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20 years ago
I know what you're going to say when I tell you this, but I think that stripper down at The Kitten Klub really liked me. The little red-haired one, Kandi. I don't know what it was, but we just seemed to have this... connection.
From the moment I sat down, there was a powerful chemistry between us. I could tell by the way she looked me right in the eye. It was the kind of look that conveyed an understanding between a man and a woman. Eye contact can be a very primal thing.
I could also tell she liked me by all the time she spent dancing in front of me. She could have done her splits and backbends facing any guy in the place, but she almost always did them facing me. And when she crawled up the brass pole, she usually used the one right near me.
I know, I know. You're thinking she was just being nice to me for the tips. But it wasn't like that. You see, whenever she looked at me and smiled, I could sense it was a real human moment. Kandi, she's not like the other girls at The Kitten Klub. For one thing, she's obviously had formal dance training. More importantly, though, she's got a down-to-earth quality about her. A vulnerability, an innocence, almost. I think she could tell I really understood her.
Kandi also really responded to the way I slipped her the money. Unlike some guys, who shove the cash right down the front of the G-string, I make a point of showing respect for the girls by tucking the bills in the side, near the hip. Believe me, the girls notice that.
In case you still doubt there was something special between me and Kandi, let me tell you that when her stage show was over, she came over to my table. I was flattered, really, especially when she asked my name. I told her it was Frank. And you know what? She remembered. We must have talked for at least 20 minutes, and she used my name a lot.
She also winked at me a lot. Whenever I said something funny, she would just laugh and wink. It sounds strange, but she had a kind of shy quality about her. I think she's probably a very private person in her regular life, a very sweet and loving person, not like you usually think of strippers.
At one point in our conversation, I told Kandi I didn't smoke or drink. She smiled, and her eyes got really big, and she said she didn't either. We really made a connection there. She said drinking is nasty and makes her feel unhealthy. I knew just what she meant. So many exotic dancers are into drugs or are problem drinkers, and it's nice to meet one who's concerned about her health like me.
Of course, it couldn't last. The management of The Kitten Klub doesn't like deadbeats, and, somehow, I'd gone through all my money by about 11 p.m. Kandi was really sad I had to go. She said she had to work all night, and she couldn't go out afterwards because she had to study. (She's dancing to put herself through med school.) But she told me when she'd be dancing next and said I should come back and spend time with her whenever she's working.
I can't wait until next Wednesday.
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20 years ago
Just what we need another lawyer.......
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20 years ago
Great suggestion Dusty, WiseGuy gets his shoes there too.
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20 years ago
NEVER get SEXUALLY or EMOTIONALLY involved with bouncers or club owners.
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20 years ago
When did you start visiting SC? mid 1990s
What is your favorite club? don't have one
Who is your favorite dancer? don't have one
What would your dream dancer look like? white, gorgeous, real tits. BTW, good looks MUST be accompanied by honesty and sweetness.
Are you a club regular? No
Would you rather have good coversation or a kick ass lapdance? kickass lap dance
Would you ever date a dancer? depends
Do you drink? No
Do you smoke? No
Do you do drugs? No
Do you attend neighborhood clubs of big city clubs? When I used to visit clubs it was both.
Would you ever talk to a STRIPPER who has been FUCKED for MONEY!!! I wouldn't PAY to talk.
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20 years ago
Why do you have a problem with the girls of this trade? I'm not sure that I do. I call em like I see them
Have you been Hurt by one or two? I did naively fall for one years ago.
I would really know why some of you HATE us so much? I don't hate you
Toplessdancer, when someone that you refuse to dance for asks for a dance, what do you say?
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20 years ago
wanna dance?
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20 years ago
wanna dance
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20 years ago
Bunch of tittilating pics here: http://www.slatner.com/catherinebosley/default.aspx
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20 years ago
PICS ARE CLEARER ON THIS SITE:
http://www.glumbert.com/special/bosley.asp
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20 years ago
Let this be a lesson not to put much faith in what bouncers tell you!
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20 years ago
Niceass, I think there is a lot we can agree on. The feministas are a negative force.
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20 years ago
None of my parents or stepparents were Puritans.
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20 years ago
Homer, how do women in Quebec compare with American women?
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20 years ago
Niceass, you have messed with one of my threads. Please free it.
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20 years ago
Kam, how often do you get laid?
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20 years ago
Does the absence of comments on this thread mean that everybody agrees with this essay?
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20 years ago
I believe it.
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20 years ago
That isn't a real friendship. Sounds like the dancers are taking advantage of poor saps.
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20 years ago
I think she should get Diane Sawyer's job, and katie couric's too. I would love to titty fucks those perky fake boobs.
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20 years ago
I hope more dancers will respond. This abuse is common, let's get it out in the open. It is healthy to do so.
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20 years ago
TGG, how do you know "These young people thought they had reached the 'promised land'"?
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20 years ago
WG, how loose is your stripper GF's pussy?
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20 years ago
Norah Jones is an outstanding musician? What drug are you on? She had ONE interesting song that was half decent, NOT GREAT.
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20 years ago
You are a fool! LMAO