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18 years ago
I've used the "waiting for a dancer" response & sometimes am asked who so I tell them. If I dont' use that response I just say "No, not right now, thank you." That seems to satisfy the majority of the dancers at my favorite club.
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18 years ago
During my first encounter(dances) with the dancer who became my first OTC, I asked her if she was available for extracuriccular activities. She asked what did I mean so I said for sex OTC. Her response was(I've heard it before)that she had not thought about that but then she went on to add that it could be beneficial & let her think about it. After the 2nd encounter(more dances)she gave me a cell # & told me to call her. I did & a few days later we made arrangements to meet at her place for $$$. I arrived, knocked, was let in & we sat on the sofa. She began playing with my nipples so I played with hers. She took my shirt off & dropped her shorts. No underwear. I dropped my shorts & took off my underwear. We went to the bedroom and just as she laid down on the bed she asked if I had the money & would I give her the money. I had to go the living room to get the money from my pants pocket. Before we got to the bedroom I asked her if this might develope into a fuckbuddy or a friends with benefits
relationship & she said she didn't know. She also asked me after I gave her the money why I had not tried to get it for free. I told her I had already agreed to the price she set & was not trying to cheat her. At the 2nd OTC she asked for the money upfront. 1st OTC she seemed hesitant about what she was doing but for the 2nd OTC it was as if she had become more professional at it. I hinted to her a couple of more times about getting it for free & she let me know that was out of the question & she needed to break it off with me. Our 2 OTC's took place 1 month apart-bill time!-so I figured she might call me at the end of the month. She called a day ago saying that she was willing for OTC for the same $$$ amount. Didn't have the opportunity for OTC that day so will wait until end of month. A monthy encounter sounds good to me.
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18 years ago
During my first encounter(dances) with the dancer who became my first OTC, I asked her if she was available for extracuriccular activities. She asked what did I mean so I said for sex OTC. Her response was(I've heard it before)that she had not thought about that but then she went on to add that it could be beneficial & let her think about it. After the 2nd encounter(more dances)she gave me a cell # & told me to call her. I did & a few days later we made arrangements to meet at her place for $$$. I arrived, knocked, was let in & we sat on the sofa. She began playing with my nipples so I played with hers. She took my shirt off & dropped her shorts. No underwear. I dropped my shorts & took off my underwear. We went to the bedroom and just as she laid down on the bed she asked if I had the money & would I give her the money. I had to go the living room to get the money from my pants pocket. Before we got to the bedroom I asked her if this might develope into a fuckbuddy or a friends with benefits
relationship & she said she didn't know. She also asked me after I gave her the money why I had not tried to get it for free. I told her I had already agreed to the price she set & was not trying to cheat her. At the 2nd OTC she asked for the money upfront. 1st OTC she seemed hesitant about what she was doing but for the 2nd OTC it was as if she had become more professional at it. I hinted to her a couple of more times about getting it for free & she let me know that was out of the question & she needed to break it off with me. Our 2 OTC's took place 1 month apart-bill time!-so I figured she might call me at the end of the month. She called a day ago saying that she was willing for OTC for the same $$$ amount. Didn't have the opportunity for OTC that day so will wait until end of month. A monthy encounter sounds good to me.
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18 years ago
During my first encounter(dances) with the dancer who became my first OTC, I asked her if she was available for extracuriccular activities. She asked what did I mean so I said for sex OTC. Her response was(I've heard it before)that she had not thought about that but then she went on to add that it could be beneficial & let her think about it. After the 2nd encounter(more dances)she gave me a cell # & told me to call her. I did & a few days later we made arrangements to meet at her place for $$$. I arrived, knocked, was let in & we sat on the sofa. She began playing with my nipples so I played with hers. She took my shirt off & dropped her shorts. No underwear. I dropped my shorts & took off my underwear. We went to the bedroom and just as she laid down on the bed she asked if I had the money & would I give her the money. I had to go the living room to get the money from my pants pocket. Before we got to the bedroom I asked her if this might develope into a fuckbuddy or a friends with benefits
relationship & she said she didn't know. She also asked me after I gave her the money why I had not tried to get it for free. I told her I had already agreed to the price she set & was not trying to cheat her. At the 2nd OTC she asked for the money upfront. 1st OTC she seemed hesitant about what she was doing but for the 2nd OTC it was as if she had become more professional at it. I hinted to her a couple of more times about getting it for free & she let me know that was out of the question & she needed to break it off with me. Our 2 OTC's took place 1 month apart-bill time!-so I figured she might call me at the end of the month. She called a day ago saying that she was willing for OTC for the same $$$ amount. Didn't have the opportunity for OTC that day so will wait until end of month. A monthy encounter sounds good to me.
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18 years ago
She's overcome her conscience before the end of the month!
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18 years ago
Tho she overcame her conscience before the end of the month, when I reolied in the affirmative to OTC, I've heard nothing further since that day. Something(or more likely, someone)has interferred so another OTC might not happen again. Just my buzzard luck!
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18 years ago
Don't know why my most recent post on this topic showed up 3 times-I only posted it once. Sorry bout that!
