Comments by a21985 (page 17)

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MrDeuce - at least I can acknowledge its a weird quirk given my other occasional strip club dining habits...and awareness is the first step. I'd still question the kitchen's sanitary conditions, STD riddled, vagrant cumming line cooks or not. Strip clubs in Detroit somehow avoid the vice squad caring to do their due dilligence there, I don't think it's horribly unreasonable to believe they may not be living up to the food inspector's standards either.

Calling me an "belleigerent creep" and "internet tough guy" for calmly explaining to you how creepy the things you just said are (regardless of your initial intent and how normal they seemed to you) is just contributing to my belief you are concerning disconnected from reality...or somewhere on the autism spectrum (that's not an insult, it's an observation). Seriously dude, I'm not dougster trolling you, I pick on absolutely no one on this site more than playful ribbing, and I in general keep to myself. Take off your SJG goggles, take a step back and really try to see how creepy the shit you say can be taken (right or wrong, regardless of your intent). Just trying to help you out, playa.

2 things comes to mind with declining service from a CF/ATF: Complacency - you're sure thing regular who consistently pays. These girls, even the loyal ones are looking for the most pay for the least amount of putting out, which can lead to complacency with some of them. In those cases, sometimes a little unexpected competition by playing the field can restoke the flames in her bring her A game. Change in dancing style - dancers are humans too, they are allowed to change their minds about what they're comfortable with. Maybe she has a serious bf now and is self-concious about how far she goes with PLs, or maybe she had a bad experience ITC or her personal life recently that has her a little timid. Either way, it's a conversation to have with her directly if she is a dancer you are committed to continuing to be a regular of. Don't beat around the bush with her.

Throwing this out there, but I'm admittedly odd; the thought of eating food at a strip club nauseates me. I'm fine with DATY with a stripper ITC, but the heck if I want to eat the food. That sounds ridiculous, but I just can't get over the mental hump. The only time I ate anything at a club is when my ATF kept going on and on about the nachos her club had that day. She bought some for us even I said I didn't want any and made me eat some. They were nachos, they were edible, and I survived...but I still couldn't get past the mental block.

@sjg - I'm moron for bothering with you, but lets recap your two comments: Comment #1: "I like watching girls in parking lots. But not just in strip clubs. But I have to keep it within reason. And especially in strip clubs, the girls likely won't want to be observed." Logical Intepretation: You like to watch girls in any parking lot, even though you know they don't like to be watched, and you're self-concious of how obvious it is when you do so. That's kind of weird and creepy. I personally do not enjoy just sitting round in cars watching girls in parking lots, the fact in creeps out women is the exact reason I do not enjoy it. SJG comment #2: "a21985, respecting that women might not want to be watched, and especially showing up to work in a strip club is creepy, and serial killer level creepy? What sort of a dick head you must be." Logical intepretation: You either knowingly, or through social ineptitude assume that the serial killer like tendacy I got of your last post was the part where you acknowledge girls don't like to be stalked. You completely ignore the other half of your previous post that is the actually creepy part, you know, the part where you said you enjoy just watching girls in parking lots. But yeah, I'm the dickhead. I thought you were just loopy, but man are you disconnected from reality and living in your own made up world.

SJG, you've said a lot of odd, eccentric things and that's fine since you're quite a unique character, but that is just serial killer level creepy.

Oh, also to the OP, I don't know if anyone other comment touched on this, but it sounds likke you want to be what's known as a "bull." There are plenty of cuckold and/or hotwife couples that are easy to find and will let you get your wish without destroying a marriage. Unless destroying a marriage is what gets you off about the whole thing...which is a whole other can of worms that I ain't touching.

I cheat on my wife and I expect the strippers I fuck to not outwardly judge me on that (while respectinf the fact they are nothing more intimate than a pussy or warm mouth to me). I'd be hypocritcal to judge someone else on the other side of it, though I veer away from civvies entirely and keep to sex workers to keep it business. I only love and care about my wife despite my habit for sex with strippers. That said, to stereotype and overgeneralize, for a lot of men, sex is just sex, the physical act and nothing more. For many women (outside of sex workers), sex is more intimate and when they seek it outside of their existing relationship, it is more based on an emotional need, that's just their biology. To engage a married woman who is keeping this a secret from her mate seems to me as something more apt to destory a relationship than if it were a married man. Tread very very carefully.

