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Should I ask for her cell number?

Dudes, do not ever ask her for her cell number.

There are only 4 reasons why you might think of this stupid idea.

1.) you want to know her work days and hours so you can come back and see her.
2.) you are interested in P4P OTC and you need her cell for this.
3.) you actually really like this girl, maybe she is you ATF and you want to get to know her better.
4.) it will feel good because you can put some hottie in your contact list.

So let's take these one at a time.

If you want to know her work days and want to come back and see her, just ask her. You don't need her cell for this. She will tell you for sure. Well almost for sure. Make sure you slip her at least a $1 bill before you ask. lol

If you are interested in OTC P4P you better discuss this with her before you start asking her for her cell number. In other words, you need to know if a.) she is interested and b.) does she actually do this. If you don't have a connection with her on this important topic, she is just going to be annoyed if you start texting her to arrange this.

If you really like her and want to get to know her better then you need to know if she feels the same way too. The only way to know this is to lay back and listen. Otherwise it is pointless. She either a.) will give you a fake number or b.) won't respond to your text or c.) will give you stupid little "I got your text" responses which are obviously a way to get her to stop texting her.

Yeah, it might make you feel good to get the cell number of some hot stripper babe, but it will make you feel worse when you get a, b, c ed (read paragraph above).

Here is a little story to share. I was in a club last week and I bought a drink for a nice girl. After that drink and a few shared stories this girl was asking for my cell number. In fact, she went to great lengths to get it discreetly (it was not permitted by management) and to make sure it was correct (she insisted on repeating it digit by digit).

I am not a big cell user, so when I checked the next day i noticed that I had one call from her. I texted her and she texted me back..........sort of. We exchanged maybe 3 texts and that was that. So being in the club environment pumps the girls up and gets them to do stuff like ask dudes like me for their cell numbers or to give their cell numbers to guys who are too drunk or inexperienced to know better than to lay low.

The girls do give out cell numbers because they are typical females. Money talks in the typical female vernacular and this is especially true in a strip club. In fact, it is more honest in many ways than our day to day culture and so this is something that should be respected. If a client is putting up the bucks they are not going to turn off the spigot by rejecting you.

If they really intend to communicate with you using their phones it will be obvious at some point in your strip club visit (unless you are too fucked up to notice). I recommend that you wait for this to happen.