Compliments, yours!
Clubber
Florida
In another topic, farmerart talked about ones personality in clubs. Made me think of what I hear from dancers. So, my question to each of you is...
What is the number one compliment YOU hear from dancers?
To start it off, I hear most often, that I have soft hands.
What is the number one compliment YOU hear from dancers?
To start it off, I hear most often, that I have soft hands.
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Who doesn't smile and sit up a little straighter when a hot young dancer approaches them and says "Hi, Handsome!"
It's one of the best things about strip clubs, isn't it? In real life, you may be an average middle-aged schmoe.
In strip club land, you're "handsome," "funny" and "in great shape" lol
Me too, Clubber. The dancers all love it and say it. I don't know if that's a compliment though. It doesn't make me a manly man. I'm not a wrench turner. If they wanted ne to fix their broken down Ford Focus and install a window AC, I would fail miserably.
I get the soft hands compliment and I also get thanked for not making the girls uncomfortable.
I also get the big dick-related comments - e.g., balls like Cadbury eggs (one of my favorite images), hung like a black guy, nice shape, etc.
Most of the comments I'm sure are SS, but it still feeds the libido in the moment.
Answer: Me. I hate it when they say that or, "You're sexy." As Popeye says, "I yam what I yam," and it isn't handsome or sexy. My response to the obvious bs is usually, "Yea, right. Who you kidding?"
I do believe the girls appreciate someone with soft hands being gentle rather than those with sandpaper hands and acting like they're kneeding bread dough. So, when they say, "I love your touch," it's plausible.
A compliment about something that is obvious is better than a compliment that is a Lie.
The "hands" thing is pretty common. I wonder the percentage of those comments coming in the LD area, as opposed to just sitting and talking? :)
I think perhaps the dancers may mention this because obviously they have guy’s hands on them all the time and women in general like soft things (penises excluded of course :))
There is nothing unmanly about soft hands. :)
They're using bigger words now.
Well you're not a 110% Asshole, maybe 99%. The 1% realizes that a dancer's feelings can be hurt just like any other Human.
Not sure what your experience had to do with this topic, but that's a bummer of a story.
I totally agree!
Perhaps I don't take compliments well - or I just know it's lie - but I really do hate it when they say "Hi handsome" or "you're sexy" or "my you have a big dick" when I know they're all lies. Lol.
When I go to a club frequented by blue collar workers and the dancer immediately says something about my hands when I touch her, I know it's the truth.
The girls that reach up under my shirt always comment on them and proceed to suck and play with them. A lot of them say most guy's nipples aren't hard like my mine. I don't know. That's just the way it's always been. But they seem to really enjoy them.
It is not gross & should not be embarrassing. It is simply human biology.
The thread is about compliments received. Well, I was mentioning how I received one and instead of responding with something nice, even though I didn't believe the compliment, I was a jerk. Lesson learned.
That's some funny shit. She might be a keeper. If she can spell that fucking word. PMF.
Yeah - I've had a few dancers do that and I wasn't sure if they did this b/c they liked it, or b/c they though I would like it.
But my nips are smallish though and don't get erect too often even if I am turned on. I really like big nips on women and I guess women may also like this on men?
Oh, brother. First it was who had the softest hands. Now we're comparing nipple size?
I'm starting to worry about the direction this board is taking...
OK, I just don't think her missing you is a "compliment", as such.