Comments by indyslick

I got asked for a drink this week before I even sat down. That pissed me off and I told her so. And any girl I don't already know who asks me for a drink is leaving thirsty, and I have absolutely NO problem saying no - I just say 'I'm not buying drinks' - and if they think I'm a cheapass that's cool. Generally, though, I'll buy drinks for any dancer that I like and enjoy hanging out with. I go to a SC for entertainment and have no problem buying drinks for friends - it just makes for a more enjoyable time for me, which makes it worth spending the money. I think it just depends on what you want out of your SC experience.

I can't imagine one or two wildly positive or negative reviews having a meaningful impact on a club. I suppose it's possible reviewers have some other agenda, but that seems like a serious waste of time.

Got it. I find it odd that extras are city-dependent and not club-dependent, but both Alucard and Jeff's comments align with what i have seen in the clubs. Then you come on here and read about guys waving their sh*t all over the VIP - I suppose it's just Indy. Thanks

Agree with Randy on the 'handsome' thing. Anyone who opens up with hi handsome or hi sexy will probably get their feelings hurt because it makes me roll my eyes. But maybe that's cause I'm fugly. Best compliment I get is when they dispense with the SS and let their guard down. That means we're both having fun.

Depends on your definition of 'success'. For me, success is being an anonymous dude, drinking some beer, laughing, hanging out, getting some dances, laughing at the sleazebags or sandals with socks dudes...just enjoying myself. I think the fact that I'm having fun, making the girls laugh, being respectful, etc. makes me 'successful' - even on busy nights girls come sit with me as a safe landing place, which I enjoy, and I make it clear I'm not paying for their time to sit. We just have fun for awhile and then they resume the hustle. Never gotten my dick sucked in the back, but I that sounds disgusting to me anyway. My 'success' might be seen as a total failure by another.

Holy Sh*t. I've had lunchmeat that ages better than that. Almost all of them look 50. Maybe it's some kind of metric conversion that's messing with me. How many lunar cycles in a kilometer?

I thought it meant he was pissing on them. But yeah, of course acting like a gentleman goes a long way. The less you act like they expect you to and the more you treat them like people the better things happen.

I wouldn't worry so much about how you got her info - that happens all the time in social media. Your problem is going to be if you try and work more than one at the same time. You could put weeks or months into working them and one off-handed comment could screw the whole thing up. If all you want are friends, go nuts. But you mentioned the second dancer is your favorite - so why mess with it by adding yet another dancer to your list? If you are looking to close one or more of these girls, you're walking through a mine field. That's like trying to date two dancers from the same club simultaneously. You can always add the third dancer later on.

There was a question like this a little while ago. Tell her but do it gently. Something like, "I can't believe how fucking hot you are - you blow the rest of these girls away. But i need to ask a favor - could you just freshen up a bit so we can enjoy the rest of our night?" Don't describe the odor, don't discuss where it's coming from. She'll figure that out. She'll be embarrassed either way, but she might think you are really sweet for helping her out, and when she comes back lay the compliments on thick. If you don't feel like sticking your neck out just stay the hell away, but I guarantee you EVERY girl wants to smell fresh and though they'll be embarrassed they will appreciate you if you're gentle. Last option, though it won't help you in the moment, is to ask OTHER girls how you should deal with it. Just don't do it same night.

She asked me if I know what is happening. I said I did not. She told me she liked pop tarts. I told her I don't have a toaster but I have a toaster oven. She told me she is almost out of minutes on her cell plan so I told her to get more. I wanted to have a glass of milk but all they had was coffee. I need to get more stamps but only the kind that last forever because the price of stamps changes a lot. What do you think? (eye roll)

It can only go one of two ways: 1) you embarrass her and offend her and she takes her smelly ass elsewhere, and 2) you embarrass her but she's really grateful, cleans up and you're her favorite customer the rest of the night. More upside than down, IMHO. Just tell her that you think she's by far the sexiest girl in the place, but you would enjoy being with her more if she'd freshen up a bit first and then come back. No need to provide details unless she asks. Just make sure to compliment her when you're delivering the news.

It does sound like you might be developing a bit of a problem. But that said, I usually go to clubs by myself. The whole point is to pay attention to the girls and vice-versa, and a group of guys detracts from that. Most dancers prefer solo guys because they know they are 'focused' and they won't have to put up with macho nonsense. Just be outgoing and have fun.