Overly Possessive Strippers

9/27/2022 3:18:30 PM

Another discussion about rude strippers got me thinking about an experience with an overly possessive stripper. I was recently at Cheetah Hallandale (FL) during a decent day shift, where I became reacquainted with an attractive Brazilian stripper with whom I had shared a few dances - like 2.5 years ago (pre-Covid). She remembered me, and I remembered her, but it wasn’t like we had any real, long-term relationship, or OTC. Just more than average time together and good conversation (primarily because she spoke fluent English).

This girl was all over me from the moment I walked in the door. She asked about dances (as if that was expected), and I told her sure, maybe later, but she continued to hang on me, preventing me from checking out any of the other girls, which I find particularly annoying. So I say, “hey, let me just hang here and enjoy my beer, and I’ll catch up with you later”, and she walks off.

In the meantime, along comes super hot, blonde Brazilian bombshell, who I am much more interested in. Blondie greets me by reaching into my crotch, and in no time at all, she and I are into FRMOS, and I’m just about to pull the trigger on the lap dance room, when stripper #1 comes flying in from the other side of the room, starts yelling at Blondie in Portuguese, takes her by the arm, and pulls her away.

Needless to say, this really pissed me off, and kind of ruined my visit. But I didn’t dwell on it, and it only bothered me for as long as it took me to hook up with a cute Dominican, with whom I got into the lap room before she could get accosted by the possessive stripper.

I haven’t been back to this club since this incident, but when I do, and if I run into possessive stripper again, I’m just going to have to tell her that I’m looking for other girls.

Anyone have a similar experience ?

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shadowcat

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2 years ago

Many years ago at Follies one dancer introduced me to her best friend. Grabbing my cock she told her friend "This in mine. If I'm not here you and only you are allowed to touch it"

The same dancer told another dancer that I was sitting with that I was her husband.

wallanon

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2 years ago

"...when stripper #1 comes flying in from the other side of the room, starts yelling at Blondie in Portuguese, takes her by the arm, and pulls her away."

Lol. That's pretty awesome. Those two must've been besties, because in most clubs that's a fight. Do not pass go. Do not collect yo dolla billz. Go directly to fight club and get punched in da face.

rickdugan

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2 years ago

About 12 years ago I was doing a lot of business in Greenville SC and became a regular at the Trophy Club. There was a girl who was hot as fuck but also a bit batshit crazy who I used to take OTC fairly often. One night she spotted me at the bar, straddled me on my bar chair, reached down into my lap and announced "This cock is mine tonight!" loud enough to be heard by everyone at the bar and probably a third of the table occupants. WTF LOL.

But even before that, since becoming her regular, no other girl would come near me, even when this girl was not working. Did I mention she was a bit crazy? She also had, I learned only later, a rep for kicking the shit out of girls who pissed her off as well as multiple prison stints for assault. I only learned all of this after she went back to prison for a parole violation and girls were no longer afraid to approach me again.

As an aside, it wouldn't have changed a thing if I had known about her assault record. She was fun and sexy as hell and fucked me like I was her long lost BF.

Keep in mind though that this was in 2010, when the economy was still in the shitter due to the Great Recession. Back then I was also seeing more possessive behavior in a few other clubs, but haven't seen nearly as much of it since the economy improved over the last several years.

drewcareypnw

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2 years ago

Dancers I have dealt with here are pretty good about this, if a prior fave ( lets call her Wynter) hits me up upon entry to the club and I'm looking for someone else, a polite "actually I am here to see Stormy" normally results in Wynter offering to go find Stormy for me. I guess this is partly down to my manners and partly down to local tone. That said, I wouldn't expect this behavior at the notorious local hard sell hustler club Kittens.

Call.Me.Ishmael

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2 years ago

A long time ago at the Cadillac Lounge, I saw one stripper run up and punch another stripper for talking to her regular. It turned out to be part of some larger feud between two groups of dancers at that club.

As a result, the floor on the far side of the stage went from strip club to 1970s Bruins game in less than 5 seconds.

I thought it was a good opportunity to check out the lineup at the Foxy Lady...

Icee Loco (asshole)

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2 years ago

They're possessive of their money not the trick

skibum609

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2 years ago

^Icey's stripper wasn't possessive at all, which is why fuck up wanted to kill herself.

