Help me... I think I'm falling into a relationship
GACA
Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Wasn't my first choice of stripper (this chick's gotta ton of tattoos) but one night she asked (begged more like it) one of my favs to asked me to get a dance from her.
The dance was not spectacular but sure as shit the conversation was great. Took her back to my place the first night fucked like rabbits (No money exchanged).
Soon I was just picking her up from work same drill. Two weeks into I let her sleep over. Things were going well until she got picked up on a violation.
While she was in county we talked on the phone for hours. She getting out this week, I'm thrilled because the sex us going to be off the charts great. I mean I've still been fucking other strippers while she was in county and the sex was just ok.
Anyway. Talk some since into me. I definitely caught the head over hills feeling, more surprisingly that she isn't my usual type.
The dance was not spectacular but sure as shit the conversation was great. Took her back to my place the first night fucked like rabbits (No money exchanged).
Soon I was just picking her up from work same drill. Two weeks into I let her sleep over. Things were going well until she got picked up on a violation.
While she was in county we talked on the phone for hours. She getting out this week, I'm thrilled because the sex us going to be off the charts great. I mean I've still been fucking other strippers while she was in county and the sex was just ok.
Anyway. Talk some since into me. I definitely caught the head over hills feeling, more surprisingly that she isn't my usual type.
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Let us know how it all blows up with P4P and new girl. It will be glorious, but worth it. Continue while you can.
Then you can start staying overnight and having breakfast with them. Even drive the kids to school. When they ask if you are going to be their next daddy, just tell them you hope so.
Once you have gotten over that hurdle, you can marry mom and legally adopt the kids. You'll enjoy spending your weekends with your new family. Drinking coke and watching cartoons on TV.
You'll be so happy with your new life, that you will stop going to strip clubs and drop off of this discussion board. Your wife wouldn't approve of it anyhow. Just make her take a shower first when she gets home from the club every night and gargles with Listerine.
Good luck.
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SJG
The funny thing about PLing is an other regular guy can normalize these types of things, and type this sentence as if it weren't off-the-charts outrageous. There's a zero percent chance I'd ever meet a girl in the real world, find out she's in "county", and ever talk to her again. But, once you have a crush on a stripper, and especially if she triggers your inner save-a-ho, it's just another day in the life. I'm lucky I have other guys to SC with, we smack each other up when one of us starts being a dingbat :)
So I'll do this thing for as long as I can avoid having to talk to the kids. When she starts talking about me meeting them. I'll just say I can't do it anymore. That's assuming no serious SS happens before then.
One wants to save her, and one wants to fuck her.
:)
SJG
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Be careful if she git kids...she is fertal and you could fuck up and have some with her...so take caution
Enjoy the sex and the emotional benefiting from it
Just remember nothing last forever...everything has a start and end...then a rebirth
So stay clear of financial mistakes like marriage
Clear your little and big head with other providers to keep yourself in check
Other than this please enjoy this blessing from the Lord
You know the correct answer. You just don't like it. Run. Run fast. Run far. or at least tell her you can't be part of her life right now. Block her number.
In the end, fortuitously I ended up teaching a class downtown two nights a week, and would stop in after class for a while, but she moved on as I said, and we lost touch. But that, and another casual slip of we should go there, you'd love it (it was a strip club where she was scouring for girls) led me to conclude we had a real friendship in her eyes mores than mine.
But then there was the one that blew up in stripper shit, and my stupidity, because she had my work and home phones (no cell at the time). And the other one that ended in stripper shit when I drove her to the home of a guy she was trading sex for a place to crash with and got a BJ in the front of my car for $80 and she got busted the next day for stealing a customer's credit card. And the other one that ended in stripper shit when news of our OTC activity leaked back to one dancer in the club and she suspected me. Sadly she was right, but in my defense I only told one dancer (I think, two at most) and in my further defense I was drunk, trying to get some ITC or OTC action from the dancer I told, the dancer I told it about had not danced for about a year or so and was pregnant (with a supportive partner, long story, they once showed up where I occasionally tended bar looking for me, luckily I wasn't there at the time) so I kind of assumed she'd quit. Plus the dancer I told it to was supposed to be moving to Colorado. Oh yeah, then there was the one who drowned.
Should be fine.
Should be fine.
P.S. GND CF eventually did get her act together and before she quit we had a few great weeks with a restored and genuine friendship and some really great times, then she went on to become a lawyer. Some of them really are students after all.
I mean as the boyfriend I got to enjoy the benefits of my bitch bringing in all that extra income...nice Tvs, cars and shits
But I had to deal with her going out and getting railed lol...funny now but if your emotional investing that Shit no longer is funny having one or more dudes pump her pussy
On the flip side being the custie yeah if she is dating some one he gets to enjoy your hard earned money at a faster rate than it took you to print it.
But
You get to face fuck his hoe...I mean you can really make his bitch pay then he has to enjoy my sloppy seconds after I destroyed her pussy with multiple pops
She probably is telling the truth. She does want those things. That doesn't mean she will put in the effort to make it work. Her problems are about to become your problems. She goes to jail, you take care of the kids. Her dealer if she has one will be showing up at your door.
Real talk
I understand the psychological aspects of a hoe...I would probably make a good pimp
I often believe it's why hoes like me so much because we are naturally drawn to our type
Been thinking about pimping some for a while since in all honesty pimping is nothing more than dating more than one hoe....it's a love relationship between a hoe and her pimp
Good luck my friend
Remember in the pimp game you don't choose the game but the game chooses you playboy
I'm similar ish
Get lappers, play poker, pay hooker to role play wife then I cook hamburgers
See close to the same lol
...OK she used to be a bit of a Coke head, doesn't have a license or a phone admittedly, kids are half black, and has daddy issues. But she really really is in love with me :)"
And she is back in jail for some unspecified "violation?" Sounds like marriage material to me. ;)
SJG
@Jackslash it's $12 hour where she's locked up. I've spent $650 since she's been locked up
When I was younger I made some of these bad choices and stayed broke because of it
The up side was yes the sex was off the charts
Thank god I stayed grounded enough not to wife a hoe that belongs to the community
As a man that is starting to get older I would personally avoid this for financial reasoning only...honestly I've had my feel of drama and emotional rollercoaster 's
I'm much happier, successful and productive alone and leaving my emotions in check...I do pay providers to minister my physical and emotional needs but I keep it business because that's the safest and best place to keep it
Well for me at least
Each to his own
If your happy then fuck it your happy