Dating a Stripper
hotwheels
Minnesota
Wednesday, May 28, 2014 12:00 AM
I have been going to strip clubs occasionally for a long time since things haven't been so great with my wife. A few years ago I was at a club in the LA area (I was on business travel) and this really hot blonde and I traded numbers. She wanted to have coffee with me the next day and I was into the idea for sure. So coffee kind of morphed into meeting at my hotel on Century near LAX and we ended up having mind blowing sex for pretty much the entire night. The next morning, I was ready to tip her and she subtly implied she would like that and so I did tip her about $800.00.
After that things really weren't going well with my wife and we ended up meeting every month or two. This went on for a couple of years and she started telling me she loved me but she kept having other boyfriends which really pissed me off. I knew it was irrational for me to care about this because I didn't even want to have an exclusive relationship but it still bothered me. I was encouraging her to go continue with the junior college she was in and was paying for DMV stuff etc. I really was hoping she would get her shit together. She came from a background in which her father abused her. What I was giving her was not a lot of money for me and it was definitely something she really needed. But unfortunately she started getting less interested in sex the more she got attached to me. But her life kind of kept going down.
I think part of the problem was that she was old enough (she is 38 and I am 56) that she could not work as a stripper anymore and that was her only income.
About 6 months ago my wife told me she wanted a divorce, which by this time was kind of a relief for both of us. Interestingly this had nothing to do with infidelity. I was really careful about keeping my stripper/mistress relationship private and I think my wife really was past the point of caring anyway. I know I was.
So now I am telling my stripper/mistress I am done with helping her financially. That feels really good.
I have met a lot of other strippers and considered starting a relationship so my take on this that many of them are wounded people to begin with. Also, they have grown up trading sex for intimacy and money. So be ready for that.
So if you have a relationship with a stripper (I won't count it out), you have to stay strong and keep it arms length. Watch out for the drama. The drama with the girl I dated was pretty over the top. Get ready to be submitted to all the female BS and doubletalk you can possibly imagine.
But the sex can be mindblowing.
Oh yeah. One more thing. Make your stripper GF give take an STD test at least every 6 months and give you a copy. She is having sex with other guys.
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