Comments by AbbieNormal (page 2)

Oddly I've seen a lot of families and couples when I'm there. Haven't gone for many sandwiches. Their wings are pretty darn good. I ordered the chili and got the chili con queso appetizer. Wasn't a fan. Is the bowl of chili better?

None in the northeast, but I'll check next time I'm away on business.

In general you should always keep a copy, and make sure to write the total on the store copy and something in the tip even if you tip cash so it can't be altered after you sign. Trust me, I was a waiter and a bartender, it happens all the time.

SMG is one of a few actresses that I just can't stand. Susan Sarandon and Melanie Griffith are the other two. I can bear Susan Sarandon in Bull Durham, but little else. I don't know what it is, but they just grate on me. So this one is fairly easy. Marry Alison Hannigan Fuck Charisma Carpenter kill SMG. Eliza and Michelle also make the F list after Charisma.

twentyfive, I think we can conclude that some strippers get happy endings (no pun intended) but not with their customers.

P.P.S, I have no idea why " I've grown to personally like a few favorites" was changed to " I've grown to personally like a few faces" but I'm getting the feeling that autocorrect will somehow lead to our civilization's total destruction in thermonuclear war.

Almost forgot, the genuine friend was one I met because she was right after my CF in the rotation one night and we got to talking. She wasn't really my type. Ink, piercings, and big fake tits as opposed to my perfect GND CF, who had serious drug problems at the time. GND CF once hit me up for cash and a place to crash when serious drug problem got her evicted. Should be fine. P.S. GND CF eventually did get her act together and before she quit we had a few great weeks with a restored and genuine friendship and some really great times, then she went on to become a lawyer. Some of them really are students after all.

While I agree with Shadowcat I'll offer a lithe sympathy for your situation. I haven't been there, but I've been close. I've grown to personally like a few faces and they liked me also. We've maybe exchanged e-mails, or cell (once even home and work) numbers and enjoyed each others company. But except for one case it always blew up with SS or just ended when she left the club. Oh yeah, there was the one who drowned. There was one case where we had a genuine friendship. She was a smart girl and had gotten tight with some guys who were buying an existing strip club and had the money to put in to really making it something special. It's now the Mpire club in DC, I forget what it used to be called. So anyway they wanted her to manage it and find some girls, which she did for a while before finishing her degree and leaving the life (some really are students apparently). I can't however forget one of the last nights in her last club as a dancer. We were having a discussion and we were comfortable enough that I finally got up the nerve to ask some personal and stripper POV questions, cause I knew she'd give me a real answer (some were personal in nature, others were just like where does my level of tipping land me among customers). At one point she just stopped and looked at me and said, slightly surprised, slightly hurt, "I'm never gonna see you again, am I?" My own reaction surprised me. One I realized she was right, I hadn't been planning to take a bus or Taxi downtown from my work to see her in a strip club she was going to manage, and two, it made me feel like a jerk and a bad friend. In the end, fortuitously I ended up teaching a class downtown two nights a week, and would stop in after class for a while, but she moved on as I said, and we lost touch. But that, and another casual slip of we should go there, you'd love it (it was a strip club where she was scouring for girls) led me to conclude we had a real friendship in her eyes mores than mine. But then there was the one that blew up in stripper shit, and my stupidity, because she had my work and home phones (no cell at the time). And the other one that ended in stripper shit when I drove her to the home of a guy she was trading sex for a place to crash with and got a BJ in the front of my car for $80 and she got busted the next day for stealing a customer's credit card. And the other one that ended in stripper shit when news of our OTC activity leaked back to one dancer in the club and she suspected me. Sadly she was right, but in my defense I only told one dancer (I think, two at most) and in my further defense I was drunk, trying to get some ITC or OTC action from the dancer I told, the dancer I told it about had not danced for about a year or so and was pregnant (with a supportive partner, long story, they once showed up where I occasionally tended bar looking for me, luckily I wasn't there at the time) so I kind of assumed she'd quit. Plus the dancer I told it to was supposed to be moving to Colorado. Oh yeah, then there was the one who drowned. Should be fine.

1. Wanna Dance is definitely a buzzkill as an opener. 2. Depends on the club and what they offer. DC with no privates or lap dances, it's usually perv row. Higher milage clubs a bit further back unless there is stage mileage to be had. 3. Personality, almost always. Physical contact can be a part of that if the girl seems physically affectionate, but not always. 4. That can be heavily mood dependent. I can be in the mood for a girlfriend-like natural girl, but then sometimes I'm in the mood for the pro. The obvious tit job, gym-sculpted body, bought tan and near professional make-up. I can be turned on by the natural girl more often, but sometimes the woman who has obviously dedicated serious effort to be an over the top sex pot just pushes my buttons. 5. I like a good conversation. More often than not that means a reasonably smart girl. Bimbo in general isn't a turn-on. 6. No. It has only happened when it was the outcome she was obviously working toward. I was a bit embarrassed and laughed the first time it happened though. 7. Never really noticed. The vanilla body spray usually overwhelms the senses.

