It's the End of the Month / Maybe I should shut my phone off.

32 comments

• twentyfive

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  2 years ago

  You could start a raffle with your girlfriends, might be one way to go. 😝😝
• Warrior15

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  2 years ago

  Maybe hold an auction ? Lowest bidder gets me for the night ? But in the end, I would still be saying No to 3 of them.
• crosscheck

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  2 years ago

  ^ that's called a reverse auction
• Sgrayeff

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  2 years ago

  Been to your house? That’s a line I don't think I will let her cross. So much risk there, right?
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  Well, you fuck and give money to whomever you want. But maybe you need to look at deeper structural issues that are causing a basic conflict in your life. And I've never like the idea of Sugar Baby. In other countries well off guys keep mistresses. The mistress is probably a little order and more level headed. SJG <iframe width="560" height="315" src="[view link]" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen></iframe>
• Warrior15

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  2 years ago

  Sgrayeff, I don't do OTC with strippers at my own home. But if I'm seeing 2-3 sugar babies a week, the hotel really adds to the cost of the event. Plus, I am seeing each of these girls on a repeating basis. I've been to their homes also.
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  If you call these girls earlier in the month, do they see you, and does that alleviate the end of month rush? SJG I Can See For Miles <iframe width="560" height="315" src="[view link]" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen></iframe>
• Icee Loco (asshole)

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  2 years ago

  2 to 3 hookers a week lulz
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  Warrior, look to the core of your life to access what is going on. SJG
• CJKent_band

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  2 years ago

  @Worrier15 Remember “In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.” ~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface. So go get the money so you won’t have to worry and will be able to afford multiple girls at multiple places, a sugar baby in each place and a place for a sugar Baby. They call them Casa Chica (Smal House) South of the border.
• Papi_Chulo

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  2 years ago

  "... But I may have to go back on Seeking and do some shopping for some new additions to my harem ..." Wouldn't that add to the problem?
• ilbbaicnl

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  2 years ago

  Sounds like a good reason to consider seeing escorts instead. My escort favs always seemed above average in budgeting.
• BubbleYum

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  2 years ago

  Sort of relatable. I'm putting my phone on do not disturb so my managers and agents will leave me the fuck alone about my schedule for next week and asking me to work day shift tomorrow. I feel like it's sometimes borderline harassment.
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  Warrior, what actually drives this need and sets up the problematic situations? SJG
• Warrior15

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  2 years ago

  Papi, What I mean by that is this. I'm gonna tell them No. So I'm about to lose most of my following. So it's time start over. Plus, I dont' think I want to have a relationship with a girl that is going to do this to me.
• Jascoi

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  2 years ago

  Warrior. What a problem to have!
• rickdugan

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  2 years ago

  ===> "But if I'm seeing 2-3 sugar babies a week, the hotel really adds to the cost of the event." ===> "I'm actually concerned they will just show up as they have been here. Now I have had 3somes with sugar babies. But could I handle a 5some ?" Dude, I get maintaining a rotation. I do it myself. I'm also getting hit with more requests than I can handle at the moment, so I feel your pain. But you're taking on a lot more than I would ever want to manage. 3 meetups per week? Fuck. With the number of girls you need to keep in the rotation to keep that up, including the girls that want weekly meets and those who are looking for it less often, running into a prime time need situation like this was inevitable.
• Cashman1234

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  2 years ago

  Warrior - if you want a skinny tall scarehoe to stand in your front yard and scare them off - I’m available for an hourly fee… They will be so frightened - you won’t have to worry about them coming back! I do a great grim reaper impression!
• Mate27

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  2 years ago

  Clubs were packed yesterday! Parking lot was full of cars, and women outnumbered the men. Walked in and me and another guy were the only customers in a sea of dancers. Talent was poor so I went to another and the same, mostly dancers and the guys had their choice of dancers.
• georgmicrodong

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  2 years ago

  My two favorites have been pinging me this week as well. Fortunately, it's only the two of them, and with one of them, we meet at her place, so I at least don't have that expense for one of them. But since both of them are only available during the day, the only issue I have is finding time to take off work. 🤣
• Tiburon

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  2 years ago

  zelle them an ADVANCED? First off, from the little i understand of the sugarbabies, trophy wives, gold diggers, thots etc, etcs quickly turn to gifts and they still expect money naext pay period. They don't treat this like work, they treat this like a very skewerd relationship. Let me know if I'm wrong. IN any case, I'd tell them no because they usually ask for more thinking since you did this, you'll do that too. Second, if you need an advance in a P4P relationship, then how bad is your budgeting and finances that you can make a dollar stretch to at least cover your bills. THat's crazy bad and even signs of extreme entitlement. blow all your money because you know your partner will just cover you. That doesn't sound good. Tell these women to make it work since it sounds like you don't like the way this is going. If they walk, no loss to you. there's always the stripper club after all. That's my opinion anyway.
• Subraman