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18 years ago
Favorite club has shot girls. Shots are $8 & come with a dance & tips are expected. Over the years some of the shot girls have given outstanding performances, some with their tops off but mosly with tops on. There is one current shot girl who has given me rather mild dances but I have seen her do rather more wild dances with guys she knows. She's a pretty, tall & slim girl who told me she was going to start dancing has not done so yet. Said she wants to get a boob job first. I have supplied $$ to her w/o shots for the boob job as I defintely want to see her start dancing!
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18 years ago
Generally don't go during the day but my strip club buddy, Shadowcat, much prefers the day shift. He says he gets more personal attention(his current ATF works the day shift)and the dance area are a lot more private during the day shift.
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18 years ago
Don't have a daughter, assbreath!
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18 years ago
Wouldn't want to save your face because it looks just like your ass!
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18 years ago
SC: Ain't that sweet!
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18 years ago
I have gotten HJ's as extra & I usually, but not always, tip extra for that. HJ is about as much as I expect in light of other dancers watching. I had one dancer who slipped willy into her mouth but that was for lubrication for a HJ. A tip was forthcoming, naturally!
I don't consider touching the kitty thru or under the thong an extra. I will try it with a dancer & if it's rejected, so be it. If she touches willy thru or up the pants leg I don't consider that an extra. I can recall one dancer who will go up the pants leg but always wants a tip in return & I give it.
As far as FF, forget about it ever happening-too many prying eyes!
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18 years ago
I remember some clubs outside Myrtle Beach, SC, that offered $5 table dances with some incidental contact by the dancer with the customer & they had $10 couch dances with a little more contact by the dancer. It was strictly one way contact or else a big boucer would throw you out. This was around 1973-74. Around the middle of 1975 a buddy of mine & myself made our first trip to Tampa. My buddy had only been told about 2001 so we never made it to Mons Venus until the next trip back to Tampa. Before our first visit to Mons we made a visit to Nashville, TN and the dances there were as hot as 2001 but nowhere as hot as what we found at Mons!
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18 years ago
Had OTC set up for date & time-I show up but she's not there. She forgot to tell me she had to work at her parents place. This after I had asked her to let me know if she couldn't meet me. A pisser but whatcha gonna do? Turn her into the police, tell the club management, what, what?
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18 years ago
chandler: 'Advanced search' is nowhere near as convenient as was simply clicking on the city & having all the clubs come up at once. Don't care for new format myself. Of course you can't please everyone.
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18 years ago
I meant ...some of...
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18 years ago
Hey, Officer, don't plan to go to Mons Venus in Tampa, FL. It's nonalcoholic & charges $20 admission! You do get a token for a soft drink or juice for that $20 & a chance to see of the hottest looking women anywhere!!
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18 years ago
When a dancer put bare willy in her mouth to get him wet for a HJ. Totally unexpected!
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18 years ago
Way too damn much! From middle of Apr to middle of Junes, $1200 & being retired I'm on fixed income so I used a credit line withdrawals. That shit is coming to a stop. Don't know where I'll get the money unless I get a greeter job at WalMart or something like that. My clubbing days except for a visit from an out of town buddy who likes to go to strip clubs when he comes for a visit have come to an end, sad to say.
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18 years ago
Thanks for the responses. Defintely need to check on support agencies who can help her. I have no way to contact her as her cell phone is no longer in service(most probably due to unpaid bill) There might have been a phone call from her on Tues as I had a missed call from (no number). That was always displayed when she called me from the apartment she used to stay in. Called her older sister every day this past week to see if she knew what was going on but either she was out of town or else ignored everyone of my calls(assume she had caller ID & saw the # that was calling) & answering machine messages I left. Maybe the older sister doesn't give a shit-who knows? BTW the phone call on last Sun was at 7:15 AM, not 8:15.
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18 years ago
Since my last post I've learned that she is in a state-operated alcoohol & drug treatment facility. I tried to visit her but she did not/would not come to the phone & approve me as a visitor. Best I can do right now is send her a get well card c/o of the facility. Stay tuned!
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18 years ago
She's out of the facility as of today. Do not know if she got the card I mailed to her or not. Her mother never even attempted to visit her at the facility. I know she would not have wanted to see her step dad. I don't think a sister of hers I was in contact with tried to visit. Mayb her younger sister did-who knows. I'm moving on-might as well. Just hope she gets her life straightened out & makes it.
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18 years ago
Since my last post someone who has experienced a drying out session explained that he didn't want any visitors as he was too embarrassed to have anyone see him under the circumstances. This might have been part of the reason I was not approved as a visitor but most probably I will never really know why she didn't allow a visit.
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18 years ago
Thanks for your advice, Shadowcat, but I doubt if she'll go for that.
She left a voicemail message the next day at 7:55 AM saying her sister had woken her up raising hell about my calling her house even tho she (the former dancer) had requested I call her back at the #. So she told me not to call her sister's # anymore. Heard nothing further from her that day(Tues). I emailed her but got no reply to that. I had someone call the # from a different # than mine on Wed but only got answering machine.
Got back from lunch today(Thurs) & there was a voicemail message saying she wanted to get together & she would call me later. She had called at 11:45 AM but as of 5:10 has still not called. Had the person who called Wed call again today but only got answering machine.
I have offered to take her to lunch & talk in email but she has not replied. She's very put out with the sister and called her a bitch in the latest message. She does need therapy I'm sure.
Very insistant that will never dance again no matter what even tho she said the money would be great.
Told her I'd give her $500 for sex if she agreed to do it my way-on credit!