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5 years ago
For me, if it’s a one time thing, I don’t really care what her name is. If it’s someone i’m seeing frequently, I will usually ask her her real name (and will usually get it). Then, it’s academic.
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5 years ago
When mongering in Singapore, you can get all different varieties. I suspect ones horniness/stamina/sexual skills have less to do with the ethnic make up and more with the individual woman, the chemistry (or lack thereof) that you have with them, and whether or not there is trust.
That written, I, too, am having lustful thoughts about NiceSpice!
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5 years ago
Fantasy’s in WV, at the time I went, had a very open menu in VIP, had an open (lame) lap dance area. And apparent had an S&M dungeon in the basement (did not partake)
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5 years ago
“Subraman, it's probably both. Those strippers have sapped and impurified my precious bodily fluids.”
LOL - didn’t realize that impure bodily fluids could do that to a person!
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5 years ago
Hey mag - no apologies necessary. Every situation is different. Playing “would have, should have, could have” is something we all do. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose and sometimes it is difficult to tell. Thanks for sharing
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5 years ago
Not sure why you gave it “5”s. Your experience seems way worse than that
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5 years ago
Agree with the above comments. Very informative
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5 years ago
MrEddyG - sorry but I found this review very coherent, and I am envious of this reviewer’s experience.
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5 years ago
Did you really spend $500-$1000 dollars here on your visit? That’s pretty outrageous for the prices you reported and what others have said are the expected donations. This also appears to be your first review and only club reviewed. I don’t get it.
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5 years ago
Thanks for the suggestion. I hope others read this as well as I’m not sure when I might next get back to the city.
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5 years ago
Jake. I agree with you. I was definitely going to try the younger Latina but never got the chance
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5 years ago
I didn’t want another beer as I had a significant ways still to drive. Oh well, so it goes
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5 years ago
My first live concert was Paul Revere and the Raiders outdoors in Utah. One of my last 25 years later was Lyle Lovett outdoors in North Carolina. Perhaps the best was an Elton John Concert where he had no warm up band, started at 8:00 pm and played straight without a break until after midnight or a James Taylor concert in the Marin County Civic Center (a relatively small venue) in the late 1970’s. I have also seen a couple of magical Keith Jarrett concerts — total improv.
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5 years ago
I used one once with an escort — it was essentially seran wrap over the goods. Highly unsatisfying.
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5 years ago
The site that Papi refernced is quite helpful (internationalsexguide) I’ve been fortunate enough to travel some and it’s really led me to done great places that I wouldn’t have necessarily found just on the internet alone.
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5 years ago
There is a TG “woman” who escorts and dances in the Harrisburg area. Also, the River’s Edge club (formerly in Duncannon, now in Port Trevorton) advertises that they have Trans dancers
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6 years ago
I certainly is simpler to approve a review than disapprove it. If it could be altered to be similar, an inadvertent approve would be far less likely.
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6 years ago
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CJKent (Banned)“The more a person needs to be right, the less certain he is...”
At some level, this might explain why many of us participate in this hobby.
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6 years ago
I guess you’d need to define “happily ever after”. Obviously the man in gawker’s story was getting “something” that he felt was worth his time/effort/money. And the stripper’s response after his death suggests an emotional attachment of some type, too. Humans are complex (obviously) and the spectrum of emotions and attachments that may or may not occur in this potentially very intimate hobby runs the gamut. I think it is best not to be too judgmental on what someone chooses to do or not do. Always be wary and suspicious or never be wary and suspicious — these extremes seem fraught with missed opportunity or profound disappointment
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6 years ago
I think it’s a big “it depends”. For me, I enjoy striving to make a connection with the dancer, if only for the moment of the dance. Sometimes the connection happens, frequently it does not. And that connection (or lack thereof) can impact the dancer’s activity, and thus my response to it. That’s why, for me, one-way touching just doesn’t make the cut.
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Thanks for your diligence
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
Interesting perspective. Not sure what I think. Unless I am totally misreading it, I believe that I have been with dancers for whom LDKing for me certainly seemed to be a goal and one they seemed genuinely pleased to achieve. Often, those dancers who do not have any interest in FS sort of activities but enjoyed pl asking in this hobby just the same.
My two cents
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
Jack - great joke! Didn't see that coming!
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6 years ago
There are also undoubtably some who take their proceeds from this job “tax-free” which also plays into the “short-term” immediate gratification theme.
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6 years ago
At the risk of being laughed off the board, I think that since both partners in this “dance” are human, and that human feelings inevitably become involved, you’re going to have the full spectrum. The trick is to have the EQ to “tease” out what is really going on a conduct yourself accordingly.
As for my personal experience, I’ve been nearly completely correct as well as entirely wrong on different occasions. As they say, good judgment comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgment.