Escorts asking for more money
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I paid this eros escort $500 up front.
She wanted me to take my clothes off right away. I wanted her to do a lapdance first and she wanted an additional $100 claiming its extra services since shes not a dancer.
She also wanted an additional $200 for “full service”. She gave a condom HJ and BJ while trying to upsell full service.
Once I got there it took about 25 minutes to park and get up to her room because there was no street parking or parking lot. Some alarm went off on her phone after just 35 minutes of being in the room. It seems like she started her timer before I actually got to her room. It was supposed to be one hour.
She also had odd rules like no fingering or touching the pussy allowed. Touching it with a condom was apparently allowed if I paid extra for full service. But she didn’t want hands going there. She also didn’t want to touch me down there without a condom, even with just her hands.
Is there anyway to avoid this sort of stuff other than reading reviews? A lot of escorts want the donation money up front. This escort was traveling from a different state. A traveling one might not care as much about building a long term regular compared to a local one. I would much rather have gotten an hour of VIP with no extras than 30 minutes of a condom HJ and BJ.
She wanted me to take my clothes off right away. I wanted her to do a lapdance first and she wanted an additional $100 claiming its extra services since shes not a dancer.
She also wanted an additional $200 for “full service”. She gave a condom HJ and BJ while trying to upsell full service.
Once I got there it took about 25 minutes to park and get up to her room because there was no street parking or parking lot. Some alarm went off on her phone after just 35 minutes of being in the room. It seems like she started her timer before I actually got to her room. It was supposed to be one hour.
She also had odd rules like no fingering or touching the pussy allowed. Touching it with a condom was apparently allowed if I paid extra for full service. But she didn’t want hands going there. She also didn’t want to touch me down there without a condom, even with just her hands.
Is there anyway to avoid this sort of stuff other than reading reviews? A lot of escorts want the donation money up front. This escort was traveling from a different state. A traveling one might not care as much about building a long term regular compared to a local one. I would much rather have gotten an hour of VIP with no extras than 30 minutes of a condom HJ and BJ.
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last commentAnd asking an escort to do lap dances? Lmfaoooo fucking idiot
Because most escorts will not discuss specifics over the phone or via email (for fear of LE). This is especially true for escorts at this price point and above. That is often spelled out in their ad and/or web copy.
That said, most escorts at this price point will not require the payment up front, especially if the customer has gone through her verification / vetting process (which typically requires that you give up a bunch of personal information).
It's also not true that traveling escorts care less about their reputation than locals. Traveling escorts rely on solid reviews on the various relevant websites (TER, etc.) to make sure that they are booked sufficiently before they arrive.
The answer to read reviews. There's no getting around it unless you have a personal reference from a buddy or another sex worker (that you trust).
But, I'll point out that this reads like another instance of BTE planting seeds for a dumb question farm.
Also, even if it's a fictional scenario, it still captures why I greatly prefer dancers over escorts. There's no bait-and-switch regarding age/appearance, you can discuss what you want specifically ahead of time, and you don't have to surrender your ID and work history to get the ball rolling.
Bubble, i wanted a lapdance as foreplay. Its less intimate than sex so it shouldn’t warrant an issue or an extra charge IMO. I think it is an odd rule for an escort to not allow pussy touching with hands. She said its due to bacterial concerns but i wonder if its some SO rule that bare skin can’t touch the pussy area, so condoms dont count but bare hands violate that rule.
Ishmael this escort required no personal info besides sending a picture of yourself. There are a few escorts here charging $500 an hour who are doing the same, not asking for verification just a picture of you.
There is one escort who was fine with sending a photo ID showing just the picture, expiration date and first name. Her rate was $600 an hour.
It seems safe but the expiration date from my understanding is also your birthday?
One concern with escorts is while they require condoms, they may not care where their slobber is going. You could get their slobber all over your skin, anywhere not covered by the condom.
I thought escorts generally want the payment at the start of the appointment. Including the $1000 an hour high end and pornstar escorts
And, while I understand all that, I still don't want an escort to have my personally identifiable information stored away (especially if she does get wrapped up by LE). So, I go to strip clubs. Other folks can make other choices.
