Wife banger

Not worth-it - plenty of mes have lost their lives at the hands of a jealous S.O. - plus IMO it's bad karma to do certain things - there are other alternatives td getting laid so IMO best not to play w/ fire

I want to bang my boss - and she's married. Not sure if that counts.

We swing so over the past year I have banged a lot of other guy's wives: right in front of them.

No. I just want to have sex with hot women. A husband or boyfriend just adds drama and complexity. Neither of which are on my bucket list.

My long time FWB is married.

My ATF is married. Of course, I knew her, and was fucking her, before she even met the guy, so maybe that's the secret. Or maybe not. The MILF has been married for almost 10 years before I met her.

Back in my 20's I bagged about 5 of them. Now a days I'm not sure of how many because I don't know for sure how many of the strippers were married.

I'm sure a few of the strippers I've met have been married, but no one that I definately know for sure. I'd rather not know.

When I was married, I had a few of my wife's friends come on to me. But I've always assumed that was some type of trick bag that my ex wife and her friends were trying to get me to fall for.

Definately none of my close friends. I just wouldn't do something like that to someone I considered my friend, without their knowledge.

IMO...

Not cool to knowingly fuck another man's wife unless he is okay with it.

That's just not cool. You deserve whatever happens to you if you get caught.

Being a member of the swingers community I've banged many guys wives. The only catch is they get to bang mine too!

Believe I've read a number of guys here partake in clubbing / extras / OTC while married, or doing such activities while married?

My boss is hot. I would sleep with her. I don't persue her or anything like. If she was to sleep with me then suppose her doing so could be for any of the same reasons married men do extras ITC or do OTC.

Maho, there's no doubt that a certain level of hypocrisy occurs here. But to set cuckolding as a life goal on your bucket list? For whatever reason, that just seems contemptible.

Bucket list - missed that part of the OP but yeah, agree that seems like an odd thing and is not something I would ever seek out to do.

i've done it with a couple of wives... ;)

Only when I was young.

No, other people's wives are off limits.

SJG

Strippers cant count since I know a few were married but then again that was kinda their thing and not really very taboo. In the last few years I met a sexy wealthy married civilian who I met regularly in business conference who came down hard on me after a night out drinking. So I am about to get the rain coat on and then in her drunk state she says no she was looking for a baby since her hubby denied her another. Holy schnikes thats just a disaster waiting to happen. What I gave her was a nice Russian dressing on her bigguns. We still meet occassionally since she came to her senses and we bang with a raincoat (which I supply of course). The thrill is fun but yea with any married woman its like juggling dynamite.

Been there...done that, don't recommend it for all the reasons cited. I exclude married dancers from that though...talking civilians only.

"What I gave her was a nice Russian dressing on her bigguns."

Ace!

No disrespect Juanluis305, but I think the non-brilliant part is being into banging somebody else's wife because she is married.

If she and her husband are swingers and everybody is into it that seems perfectly ace! If she is a stripper and willing to engage in certain activities for money you sort of have to assume that the husband is fine with it. Based on some of the crazy stories on here he is probably encouraging it! ;)

But going after a woman because she is married and that excites you seems out of the realm of good ideas! :(

Uh half the women in my neighborhood? There's no shortage of hot MILF women in my neighborhood. Alas, in all my stories and rendezvous I've mentioned on here, I don't break my one rule, I don't fool around in my own town.

Last year I came dangerously close. I was out with my best friend who hasn't been married too long. His wife had her friends with her which ranged from ages 30 to 45. We were at an upscale bar and all the women were drinking and this one smoking hot MILF latched on to me. We went back to my friends house and my friend pulled me aside and said "she hates her husband, you could hit that if you wanted to." I ended up driving her home at 3am (a good 30 minute drive) and it was awkward - we both wanted to attack each other but knew it was wrong (she knew I was married too). I have never spoken to her again after that night. Side note she must be a cunt, her husband is wealthy, better looking than me and she doesn't have to work, don't understand why she hates her husband, I've met him and seems like a nice guy, she has an awesome life.

When it comes to banging wives, I've done it several times in my travels. One night stands from a hotel bar for the weary traveling married businesswoman out on the road just like me.

I feel bad for women like that, they have needs too but don't have strip clubs to go to like us guys.

I've never cheated on my wife, so I simply assume the women I'm fucking aren't cheating on their spouses either. :)

I know for a fact that at least a few of the women I've been with had spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, or significant others who knew.

I cheat on my wife and I expect the strippers I fuck to not outwardly judge me on that (while respectinf the fact they are nothing more intimate than a pussy or warm mouth to me). I'd be hypocritcal to judge someone else on the other side of it, though I veer away from civvies entirely and keep to sex workers to keep it business. I only love and care about my wife despite my habit for sex with strippers.

That said, to stereotype and overgeneralize, for a lot of men, sex is just sex, the physical act and nothing more. For many women (outside of sex workers), sex is more intimate and when they seek it outside of their existing relationship, it is more based on an emotional need, that's just their biology. To engage a married woman who is keeping this a secret from her mate seems to me as something more apt to destory a relationship than if it were a married man. Tread very very carefully.

@shailynn "she must be cunt."

You shouldn't assume anything because you have no idea what happens behind closed doors in private. There are people out there with Jekyll and Hyde personalities.

Oh, also to the OP, I don't know if anyone other comment touched on this, but it sounds likke you want to be what's known as a "bull." There are plenty of cuckold and/or hotwife couples that are easy to find and will let you get your wish without destroying a marriage.

Unless destroying a marriage is what gets you off about the whole thing...which is a whole other can of worms that I ain't touching.

"You shouldn't assume anything because you have no idea what happens behind closed doors in private. There are people out there with Jekyll and Hyde personalities."

Good point, I am merely passing judgement because my best friend said shes a cunt.

Done it and it is not worth the indigestion! She never told anyone and neither did I. She moved on to another when I moved further away.
Stay away from wives of persons you know.
I have been picked up by a couple of MILF/Wives that were looking for an evening of fun.

In my 20s, as a single, unattached male prior to getting married -- yes. Definitely didn't enhance the experience (probably detracted, to be candid).

Since, never.

I have no knowledge of marital status of sex workers and don't care to. As many feel, the rules of societal norm don't apply to strippers and escorts.

I had sex with a married woman when I was 17, it was terrible man I caught feelings and wanted to bust her I used to "Take the long way home" and drive past her house real fast everyday. Also it messes your mind up cause you wonder if you had the guts/respect to honor some woman by marrying her would she cheat on you with a 17 y/o boy when shes been married for 4 years and was previously the persons girlfriend for 3 years before that.