Subraman

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2 years ago

I was going to say that I feel like I pretty much can handle overly possessive strippers, but I think I would have been totally shocked into silence if something like what iknowbetter happened to me! So maybe I can't handle them lol! On the other hand, IMO the best way to handle strippers is with direct but respectful transparency, whereas if you want to maximize the chances of her being aggressive it's by being squirrelly or passive aggressive towards her. To wit, if there is a girl I usually dance with who I have no intention of dancing with today, there's no way I'd say "let me enjoy my beer I'll catch up with you later", it's "hey I'm planning on spending time with some other girls today but I'll see you another day" (if that's really true). I'm pretty sure that's the difference between a hyper-aggressive girl thinking she still has a chance and pulling her friend away, and her crossing me off her dance list and not caring who I get dances with. 'course some of these girls are so crazy that there's nothing you can do. But the number of bad experiences I've had with aggressive strippers dropped to near-zero once I started just telling girls directly I'm not doing dances with them.

In short, passive aggressive customers or those too timid to tell the stripper that his plans don't include her, maximize the chances of this type of thing happening.

And, like some of you other guys, I have had my CF act possessive, but I'm totally fine with that, if my CF is in the house I typically spend time with only her anyway.

Champphilly

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2 years ago

If you are broke one day and stop spending more then dancers won’t be possessive on you. It is simply advance booking a customer with his own lots of money 🥹

traveler2019

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2 years ago

About eight years ago, I used to go to Spearmint Rhino and Sapphire Club in Las Vegas. I knew dancers at both clubs and had gone out with both of them. One night the dancer from Rhino comes to Sapphire to work and immediately sees me and comes up and says" What are you doing here, you know I am at Rhino on Tuesdays" She was very confrontational about it.
I really wanted to see the other dancer so I took the possessive one to do a fifteen minute room to get her out of my space.AS soon as we got to the area for private dances, she started out again to give me shit.
When the waitress came to get our drink order, I told the waitress that this was my wife(joke) because nobody would be that dramatic otherwise. I then left her and talked to the other dancer the rest of the night.

Subraman

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2 years ago

traveler, that's exactly to my point! appeasement, passive aggressiveness, leaving things ambiguous ("maybe later"), all these things lead to a higher chance of you getting deeper in the shit later. Tell her you're not doing dances with her, clearly but respectfully, the moment you see her, that's the best chance of not having to deal with even worse shit later

Icee Loco (asshole)

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2 years ago

Women are very possessive in general. I've had girls fight over me. I kinda like it

Call.Me.Ishmael

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2 years ago

^ It's far fetched that women would fight over the person you lazily pretend to be here, so the possibility that they fight over the person you actually are is statistically zero.

gammanu95

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2 years ago

You have to put your foot down, hard. I had a Cuban that was pulling this shit for the longest time, I mean YEARS. She was hot enough to get away with it in 2014, but not anymore. I had to tell her that was it, she was cut off. I am not going to let her dance for me, I am not going to buy her drinks, I am not going to fucking chat with her. We're done. She was sorry and a smartass about it the first couple of times I saw her after that, but the last two times she did not even acknowledge me. That is exactly how I wanted it, and now I can get dances from whoever I want.

rickmacrodong

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2 years ago

Icee it doesnt seem believable. You said you paid thousands for one dancer, supported her parents, etc went far beyond the typical trick. You were very possessive over her but she didn’t seem possessive over you.

Icee Loco (asshole)

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2 years ago

Cim. Your whole trolling strategy is calling people liars then making up a narrative about them in your sick head and pretending it's true

Icee Loco (asshole)

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2 years ago

Bte she was a Girl I was with. She wasn't a dancer I was paying. Go troll elsewhere dumb bitch

Icee Loco (asshole)

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2 years ago

Men take care of teh women they're with. Not everyone is a cheap fuck like the ones here.

SirLapdancealot

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2 years ago

"They're possessive of their money not the trick"

"Women are very possessive in general. I've had girls fight over me. I kinda like it"

^^^LMFAO so what Iceydodo has said here is that she kinda likes stripper whores to fight over her because she's a trick with money. 🤭🤡😂😂😂

san_jose_guy

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2 years ago

At least guys are learning the importance of FRMOS.

SJG

Subraman

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2 years ago

I have FOMO about FRMOS

san_jose_guy

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2 years ago

FOMO?

https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-cope…

Well FRMOS is a very worthwhile thing to have FOMO over.

Breasts Bared FRMOS, and in front of an audience, is an incredible power trip!

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SJG

iknowbetter

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2 years ago

I’m a big fan of FRMOS. In fact, I might enjoy FRMOS nearly as much as VIP. I never really thought about it like that, but maybe it is the power trip. Like when all the other PLs are looking and saying to themselves “who the fuck is this guy making out at the bar with the hottest slut in the club - her top half off, makeup smeared, and her hand in his pants?” Don’t hate if you’ve never tried it.

san_jose_guy

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2 years ago

FRMOS in front of an audience is a power trip, and especially if it is in front of the girls friends, and all the more so if you can get her breasts uncovered.

FRMOS should be seen as a necessary prelude to VIP, and then to regular OTC ASAP.

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SJG

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