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10 years ago
Yeah I am just making it all up. I have never been to a strip club actually. You guys are so clever you figured it out quickly.
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10 years ago
When she wants you to have her cell phone number it will be obvious. Got to be a stand up man here. Seriously it is a better way to lead your life.
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10 years ago
The point here is that the typical HIV test only tests for the presence of antibodies to the HIV virus. Since it can take a long time after infection with HIV for the antibodies to be present (up to 6 months I think), a negative result on an HIV test does not mean you are not infected with the HIV virus. In fact if you were very recently infected it probably won't pick it up.
Another FYI here. You can get an HIV home test kit at most pharmacies. It is a lot quicker and easier than going to a clinic and it tests for the same thing, ie: the presence of antibodies, not the virus itself. It is also instantaneous. You don't need to wait 2 weeks for the result.
Rockstar, the fact that you needed to wait 2 weeks for your test MIGHT mean they were actually testing for the presence of the virus. You might want to check on that.
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10 years ago
Women go shopping all the time without purchasing anything
Then they get dolled up and when a guy won't throw dollars at them they get pouty and bitchy. Go figure. I really don't get it.
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10 years ago
Sorry folks. When I am getting free sex OTC I can't stomach paying 20 for a 4 minute lap dance. This is a free country and I am going to pay my 10 to get in the door and buy a few drinks and enjoy the show. The working girls are pros. I have no sympathy for them. It takes them about 30 seconds to figure me out anyway.
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10 years ago
She won't change. You need to move on. I have been there and the more you are involved the harder it is on you. Set limits in your relationship with her and stick to them.
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10 years ago
That is what they choose to do. Their problem not mine.
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10 years ago
Actually hotwheels really likes porn. I am not addicted but I definitely watch porn many times per week and I definitely get off on porn. I like the HD stuff (all of it), the party porn and the casting porn. but pretty much watching most girls get f $%% ed gets me off.
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10 years ago
I enjoy watching the show and I definitely like talking to the girls. I have been hustled so much in so many ways that I can see it coming a mile away. Most girls don't like that but some respect it. As another member noted in another post I have definitely done p4p both in the club and out. Sometkmes the OTC was super hot. Almost never was the in the club stuff hot for me. When i realized i was paying for lap dances to keep the dancers happy i quit.
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10 years ago
I have done it (p4p) and yes it was very very good sometimes. I am changing my biz model though. Over time I realized that it was not that hard to score a hookup gf here and there for free. So I said f it. I am going to tighten up the cash flow.
But as you rightly pointed out my comments have not been entirely consistent.
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10 years ago
it is tough having your masculinity questioned. Guess I am just going to have to sign up for that knitting class since I am definitely not interested in men. Probably best if guys like me just stay out of the clubs right?
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10 years ago
I have definitely required my OTC stripper GF to get an STD test. More than once. And she did.
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10 years ago
Yes. Not a hobby. I would agree with that. But knitting is not interesting to me dude. Not at all. Any suggestions? Maybe cooking or gardening or home decorating? How about joining a book group?
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10 years ago
I am with Meal72. Tell her whatever you damn please. Go with it. I have heard so much manipulative and deceitful stuff over the years from strippers that not much surprises me anymore.
If you are clever about it you might be able to string the drama out a bit. You might like that.
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10 years ago
I am with Meal72. Tell her whatever you damn please. Go with it. I have heard so much manipulative and deceitful stuff over the years from strippers that not much surprises me anymore.
If you are clever about it you might be able to string the drama out a bit. You might like that.
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10 years ago
And now since my wife and I have signed papers I have been on match.com. I have already found one partner who is happy to date and f%#^ for no $. She is older but really hot.
My ex stripper gf has not been returning my texts since I refused to pay her car insurance. She is stupid.
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10 years ago
I would go to see her or she would come to see me. We didn't live that close. Picture Los Angeles and San diego. We would go out to dinner and then to a hotel or to her place and f%÷× for a long time. In the morning I would have coffee with her, pay her $800 and leave. It was above the market rate for p4p. There is another woman, a little older but still hot, who is fine with this type of arrangement for $300.
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10 years ago
Very interesting. Sex is a global commodity. And we pay too much in the U.S. I am so passed off at the females! This is really low brow cheap stuff on their part.
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10 years ago
Most states have no fault divorce. The court doesn't care what you did in your spare time. To put it bluntly, cheating on your wife won't effect the way the court rules on your divorce settlement in a no fault divorce state.
It might make your wife less likely to settle with you though and that could get expensive. That is why you need to keep it very private. Why would you tell her about something that does not effect your feelings for her or the way you feel about the marriage? You (and your wife) are entitled to some privacy in your relationship.
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10 years ago
You need to make sure it is kept very private. Don't brag about it to your friends, don't start texting strippers from your cell, return your wife's call if she calls you etc. Decency is important. And honesty. If your wife starts getting interested in what you were doing on such and so Tuesday night when you were traveling on business you simply tell her that it is none of her business. Don't lie. And don't call it something that it isn't. But I wouldn't call it cheating. You probably aren't having sex with a stripper if you are getting satisfied at home, and you probably aren't doing it to find the next Mrs.
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10 years ago
Make sure your wife or gf doesn't find out. That would be disrespectful. What you do in your free time on a business trip is none of her business. Man up. That is the way I see it.
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10 years ago
Great post. I really want to hear about your OTC GF. I have been there too. Mine was freaking out of this world in bed but the issues outside of the bedroom were a bit much to handle.
With you OTC hookup were you having unprotected sex?
With your OTC GF did she show up on time? Tell me the story please.
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10 years ago
Actually though I am in no hurry to be in a committed relationship. The freedom and peacefulness I am starting to enjoy after 20 years of marriage is blissful.
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10 years ago
Yeah. I have started spending a lot more time in clubs since my marriage headed down and is now almost over. I feel relaxed and good in the company of a pleasant women, and her being half naked makes it even better. Really I just go to clubs to talk and have a drink. There are a couple of reasons for this. I have a couple of lady friend hook up dates so I am getting what I need from them and it isn't costing anything. Paying $20 for a lap dance seems like a rip off. And I really just like getting to know the girls. Maybe some day I will be back in a real relationship, but until them the clubs and my hook up gfs are satisfying me enough.
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10 years ago
How much did you pay her?