Discussions

I'll admit that I'm pretty niave about some stuff, like extras in clubs. I don't go looking for it and when I run into it I'm always surprised. I only know of one…

Another post reminded me of something that happened several years ago. I went to see a dancer who I knew fairly well and she was all upset. It seems that one of her…

We had a discussion about what type of relationship we prefer, cooperative or confrontational, but I guess it got deleted. But I had a thought that I wanted to share on this topic.…

"Q. Do most women think it's cheating when their SO goes to a strip club?

"A. ... On the one hand we can understand that watching naked women dance is a way for you to revel…

I've often wondered, how do new girls learn how to give lap dances? Do any places actually teach their girls? Or do they just learn by watching the other girls? Some of…

Another thread got me to thinking about whether it's more fun to go to a place that I know or to try something new. I usually go to the same place to see a…

Seems to me that in strip clubs (and maybe alot of other places too) relationships often tend toward one of two extremes: adversarial and cooperative. In the adversarial relationship each party tries to get…

Which club would you rather hang out in? The club that has really high mileage including extras but the girls don't really appeal to you all that much, or a medium contact club without…

As many of you probably know, Yoda and I have been having discusions about the importance of a dancer's looks, which to me includes things like weight and fitness. He obviously thinks it's shallow…