Shadow - perfect solution for that dancer is to quit showing her cooter to her kid so much so it's not a regular topic of discussion. Anyways, I've always preferred fully shaved (I love DATY, but not if I have to clear a path through the forest first), but as it has become more popular to go more natural, I've (reluctantly) become more accepting of it. My wife use to shave it all off, but now over the past couple years only really does enough to make sure she is bikini presentable :/ .

Fish - I never initiate kissing, I always let that come from the dancer, front of the house or VIP. Anyways, if you're not talking VIP kissing, cheek and lip pecks have been commonplace with all of them in my experience, but only my ATF would initiate front of house DFKing often. Her schtick was GFE though, so I think kissing was a part of the business routine for her rather than a legit intimacy thing like some girls who let down their guard and start kissing in the VIP in the heat of the moment.

It used to be rare to me earlier on, but I can't seem to find a stripper that doesn't DFK in the VIP the past couple years. I've dfk'ed much more strippers than I have not in that time. I enjoy it and it's a plus in my book when a stripper does it because I know that for many, it's more intimate than wherever else their mouth goes. I will say that I will only engage in some really heavy DFK during the start of a girl's shift where the likelihood of her mouth being "familiar" with another man that day is substantially reduced.

For me as a PL, the advantage of being a regular is consistency: I know exactly what it's going to cost me, I don't have to play the game of finding a dancer who is going to give me what I want (or deal with too much SS and ROBs), my CF/ATF knows exactly what I want and gives me a level intimacy (often gfe) that a random dancer wouldn't. Also, in sone cases you can become decent friends (for me I prefer that to be plutonic) with these girls outside the club. Downside is the lack of variety, which I crave out of dancers as a married PL. Also, sometimes there's personal life drama that you're exposed to that can kill the fantasy. Additionally, as mentioned above, there is a feeling of guilt when you engage another dancer and sometimes your CF can harbor some toxic jealously as well when that happens.

Remy Lacroix Alexis Texas Mandy Muse I would die a very happy man if I got one go with any of the above ladies.

I saw that on the news yesterday where the played the 911 call, but I didn't know the backgroind story to it. And I don't see SJG as a kidnapper. I see him more as a guy who leaves love letters made from magizine clippings in the mailbox and then jerks off behind a bush as he watches them read it.

As always, I recommend Landing Strip, especially if you're looking for afternoon fun. It's not the most popular one for Detroit folks on this board, but when it comes to reasonably priced extras of all varities (if that's your thing), I've never not gotten what I was looking for in my many visits there.

Shocker is overrated. I'm all about that bowling ball grip.

Were you just finger banging her, or were rubbing her clit or finding her g spot? If you were just finger banging away thinking you'd get her to a climax, you should feel guilty since many/most women need clitoral stimulation for that to happen unless you have knack for effectively finding her g spot. Then again, it's an honor and a pleasure to be used as a sex toy for an attractive woman. I assume the HJ you got was on the house for the service you provided her?

Is the 500 bucks the pizza money your wife left you for the weekend? Personally, when my wife is out, I go to a lot of restaurants my wife never lets me eat at, and I do a lot of fully naked jerking off, the kind where you don't have to watch your clock or the door. You can bang a stripper or whore whenever, but naked jerks are rare. PS - Dave Chappelle's most recent netflix standup special as a piece about the elusive naked jerk that was so true and funny. My wife was wondering why I was cracking up so much during that bit...

Gammanu - there are few people as dedicated to trying to convince themselves and others that whites are never racist and blacks are the true racists as you are. Not trying to get into a debate on the topic, because I don't think it would be beneficial for either of us, but I find it hilarious how desperately hard you try every chance you are given. Shailynn - There was a really good episode of Anthony Bourdain a few years back where he went to Koreatown where they talked a lot about the riots themselves and the lasting impacting it had on them and that area to this day. Really sad how they were left to fend for themselves.

Teo, are you talking about that one that is a regular looking restaurant that has like a phone booth inside that opens up to a speakeasy? I think they had a segment in a travel channel show on it which kinda takes away the secret appeal.

It doesn't have the most fans on this board, and I'd consider it mid-tier, but I've never not had an amazing time at the Landing Strip.