from what felt like the house arrest I was under before I lived out on my own.
With companionship, if I felt the need to take a few weeks or a month off from dancing, all it would take me for my monthly earnings to be unchanged is to see just 1 or 2 clients a week for at least an hour - compared to working 5 or 6 nights a week at the club for 7-hour shifts. I honestly was not expecting the financial success I’ve gained when I first started this a little over a year ago, but I’m happy I didn’t wait any longer to start.
I tried to convince Muddy that my answers wouldn’t lengthen this to the size of a review or article, but you all know that was a big fat lie. LOL.
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4 years ago
Why are people... people?
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4 years ago
"You can stop wearing stripper heels all the time..."
Assuming I did have that freedom, I'm not gonna look at either the stage floor, the showroom floor, or the VIP floor, which have been covered by cigarette ash, spilled drinks, random hairs, body sweat, pussy discharge, and old calcified jizz, and assume it's okay to walk around barefoot on it.
The clubs in my town probably do a deep/pressure wash of the floors once a month, but all they're doing otherwise is sweeping them at the end of the night.
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4 years ago
Start looking for the term FFF (will Fuck For Flowers) to find all the hot So. Flo botanists.
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4 years ago
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#100!
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4 years ago
@shadow. I legit want to see the look on a guy's face when he sees me pull my panties down and sees a royal blue star-shaped bush on me. LOL
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4 years ago
Twerked until she literally couldn't stand it.
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4 years ago
That seems to be the viewpoint of a lot of girls. They know he's got a set budget, isn't too particular about who approaches him, so while girls won't try to claim him all to herself, there'll definitely be an internal race as to who can dance for him before he decides to leave.
(We have a regular like that at my club who stops in every other night and will usually be left alone for 10 minutes tops before a girl approaches him. It's rare for him to get dances from the same girl more than two or three times in a row.)
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4 years ago
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I don't care what anybody says. Worn correctly, trench coats are fucking panty vaporizers.
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4 years ago
I want sources.
Not that I disagree with the notion, but . . .
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4 years ago
Alcohol chills my nerves and multiplies my already high libido tenfold, no matter the type of drink.
Weed, I have to be careful with (especially edibles) as I am an ultra lightweight now after not smoking for almost 3 months - and even before then, I only used it socially or stuck with CBD. A small bowl is enough to give me an out of body experience in a parallel universe as all of my senses are on overdrive.
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4 years ago
Do you mean customers that come in regularly looking for a multitude/variety of girls on their visit?
If so, dancers tend to be much less territorial towards these types of custies. If anything they'll give notice to other girls - especially the ones that may be struggling that shift - if he's into more than one 'option'. The only downside is you may have less time to settle in once you enter the bar if girls know who you are and know that you like to explore your options.
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4 years ago
They seem ripe enough for plucking.
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4 years ago
75% of those risks you mentioned can apply to sex with anyone, not just with strippers. If STDs/pregnancy suddenly worries you more than usual because of COVID, then settle for regular lap dances or enforce protection during full service.
Or just don't have sex with strippers at all, but I get it. Where's the fun in that?
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4 years ago
I don't recall ever tending to my succulents with clothes on.
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Expressive.
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4 years ago
Maybe Juice meant that his tempurature rose to a Bazillion degrees after seeing this girl.
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4 years ago
No problems on my end. Firefox seldom gives me issues.
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4 years ago
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Meat
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
I feel like this is a trick question.
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4 years ago
Apparently Shadow is the Virgin Mary of TUSCL.
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Candy
(Be sure to refresh before you comment. LOL)
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Daddy