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2 years ago
I dislike the whole pigtail look. But I imagine everything else described gets me tipping more than I would have given the same level of service
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2 years ago
"Rules don’t go far enough - doesn’t say anything about not stabbing customers"
Yeah, there definitely should be a rule against not stabbing customers. Maybe a quota of some sort should be instituted. "Must stab 3 customers per shift. More is encouraged."
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2 years ago
" So they are asking if I can Zelle them an Advance on their next PPM. That's a dangerous game because I might not see that future meeting."
There is no such thing as sending an advance to either a stripper or an SB, IME. Unless you want to end up all annoyed and feeling ripped off, at least in your head you should consider it a gift, or just not send it. Tuscl isn't really a "send her $200 just to help her out, because she's been awesome in previous dates" type of forum, but in sugar, if you really value that SB it's pretty common, and a good way to keep her feeling valued and interested.
Also, I may be contacting Cashman for the scarehoe gig. Current SB is acting up 🤣🤣
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2 years ago
OP I know you said "fun topic only", but this is tuscl, we only do fun in the SC 🤣 Like the others, I don't get into bidding wars. I always do the same thing, tip a little bit past normal so it's at least a notable tip, even if other guys are tipping more. Then, when she comes by, "if you're not with a customer, my table is over there, I'd love to buy you a drink and then do some VIP rooms". (rooms, plural, lol). That's it, a lot of the guys just let their tips do the talking for them, I think it helps to let her know your intent to get VIP room.
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2 years ago
I have FOMO about FRMOS
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2 years ago
If there are two clubs that are near close in quality, and one does ID scanning and the other doesn't, I'll pick the non-ID scanning every single time, always. But if I don't have a choice (which is the case for nightshifts in this area), well, I'll tolerate the intrusiveness if that's the only way I'll get the chance to have a 23 year old wiggle around on my lap in her underwear.
I do understand the clubs' reasons for this. Be able to track down guys who skip out on their bills, guys who commit assaults in the club, etc. I'm just not willing to give up my personal information to an industry that literally has the most contempt for their customers of any I've ever seen, and is so filled with total scumbags, unless that's the only choice I have.
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2 years ago
traveler, that's exactly to my point! appeasement, passive aggressiveness, leaving things ambiguous ("maybe later"), all these things lead to a higher chance of you getting deeper in the shit later. Tell her you're not doing dances with her, clearly but respectfully, the moment you see her, that's the best chance of not having to deal with even worse shit later
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2 years ago
I was going to say that I feel like I pretty much can handle overly possessive strippers, but I think I would have been totally shocked into silence if something like what iknowbetter happened to me! So maybe I can't handle them lol! On the other hand, IMO the best way to handle strippers is with direct but respectful transparency, whereas if you want to maximize the chances of her being aggressive it's by being squirrelly or passive aggressive towards her. To wit, if there is a girl I usually dance with who I have no intention of dancing with today, there's no way I'd say "let me enjoy my beer I'll catch up with you later", it's "hey I'm planning on spending time with some other girls today but I'll see you another day" (if that's really true). I'm pretty sure that's the difference between a hyper-aggressive girl thinking she still has a chance and pulling her friend away, and her crossing me off her dance list and not caring who I get dances with. 'course some of these girls are so crazy that there's nothing you can do. But the number of bad experiences I've had with aggressive strippers dropped to near-zero once I started just telling girls directly I'm not doing dances with them.
In short, passive aggressive customers or those too timid to tell the stripper that his plans don't include her, maximize the chances of this type of thing happening.
And, like some of you other guys, I have had my CF act possessive, but I'm totally fine with that, if my CF is in the house I typically spend time with only her anyway.
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2 years ago
ilb, Whatsyourprice is not a sugar website, it's a paid dinner date website. Many guys think they are getting themselves in line to find an SB on WYP, and it is possible to find one by all reports, but mostly you find women who are doing paid dinners as their side hustle, escorts, etc. Doing a paid dinner attracts the every sort of hustler, which is why the first dinner date (meet & greet) is unpaid in actual sugar. Seeking is the only sugar site that is worth paying for, and it's $100/month. It, too, is filled with scammers, escorts, etc., but there's also a lot of actual SBs as well.