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  2 years ago

  " So they are asking if I can Zelle them an Advance on their next PPM. That's a dangerous game because I might not see that future meeting." There is no such thing as sending an advance to either a stripper or an SB, IME. Unless you want to end up all annoyed and feeling ripped off, at least in your head you should consider it a gift, or just not send it. Tuscl isn't really a "send her $200 just to help her out, because she's been awesome in previous dates" type of forum, but in sugar, if you really value that SB it's pretty common, and a good way to keep her feeling valued and interested. Also, I may be contacting Cashman for the scarehoe gig. Current SB is acting up 🤣🤣
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  Warrior, the things that can help people when their marriage is not working: 1. Religious Renewal Retreats 2. Swingers Clubs 3. Marriage Councilors 4. Divorce Lawyers Notice that Sugar Babies are not listed. SJG
• docsavage

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  2 years ago

  Whenever a stripper seems overly eager to do something with me that is usually a situation in which she will get more out of it than I will. That makes me more cautious and causes me to think about whether I should do it. If these girls are getting too aggressive you might be paying them just a little too much or treating them just a little too nice. If you don't want to turn them down, then shutting your phone off will send them the message you are not interested.
• Estafador

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  2 years ago

  @docsavage that probably explains why these sorts of women (p4p) only want to deal with older gentleman. Young people with money aren't dumb enough to simply give away too much money for less than they expect. Seems women are getting too used to getting $1K just for showing up before anything else and convinced themselves that's the norm. Couldn't be me.
• NJBalla

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  2 years ago

  Don't be obnoxious and think they arent spamming thier 8 sugardaddies when rent is due as well. Trust me you stop paying for a month and you are as good as dead to them
• wallanon

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  2 years ago

  "If these girls are getting too aggressive you might be paying them just a little too much or treating them just a little too nice." That's right. We can't have these girls being treated well. WTF? Who's nice to them and raising the bar?! Lol...docsavage's true nature revealed. I guess we shoulda figured with him having savage in his name and all.
• tin man

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  2 years ago

  AirBnB is cheaper than hotels. Keep you communication strictly through email and snapchat. If you have more than 5 on your rotation you are wasting too much time and money. Paying per meet is a great idea, giving an allowance is the worst idea. Dont get sucked into any of their shit, every sugarbaby is getting fucked by her big dick, broke, motorcyle riding bad boy boyfriend. Let him figure out their living situation.
• JamesSD

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  2 years ago

  I mean these girls probably have 3-4 guys themselves they hit up. It's darkly hilarious they literally wait to the 30th to make rent.
• shailynn

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  2 years ago

  ^ hey man they have other shit going on those other 29 days of the month.
• Warrior15

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  2 years ago

  If any of you care to know how the story turns out. What did I do with my four money requests ? I picked one and scheduled a date with her. That was last night and was spectacular. She was very appreciative. She didn't have to pay until Monday since the 1st was on a Saturday. On the other three, I simply said that I was not available and that I don't pay advances on PPMs. Two of them actually replied back with. "that's ok". I"m sure they found someone else to give them the money. Time will tell if I lose contact with them. As others have pointed out, maybe I need to cull the herd some anyway. On the subject of how did I pick the one to actually go on the date with. She promised me to set up a 3some with her friend for next week at a reduced price. I just could not resist that offer.
• Dolfan

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  2 years ago

  Glad it worked out. I'm not surprised at all about the "that's okay" reply. I don't do the sugar baby thing, and I don't approach the 2-3 times a week frequency, but I often have a handful of strippers I see once a month or so. And its pretty common to get a few messages this time of the month asking to meet up, this month was worse than normal since this is generally a slow time in the clubs and the threat of the hurricane hurt business. I say no all the time, its really quite rare for them to get upset about it. I used to worry that once I said no to a couple requests for handouts they'd cut me off, but it's almost never the case. It's usually the other way around, they stop asking. On the other hand, when I do agree to see them they are often very appreciative. It's not common, but I have given some girls a few bucks without seeing them. Like Subra said, I think of it more as a tip for previous good service rather than an advance on future services. I'd say well over half the times I've done it, they've gone out of their way to repay the debt in some way. There's been a few times where I've simply never seen or heard from them again though, but that's par for the course. Any time I see or hear from a stripper could be the last time.