OT: A young girl is hinting at being interested you, but is young? what do you d

36 comments

• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  Be careful that is my advice
• vincemichaels

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  7 years ago

  Other than the fact you work together, I'd go for it. Workplace romances hardly, hardly ever work out.
• rockstar666

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  7 years ago

  When's her birthday?
• larryfisherman

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  7 years ago

  Build that wall!! In all seriousness just be on the safe side and wait till she's 18.
• Estafador

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  7 years ago

  @vincemichaels well this is a job I work between one or two days a week. I have a much better job elsewhere and I plan to quit the job we work together at in a couple months. @rockstar huh you know, I don't know. I just know that she will be 18 before she graduates in June. Hmm, but isn't it still weird of an age gap. I mean it would be a girlfriend, not a sugar baby or something stupid like that. And there's still the issue of parents. I know east Asians are very serious about family.
• GoVikings

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  7 years ago

  your age difference isn't that big at all just wait until she's 18 and date the girl And as you said, it's very unusual to see an Asian woman with a black guy SO DO IT ESTA DO IT!
• rockstar666

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  7 years ago

  Filipina women seem to ONLY date black guys.
• Estafador

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  7 years ago

  Well Filipino women aren't common in NYC. Then again it's hard to tell because some of them know tagalong (lol) and some know Spanish. And tagalong might as well be aliens talking to my ears.
• vincemichaels

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  7 years ago

  Cool, Estafador, in that case I'd go for it, she's legal. :)
• JimGassagain

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  7 years ago

  You should join Tinder. Then you'll have many more young girls interested in you mostly for sex and a quick bang!
• GoVikings

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  7 years ago

  Jim nah, girls are very boring and unresponsive on tinder
• shadowcat

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  7 years ago

  Speaking of Filipinos why is it that? People from Japan are called Japanese and they speak Japanese People from China are called Chinese and they speak Chinese People fro Korea are called Koreans and they speak Korean Etc....... But people from the Philippines are called Filipinos and speak Tagalog
• Estafador

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  7 years ago

  European infiltration.
• Estafador

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  7 years ago

  Way too many European nations infiltrated, and pilfered the many resources....then there's English naming terms, loss of tribal languages, etc. That place is pretty poor for a reason.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  w.r.t. the age, you can date her but try not to be alone w/ her in a compromising position where your black-mamba may want to make an appearance (at least not till she's 18 to be on the safe side). If she's an immature soon to be 18 y/o then I would personally pass, if she's not a drama-queen then age is just a # (as long as she's legal), and Asian people "typically" are well-grounded but of course it's not universal - but when dating a much younger person one needs to be cognizant they are not as emotionally mature nor have as much life experience as one does thus one needs to be more patient and understanding and also be aware that young women w/ not much relationship experience can often fall hard especially for an older guy so one neds to be cognizant of their emotions.
• georgmicrodong

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  7 years ago

  Dating and talking is fine while she's 17. Fucking is the only legal problem. Don't be unescorted. :) Then eat her out for her birthday.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  w.r.t. her family and you being black, all you can do is be respectful and if they don't accept you then that's on them
• Tiredtraveler

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  7 years ago

  When I was 25 I could only stand to be around 18 year olds for short periods because 18yo girls love their mind games and I do not. Short term, AFTER SHE TURNS, I say go for it but wear a hat no matter what she says or you WILL be paying child support. You DFK an 18 yo and she will get pregnant.
• lopaw

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  7 years ago

  17 will get you 20 ;)
• Dolfan

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  7 years ago

  I'm with lowpaw, 17 will get you 20. I stay away from 17yr olds, period. That said, in my late twenties I dated a number of 18yr olds varying degrees of success. For what its worth, I'd stay friendly while she's 17 and reconsider when she's 18. What's the worst that could happen?
• eyeamlong

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  7 years ago

  Don't Do it !
• gammanu95

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  7 years ago

  I was 28 when I dated a 19-yr old. It was New Orleans, so getting her into bars was no problem. It probably won't work out long-term, but wait until she turns 18 and the grab her by the pussy.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Be careful waiting till she's 18- once 18 JohnSmith69 may swoop in w/ his big-wallet and take her from you
• JohnSmith69

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  7 years ago

  You're safe from me. I love 18 yo white girls. You need to make sure that you won't get in trouble at work. Otherwise I see no reason not to go for it. Your age difference is no big deal.
• Corvus

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  7 years ago

  The last few years I have really become interested in girls half my age. That won't work for you so wait until she turns 18 then make a woman out of her. Repeatedly.
• san_jose_guy

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  7 years ago

  Must leave juveniles alone. SJG
• K

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  7 years ago

  Ask her out for her 18th birthday. Plan something good.
• mjx01

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  7 years ago

  "but isn't it still weird of an age gap" got to go captain obvious on this... you're asking a msg board full of hound who have a habit of discussing p4p with ladies 1/2 or 1/3 their age... yeh. my 2 cents.. make sure she's 18. if she's coming on to you that hard, why wouldn't you try to get some civi action? I get that the age gap is weird... I couldn't stand an relationship type situation with someone 8 yrs younger than me... but whether or not she's marriage material shouldn't automatically veto a less serious pursuit IMO.
• sp

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  7 years ago

  I would just play it cool and hang out with her at work or with friends similar to what the other guys are saying. I wouldn't be alone with her until she turned 18 and you know for sure. You may not want to quit that second job just yet. You sound(read) like a pretty smart guy so just use your big head and you should be fine. At work we used to have colleague summer students come in to work when I was 23/24. This one blonde(19) would stare across the table at me during lunch. Once she realized I liked her staring at me, she would run her foot up my leg and watch for my reaction. She moved on to sitting next to me and stroking me over my uniform. We ended up playing around the whole summer but all she would do is stare at me and jerk me off. She loved watching my face until I came. Best summer ever for this PL.
• AbbieNormal

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  7 years ago

  There is a Jewish formula for the matchmakers. Half the man's age plus 7. I never saw a clarification as to the order of the operators, but that means according to the shadchan 16 to 19.5 is your sweet spot. As for the legalities, can't help you there. Try dating. That third date thing isn't law you know, it's a scam by horny dudes who want to get laid.
• larryfisherman

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  7 years ago

  You might just have to redshirt her until she becomes of age.
• Jascoi

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  7 years ago

  according to Wikipedia the age of consent in New York is 17.
• ime

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  7 years ago

  How much can you have in common with a 17 year old? If its just sex that is one thing, if it is more than that is another. Probably best to stay away for a couple years.
• san_jose_guy

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  7 years ago

  They can still use other laws against you! Best to leave minors alone. SJG
• Bavarian

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  7 years ago

  You're getting ahead of yourself. You have not even taken her on a date and you're already thinking about her parents? Yeah better stay away until she's 18
• ime

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  7 years ago

  Bavarian she will be cholorformed and tied to a radiator in Lloyd Schoene's basement by then.