How to Tell a Dancer you aren't Interested
Anyone have any suggestions on how to let a dancer know that you aren't interested in her sitting down or a dance in a nice way. I consider myself a nice guy and lots of times end up with some girl just sitting there while the one I want walks past. Have trouble being rude. Also hope this doesn't offend anyone but I'm just not into black dancers and I have a problem telling them in a nice way. Any suggestions.Got something to say?
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In more extreme situations, where she just doesn't get the hint, I've used something like "I realize this is a financial situation, and I wouldn't be offended if you went looking for someone who was going to pay for a dance."
Good heavens.
Telling them you are waiting for someone opens the door for them to ask "who"? (This has happened to me).
My best way to handle this is just a firm, "No, thanks," said in a way to indicate that this is not open to debate/discussion.