There is a Jewish formula for the matchmakers. Half the man's age plus 7. I never saw a clarification as to the order of the operators, but that means according to the shadchan 16 to 19.5 is your sweet spot. As for the legalities, can't help you there. Try dating. That third date thing isn't law you know, it's a scam by horny dudes who want to get laid.

Shadowcat, I think you may predate me on that one.

Hey shadowcat, remember back in the day when we had to make do with only one or two trolls? And sadly I was a troll feeder. These millenials just don't get it.

I've had multiple strippers grind to mutual orgasm on my crotch. I wear a pair of lined nylon track pants to spare them grinding their lady parts on denim or chinos. We both benefit and contribute to the spot. I just make sure to toss the pants in the wash right away.

The man is an empty suit. Always has been.

I remember when a favorite dancer died. I was in the club after and there was a weird vibe, but nobody told me what happened. I even asked about her and got some weird looks, but still nobody put together that I didn't know what had happened. You'd think in an industry built on personal interaction someone might have picked up on that. It was only on a later visit that another familiar dancer (not a favorite, but close) realized that I didn't know what happened and told me.

Congratulations Cat. Now you're old enough to tell those "well in my day" stories to all us young whippersnappers.

I've had a few favorites over the years. For the most part I would stick to them because of what drew me to them in the first place, attraction and connection. I would occasionally sample outside the favorites, but the favorites were always a known quantity. I knew they weren't ROBs and that I'd have a good time.

Hey Lopaw. Good to be back. I'm not clubbing nearly as much anymore, but it is fun to chewck back in every so often and see how the scene is doing. I'm planning a trip to Niagara falls to sample a few clubs later this year so I'll have something to write about. Glad to see you're still defiling single moms throughout the greater Los Angeles area.

Well, I gotta stick with my Steelers as long as they can hang in it, but I don't see anyone in the AFC getting past the pats. My ideal Super Bowl would be Pats vs Greenbay (assuming the Stillers don't make it) so no matter what I'll be cool with the outcome.

Several times I've taken a stripper to another strip club after her shift ended. A few were really in to it.

I've had a two girl lap dance which was pretty decent. It was a low contact club so most of the excitement was what they could do to each other (but not me). I also had several doubles at a club that no longer exists but offered bed dances. That was a different thing altogether. This was a very "hands on" club where bringing to completion was common. One was pretty intense until the exchange of bodily fluids started to concern me a bit (I'm sucking on a nipple that the other girl, and who knows how many guys, sucked on) but being the center of attention and having hands free to roam over both of them was pretty cool. On another, with the same girls I pretty much let them loose on each other and mostly watched (with some participation or encouragement) as they went to town on each other. It wasn't porn, but it also probably wasn't legal. They were friends, luckily, but it was pretty clear they weren't into girls, ibut they also weren't shy or freaked out, t was more a gay for pay situation.

Given the high mileage it could be an invitation to call her and arrange OTC, but since it was a one-time meet it is likely as the others said, to make you a regular. The fact that she had cards made should tell you something. (She does this a lot, you aren't the first, it will involve you giving her money) What the "this" that she does is what you get to figure out. With cell phones, a non-local number doesn't mean much anymore.

For a GFE Giada De Laurentiis Kate Beckinsale Yvonne Strahovski Alternates : Olivia Wilde Barbra Palvin For a one night stand Emily Ratajkowski Alice Eve Scarlett Johansson PSE Desire Cousteau Ginger Lynn Angel Dark Alternate : Nikki Dial Viola Bailey

At one particular club that had really awesome bed dances I always went commando in nylon warm up pants. The ladies appreciated the feel on their lady parts (as opposed to denim) and I appreciated their appreciation and enjoyment.

My clubbing has dropped off a lot. If I'm going to my local DC club (all nude, no privates or contact), something that happens about 4-5 times per year now I almost always spend well under $100. For quite a while I did my "intense" clubbing once a year at Club 35 in Fredonia NY. It was a full nude full contact bed dance club. I don't think I ever had a dancer there refuse or stop me from doing just about anything. There, I'd go 2-3 times in the space of a week and reliably spend $200-$300 each night and leave very happy each time. Sadly the building owner forced out the old club last summer for one who promised to pay more. I wasn't impressed with the new management. They had 2 dancers on a Friday night. Lame. On my last visit to the old club I really broke the bank. Bed dances were $50 for 2 songs, I took 2 girls back for 6 songs. They might have had an even better time than I did, and I had a really good time.