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2 years ago
Solution to not using the ATM or credit card at the club: Bring cash
Solution to not giving out real phone number: Get a free google voice line
I'm trying to figure out if this is a trick question or something 🤣 I have no idea how you could complexify all that into reloadable credit cards and second phones
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2 years ago
Wrapped, in the fridge
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2 years ago
Ishmael got the right answer: the one and only way to stack the deck in your favor, is to only see escorts with a positive review history that includes multiple reviews. Even that isn't 100% but it's about as good as you'll get
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2 years ago
Count me among those we tends to pick a fave, spend a lot of time with her, and it's pretty natural that we get to know each other past fake name. I don't "need" it, I don't ever ask for what her real name is, etc., but it comes out as we spend time ITC and OTC. Hell, I've had any number of CFs connect me with some of their social media (actual, not "stripper brand" social media), so even skibum's "we can't really be sure" doesn't always apply. Definitely part of the fun.
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2 years ago
So the secret is vindaloo AND wine. Taking notes.
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2 years ago
Great stuff man! Yeah the biggest risk is whether not one, but TWO girls will show up. They're SBs not strippers so at least you have a shot at it lol... Did you give each their usually PPM? Was there a threesome uplift (I wouldn't expect one; just curious)?
This your first 3some?
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2 years ago
I think Nina is talking about the perfect balance of forces to create the universe. If gravity were even a smidge weaker, the major bodies of the universe (stars, planets) wouldn't have formed before they got expanded away; a smidge stronger, and it would have collapsed on itself. If the nuclear strong force were the tiniest bit stronger or weaker, all atoms either fuse together or fly apart. You can go on and on and on, one coincidence after another of either perfectly set, or there is no universe
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2 years ago
Yep, everything perfectly balanced!
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2 years ago
Other mindfucks:
There are galaxies currently receding from us faster than the speed of light (due to expansion of the universe), so the light from those galaxies will never reach us, and we'll never see them.
The galaxies we do see, eventually the light from them will be so far redshifted (due to the expansion of the universe) that we won't be able to see them with the naked eye. This will eventually happen with all the stars in our galaxy, and the sky will be dark.
This all assumes the universe will keep expanding at its current rate and acceleration, which is not certain.
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2 years ago
And now he's here mastering the impure sciences!
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2 years ago
i is used heavily in engineering too to indicate phase. Years ago so I barely remember Fourier transforms etc but fun fun!
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2 years ago
... and I'll add, in many computer chips, they do NOT want quantum tunneling to happen. Since it happens anyway (since an electron's position is merely a probability and not a physical fact anyway), various techniques are used to STOP electronics from quantum tunneling all around the chip.
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2 years ago
The Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle. One form of this is: you can't know both the speed and position of a quantum particle, at the same time. The more precise you measure one, the more uncertain the other becomes.
It's easy to think of this as just a limitation on what we can measure. Like, if you measure the position of an electron, with high precision, the measurement itself changes the speed. But that's the wrong way to think about it. The HUP is in fact a statement about the fundamental nature of the universe. If you measure an electron's speed with infinitely high precision, then its location becomes infinitely variable -- it can, in fact, be anywhere in the universe at the point its speed is measured, though it does follow a probability function.
This principle is so fundamental that it can be put to use by engineers. There are transistors, like the ones powering the chips in your phone, which rely on a principle called quantum tunneling, which is HUP applied to energy states: electrons can simply disappear from one side of a barrier that is "uncrossable", and simply re-appear on the other side. This is engineered into certain types of transistors, and those transistors rely on electrons doing this, in order to function.
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2 years ago
"Also, as a guy who allegedly "manages" stripper hoes, if there's anyone who needs to brush up on Escort 101, it's you. No really, man. This would be embarrassing if you weren't 100% fake."
Do you think the other cosplayers will shun him now? "You, sir, are an embarrassment to the entire trolls LARPing as pimps community." Imagine building your entire social life around spending hours and hours each day pretending to be a pimp on a forum where literally everyone hates you, and you haven't bothered to read how escorts work. If it weren't so embarrassing already, I'd throw my bowl of vindaloo at him right now.
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2 years ago
"A lot of escorts will actually refuse to see you or communicate with you at all as soon as you say anything sexual. "
So weird a pimp, even a cosplay pimp, has no idea how escorts work lol
You (and CMI) are exactly right on this. The fact is, the one and only way to be relatively sure you'll know what you're going to get is reviews. If you're going to go with a traveling escort who has no reviews, you are going to have to accept that you'll occasionally run into upsell scams (and much worse); either you're okay being the guinea pig, or not. If not, stick to well-reviewed girls.
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2 years ago
Yeah it's a location thing, and a dayshift thing -- I'd have other options if it were nightshift. Of course, post-pandemic there's no dayshifts anymore , but I still think in terms of dayshifts lol