Posts by FONDL

We keep tossing around terms like "high contact" so I thought it might be helpful to define what we each mean. Here are my definitions - Air dance - little or no contact in either direction (a total waste of…

I'm not trying to start a political discussion here but one thing really puzzles me and maybe someone can enlighten me. Whenever there are efforts to close down or tighten up rule on strip clubs, seems to me that…

I've read a lot of posts from people who claim that clubs are going more upscale, but I haven't really noticed it. I only know of two clubs that remodeled recently and became fancier, but both were pretty fancy…

We're all familiar with the customer who becomes emotionally attached to a dancer, but I'm wondering how frequently it happens the other way around. For example, a young inexperienced dancer with the typical bad background - broken family, physical…

You drive up to the door and have to tip some rude bozo $5 to drive your car 10 feet to the parking lot. You enter, pay $15 entrance fee, go through the metal detector and get frisked by…

If stripping became socially acceptable (not that we have to worry about that happening anytime soon), what impact would it have on clubs and dancers? Personally I think that dancers' incomes would decline. I think it's the fact…

I'm under the impression that, in response to declining dancer incomes in some areas, a perhaps small but increasing number of dancers are getting together with customers away from the club for private dancing sessions (and maybe more.) I'm…

I've been reading the pink site alot and it strikes me that a lot of the girls posting there are in denial. They're in denial about what they do, about the risks involved, about how much their time is…

If there were no laws governing what went on inside strip clubs, and there were clubs that offered anything that anyone wanted, what type of club would you go to? I think I'd still prefer a clean club without…

It seems to me that a lot of people, dancers and customers both, sometimes suffer from depression. And that may explain why some guys get so attached to their dancer buddies. That is certainly true in my case,…

I just happened to remember a strip club in Morgantown, WV, where I used to go that had a hot tub room. I was tempted to try it but then they raised the price so I never did (I…

Seems to me a lot of the disagreements on this board are because we're of diferent types: different age and experience, different income, different marital status, and we're looking for different things. What type are you? I can think of…