Make better choices so BubbleYum doesn't yell at you...
BigThirdEye is just cacaplop trying to swamp these forums with repetitive, stupid questions, either via his own threads or crashing other threads.
But, as always, take a look at his posting history and judge for yourself.
If engaging with his inane posts is fun for you, then go for it.
Otherwise, don't think you're answering sincere questions.
~ Call.Me.Ishmael
~ April 29, 2022
“In this world, shipmates, sin that pays its way can travel freely, and without a passport; whereas Virtue, if a pauper, is stopped at all frontiers."
~Father Mapple via Herman Melville's "Moby Dick".
A lot of escorts will actually refuse to see you or communicate with you at all as soon as you say anything sexual.
Once theyve done sexual stuff with you in person they’ll discuss specifics.
Plenty of escorts require more than a rental car
So weird a pimp, even a cosplay pimp, has no idea how escorts work lol
You (and CMI) are exactly right on this. The fact is, the one and only way to be relatively sure you'll know what you're going to get is reviews. If you're going to go with a traveling escort who has no reviews, you are going to have to accept that you'll occasionally run into upsell scams (and much worse); either you're okay being the guinea pig, or not. If not, stick to well-reviewed girls.
Whenever you want to accomplish anything with anybody, you have to make an effort to understand their side of it. Many PLs consider sex workers as deserving of being shit on, we see it all the time in these discussions. She doesn't know if you're late because fuck her. She doesn't know you won't stiff her if she collects the $ afterward.
It's not legal for an escort to commit to doing any sex acts, she's only committing to a block of time of companionship. It's not reasonable for you to insist that a non-FS sex worker can't be an escort, because you end up feeling like you wasted your money. Just like you often feel like going to a movie was a waste of the money, you're often going to feel like seeing an escort was a waste of the money. It's true that one is less than $20, and the other is several hundred. Your alternative is to spend on dates with civvies. You're likely to spend much more getting what you're looking for like that, plus wasting more time. If an escort has a relatively low rate, that means it's much more likely she's less flexible about what she does with PLs.
Many escorts have danced or are dancers. Or they'll just wing it because the basics of lap dancing are not rocket science. You should be able to find one who will include this with no upselling. Gotta be (politely) persistent with this.
If somebody asked you how they could avoid seeing movies they didn't like, but without reading movie reviews, wouldn't you think they were a knucklehead?
Go on TER and write a review BTW, so others know what to expect, You'd want them to do the same for you.
I won’t pay upfront. I don’t need to fuck an escort that desperately. I don’t use escorts - but rather OTC strippers. If it’s all an up charge, then I will give her a little cash for her time and then say good bye.
Legally youre paying for the escorts time and anything that happens in that time is between consenting adults. But morally, you’re supposed to get almost whatever you want during that time.
And it also comes down to whether the escort wants repeat business. Obviously an escort who takes the hourly fee up front, and sits and does nothing likely won’t be able to get repeat customers.
In this case, the escort literally counted my parking time towards the visit time.
I scheduled for 12am with her but it took around 22 minutes to find parking and get to her room. She counted all that towards the one hour, and wanted me out of her room after 35 minutes. I also had to pay for parking even though it was a hotel.
Ilb you said you regularly pay $500 an hour for lapdances in hotel rooms so you’re looking at things from a different perspective. For some girls I might also pay for just a lapdance in a hotel room but that’s out of personal preference. An escort is generally regarded as doing more than a lapdance.
In this area the escorts available on eros and tryst are significantly hotter than dancers.
Once in a while there are traveling dancers who are very good looking. But generally the escorts look much better than the dancers.
Can escorts voice record everything stated in the room with them and attempt to blackmail you with it later on?
Getting a hooker isn't complicated. Not even online.
And with the most expensive hookers men are also paying for discretion. Not to supply personal info
It’s usually the cheap $150 ones who ask for no verification, likely because they have pimps or something.
This isnt a stripper scenario. Ive only seen this girl once.
