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9 months ago
She sings well and all, and she's cute, but even if there were a chance in hell that she'd give me the time of day and not a swift kick, she either takes me as I am, or I'm out.
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9 months ago
There is a link on the club page to update club details. That will get founder looking at it.
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9 months ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
I'm becoming convinced that the OP is posting these so as to deduce how *he* should be reacting. Because he wouldn't know otherwise.
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9 months ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
There is not a single major politician in any major position of influence in our government who is not a hypocrite, a con man, corrupt, or all three. Not the left, not the right.
There might be those in minor positions who aren't yet corrupted, but they won't be allowed in any major decision position making until they've sold their souls to the party apparatus.
Either the Tree of Liberty will be properly watered soon, or the U.S. will turn into Iran, Russia, China, or some combination of all three.
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9 months ago
If you are not into that sort of thing, you won't enjoy it.
If you are not yet sure whether or not you'll like it, then a responsible domme will respect your desire to go slow. If she doesn't ask you for safe words and limits *first*, then you know she's an abuser, not a domme. Same goes for male doms.
Generally speaking, I suggest not going the BDSM route until you've experienced vanilla sex a few times. And talked about the aforementioned safe words and limits are fair bit. Then find maybe one thing to experiment with. Something that doesn't prevent you from getting up and leaving if it turns out she's not a responsible domme.
If she *is* a responsible, safety oriented domme/dominatrix, she will readily agree to all that *and* follow through. If she's an abuser, she will not.
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9 months ago
@Singlair: Agreed. Completely.
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9 months ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Like muchly.
Are you planning on ever bringing back the links to our comments?
And I'd also really like it if you brought back ignore, along with the feature on the discussion lists you used to have. The one where sorting on Last Comment would sort on the last *non-ignored* user's comment time, and when you click on the last post link for a discussion, it would link to the last non-ignored user's post.
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9 months ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
Good times. Good times.
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9 months ago
Well, if the U.S. weren't so damned parochially and wrongheadedly disgusted by polygamy, and a drunk driver hadn't interfered, it might have turned out similarly for my ATF and me.
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9 months ago
@PuddyTat69: "I find that strippers' top game is on point for technique, but most of them are rushed and mechanical. They want to get you off ASAP and collect their cash, and aren't responsive to instruction."
While I've found that to be often true ITC, not so much for OTC. Probably because "rushed and mechanical" is a disqualifier for OTC consideration for me. No way I'm gonna rent a room and pay what I do for OTC for "nut n go".
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9 months ago
To pile on to what motorhead said, the USASG strip club forum in the Louisville section is unimpressive. Some seem to be willing to fuck any stripper in the place, regardless of how she looks or how wasted/drunk/high she seems to be, and they don't seem to care how many other guys have splooged in or on her that night. There are a few who are more discerning, and understand that pulling the "easiest" dancer isn't always going to be the most satisfying, but aside from an occasional comment, those guys are pretty quiet.
I will also say that the majority of posters on our local board seem to have really strange views of what constitutes a good blowjob. I have given up trying out hookers, masseuses, etc. that allegedly give "amazing" head. They usually range from "horrible" to "average".
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9 months ago
@ilbbaicnl: 20 some years ago, I knew a dancer at the now defunct Bottoms Up club here in Louisville. She was a dancer and a hooker. She also had some kind of certification/degree in some kind of interior decorating think, and she actually did do a fair bit of that work in her spare time. She said it made an excellent way to make her hooking money legit, since there were lots of non-material things, travel time, gas, consultation time, etc. that could be padded to hide other income. Between that and her also mostly legit income from dancing, she retired at about 35 I think, and is now living on some tropical island somewhere with gobs of money. Last I heard from her, about 5 years ago now, she was writing a book about being a hooker.
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9 months ago
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mogul1985I have 3 lives: Work, Dog Shows and Strip Clubs
Shithead behavior from both dancers and customers is a problem is the vast majority of clubs. I've heard it from almost every dancer I've know who's danced for more than a few months. And clubs enable *both* sides, assuming customers are lying about dancers and dancers are lying about customers.
Note, I am *not* talking about dancers who promise sex and don't deliver. That's a separate issue that cannot legally be addressed in most places. It's shitty, but it's gonna happen, and there ain't a damned thing anyone can do about it except be aware.
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9 months ago
"At least 6 cops killed"
Score one, or six, for the good guys...
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9 months ago
I've done similar to what Hank Moody does, though with Listerine strips. If I detect a problem, I'll pop one in my *own* mouth and then offer her one. If she doesn't take it, probably not going any further. All of my current favs are pretty fastidious about personal hygiene, fortunately without going overboard with perfume or body spray. That shit will drive me away even faster than slight BO or bad breath.
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9 months ago
I think that if she ever actually responds to any call/text from you, it will be to encourage you to come into the club to spend another thousand plus dollars.
It's possible that she is an escort, and the club is a front for meeting well heeled out of towners (there's at least a couple of dancers at PT's who do, or did, this type of thing), but I suspect it's more likely that she gave you a Google Voice or other non-carrier phone number that she can screen without it impinging on her "real" life.
There's certainly no harm in texting her the next time you're in that town just to see what she says. Just be prepared for various forms of push back on actually meeting OTC.
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9 months ago
It doesn't seem like a horrible idea from a strictly entertainment standpoint. As long as fully nude is the end goal.
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9 months ago
My brother warned me never to go to that club years ago.
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
Yes.
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9 months ago
@Muddy doesn't speak for me.
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9 months ago
I don't fantasize about MILFs. I have sex with them. While women who are not mothers are sometimes more adventurous with sex, and do some crazy hot stuff, it often seems to me to be the case that the "adventure" and the "crazy" is the *point* for them, and the sex is secondary.
Women with children, on the other hand, seem to get into the actual sex more, and enjoy the actual act more. There also seems to be fewer games involved for older women. Straight to the point, most of them. And of course, they aren't as put off by an older guy with quite a few extra pounds as the younger ones are.
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9 months ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Yes, please.
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9 months ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
I'm liking the new changes. The layout of the forum posts with the tiles is even growing on me. Especially with the most recent changes with spacing, shading, and borders.
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
Like many of these highly made up woman, a significant number of the "plain" photos are at least as attractive as the "glam" photos.
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9 months ago
@Alfredo_Darke: "You have to consider a lot of things here. The club and its location is huge. In Chicago, I would guess almost never, since there's very little groping allowed at most clubs. In Tampa, it's understood that sex is part of the program, so getting asked is more common I'm sure."
Based on what I've seen, almost none of that matters with regards to how often dancers are *asked*, except that it might happen even more often in no extras clubs.
If a club is known for common and relatively inexpensive ITC sex, then there's little incentive for OTC requests except for convenience or the hope of more privacy and maybe a slight discount.
On the other hand, in a club that has no tolerance for extras ITC, I would expect requests for OTC to be pretty common.
Now, whether or not those requests are *accepted* is a different question entirely.