How to be a sugar daddy?

@Nixur68

I will play along and answer your question.

Q: How do I become a sugar daddy?

A: If you wanna become the sugar daddy of your favorite, just make her an offer she can’t refuse.

Otherwise join Seeking Arrangements and invest the time and money to find a Sugar Baby.

Or just go to high end hotel bars, stores, malls, county clubs, etc etc etc and find one of the aspiring sugar babies that are there looking for a sugar Daddy

You have to be able to afford the Sugar Baby lifestyle, so you won’t get buyer’s remorse.

Remember Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen

“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”

~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface.

If you're having to endlessly chase your CF around the club then you probably aren't spending enough money. If that's true, then sugaring isn't going to be easier.

But if you want to give it a go anyway...

1. Go here and sign up:
Seeking.com

2. Research here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestylef…

3. Spend enough money.

Based on what guys here have posted, I don't believe that sugaring is less work than having a CF in a club. It's just different work.

Spending extreme amounts inside the club might her confidence you can be a wealthy sugar daddy. Atleasr 1000$ In private Champagne/vip rooms.

^ Nicespice's theory that you might actually be a sock puppet run by Icee seems more plausible now.

I don't know if it's true, but certainly more plausible.

Pay her. You can get extra leverage by abusing power/wealth dynamics, or foreign women

Find a hooker and spend money on her regularly enough to have more of her attention. That's basically sugaring

^ Are they required to contemplate suicide when they get played as a chump and the hooker dumps them ....like you?

Sugaring is much more expensive than clubbing unless its "platonic/friendship" sugar. If you are having trouble chasing your CF around you're not wealthy enough to sugar.

You need to find a girl who wants a sugar daddy.

I think Ishmael provides useful information in his comments.

OTC with your favorite stripper is pretty much the same as a PPM sugar baby arrangement. The only difference is the PPM sugar baby likely doesn’t think of herself as a sex worker, and you might be able to score with a legit college student or young professional trying to make ends meet, instead of a skanky strip club pro. But the SB arrangement requires a lot more time and effort, and is not as much of a sure thing as OTC. A SB arrangement with a fixed allowance is a lot more expensive than OTC since most girls are expecting more than $1,000 per month, regardless of how many times you see one another, and sex is not guaranteed.
But if you’re having to chase your ATF around the club, you’re definitely doing something wrong.

If you're having to chase her in the club, somethings wrong. You aren't spending enough, you're being creepy or too demanding, you're picking the wrong girls, something.

I'd start with defining exactly what you want out of the relationship. There's a wide range of relationships you can get mixed up in. Knowing what you want is the first step to getting it. Trying to treat a sugar baby like a stripper is going to leave you both frustrated. You may be able to find what you want, but assuming the two are interchangeable is a recipe for disappointment.

If you have to chase your CF around the club, you appear desperate and a loser. Simply tell her where you are sitting and let her come to you. Develop a relationship that way and work it into an OTC. Nothing is guaranteed and you'll keep your dignity.

I think what you're describing is the mistress scenario sjg promotes.

Icee suggests paying a prostitute; falling in love with her; and contemplating suicide when she dumps you.

I tell you what some of my favs who were at least hypothetically open to sugaring have told me. They have their SO who is an 8+ or they hook up with randos who are 8+. If they got an SD, they'd want him to be, say, a 6+. Maybe some of us would make the cut, but definitely not me.

I went on a bunch of dates using that whatsyourprice website. Mostly just chicks who were curious about it. You don't waste much money for DM access with them, but there are so many it adds up. I met one fairly attractive and willing chick. But, from the long convo we had, sounded like things had gotten very emotional complicated (at least for her) with previous SDs. So I balked.

The other sugaring sites seem to have monthly membership fees about $20. Seems very high for access to what's more or less just a relatively simple membership site with DM capabilities. I gotta think most prospective SDs feel scammed and cancel quickly, which is why the sites have to make their money up front.

ilb, Whatsyourprice is not a sugar website, it's a paid dinner date website. Many guys think they are getting themselves in line to find an SB on WYP, and it is possible to find one by all reports, but mostly you find women who are doing paid dinners as their side hustle, escorts, etc. Doing a paid dinner attracts the every sort of hustler, which is why the first dinner date (meet & greet) is unpaid in actual sugar. Seeking is the only sugar site that is worth paying for, and it's $100/month. It, too, is filled with scammers, escorts, etc., but there's also a lot of actual SBs as well.

I’ve trying to understand seeking but holy deal there are way too many scammers. How do you filter it down?

@Sub that goes to the question of what exactly is the distinction between an SB and an escort. SBs don't want as many customers (and often would be offended if you called their SDs customers.) They also often expect to be wooed to some extent. The women on WYP know that the vast majority of the guys are looking for SBs and/or an escort-type encounter. The ones who are simply looking for free meals (and the good-faith sum of $ that you give them) are analogous to guys who go to strip clubs and don't even stage tip. I wouldn't say that's the main problem with WYP. It's all the women who are basically just looking for a pathetic eqo boost because some thirsty geezer will pay a few dollars just to DM them. And I'm sure there are some who are only open to an SD who's at least a 6.

Give her money and stuff and fuck her regularly.

SJG

Seems to be full action uniform, and they have her in high heels, and pretty good meat shot too.

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1216106292/…