Mate i paid her $500 when I entered the hotel room. Then stayed in the room 35 minutes. Although I was 22 minutes late to the appointment due to delays in parking etc. she wanted upcharges for a lapdance or full service but basically gave me a condom BJ and HJ by force.
what did you mean “able BTE tested in the sexual act”?
I mean, even knowing that dumb hypocrisy is your mutant power, it's pretty weird that you use accusations of Indian ethnicity all by itself as an insult when it's you crying "racist" in nearly every single thread.
But, then again, your entire false persona here is all about picking fights rather than consistency or sincerity. So... go you, I guess.
Mate... At some point, Icee decided that I was from India. No, you shouldn't expect that to make sense.
And always FRMOS. Take her where you want then and then move on her. Do have her doing services upon you.
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Also, as a guy who allegedly "manages" stripper hoes, if there's anyone who needs to brush up on Escort 101, it's you. No really, man. This would be embarrassing if you weren't 100% fake.
Strip Clubs can be fun. And this is TUSCL...
BTE, don't ever call escort ads or meet women from message boards.
Meet your women f2f, like in a strip club. Then get that preliminary makeout session going. THen and only then, you take them to where ever you want.
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Do you think the other cosplayers will shun him now? "You, sir, are an embarrassment to the entire trolls LARPing as pimps community." Imagine building your entire social life around spending hours and hours each day pretending to be a pimp on a forum where literally everyone hates you, and you haven't bothered to read how escorts work. If it weren't so embarrassing already, I'd throw my bowl of vindaloo at him right now.
Subrabitch. Go read reffitbabd repost what you read. Then act smart. That's all you do dumb bitch.
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At a strip club it is even easier because you can grease it by handing her money and let he see that you want to take care of her. But you still want to get her into Front Room Makeout Session right off and do as much as possible with her that first visit, and then get her outside as soon as possible.
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Shit either one sounds like a trip through the nine circles of Hell in Dante's Inferno.
Thank goodness the choices aren't actually that binary. I'll take Option C.
She wanted me to pay extra for a lapdance but basically forced me into a condom bj and hj, at no upcharge
Escorts are paid by time...
Plenty of people have paid for something they complained about
Why do you want to know where it happened? Lol
It happened in a hotel
This bizarre story never occurred - because this is all made up.
The OP has one review - and it’s not convincing that he’s ever been to a strip club. I continue to believe this is a worthless troll.
Cashman, i dont know your personal reasons for asking which hotel it occurred in.
But as far as champphilly and his alt lulz, this is basically an indian guy who denies being indian, sent me a ton of angry dms, got pissed when i dmed him back, now hes trying to figure out my location cause he wants to try to find me irl. Hes obsessed with trying to figure out who i am and where to find me, he even offered to meet me at one of the local clubs.
I never “not paying dancer for dances” and you dont need to tip dancers or escorts.
Legislatures don't care about rights, only control and the revenue they can get from prosecution (in addition to fines and court costs, privately owned jails and prisons pay the government to house convicted criminals), and police cooperate with them when it means *they* get more control and fancy equipment. Cops *like* it when they can push people around who won't push back, not so much if they have to put themselves in the line of fire by going after *real* criminals.
The whole "justice" system is corrupt, top to bottom.
ACAB.
Those generalizations of cops arent true. Laws like this get created because voters or politicians at some point wanted them. There are some religious people who want to impose it on others, and religious politicians who want the same and politicians who gather votes by appealing to religious people or concerned parents.
Cops aren’t responsible for illegal prostitution. If anything, publicly funded cops are incentivized to be lazier and not care about crimes vs if they were part of a business and getting paid the more criminals they caught. Lawyers have incentives to want more regulation and laws so they make more money. Publicly funded cops dont have the same sort of incentives unless their pay structure pays them more for finding more criminals or rule breakers.
ACAB is an odd thing to say, cops are better than protester scum and people like breonna taylor. The cop who put his knee on george floyds neck is more trustworthy and honorable than floyd himself. Floyd would be salivating at the opportunity to rob you if he saw you vs chauvin would do nothing.