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17 years ago
I've been grabbed by lots of dancers in various places before I even had a lap dance. It doesn't even seem unusual to me anymore. Nothing wrong with a dancer enjoying mileage with a guy feeling her. A few dancers may disagree but I doubt too many guys will.
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17 years ago
I understand TessieV. In this case the lights were shining more towards me and were in my eyes more than hers. I thought she noticed me and was probably the girl I told no thanks too not too long ago when she asked for a dance.
I have noticed a few dancers from time to time in that particular club occasionally get a bad attitude when they are told no. They usually end up quitting after a while to go work somewhere else. I assume I'm not the only guy who doesn't like bad attitudes after telling a dancer no thanks. Maybe the one dancer was just in a bad mood at the moment. I can't mind read. I just went to the next stage and tipped a dancer there. Then I club hopped and forgot all about it except when visiting this site.
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17 years ago
Out of the only 2 or 3 guys sitting at the stage, I thought she probably saw me. I guess it's possible she was blind as a bat and can't see someone holding up a dollar bill. I didn't think I was acting invisible at the moment though. However I do remember walking up to someone and standing almost right in front of them and scared the daylights out of them when they suddenly saw me.
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17 years ago
One big reason I pay attention to the foot area is to avoid getting hit by those spikes in their heels. Those things look dangerous especially when the shoes are flying around in the air during a stage tip.
I remember one dancer once apoligized for wearing army boots. I told her I don't think I would have even noticed if she hadn't said something about it.
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17 years ago
It doesn't have to be Christmas or anytime special. One dancer likes me to slap her ass every time I get a dance from her. She bends over and then I know I'm supposed to smack her.
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17 years ago
Talking about nice guys, if you listened to one of my sisters describe my brother and me at times, you would think we were the sum of all evil. We were actually quite nice though. We just didn't let people take advantage of us. Give us crap and we would give it back a whole lot worse in devious ways I heard. I think all that was way overblown. My younger brother and I settled our differences a lot faster. We would fight. I guess we grew out of that phase after a while. I hear stories about that too. The stories make it sound like I'm lucky I didn't kill someone. I thought of myself as a nice guy but maybe I'm not compared to some guys who put girls on pedestals.
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17 years ago
If you have multiple sisters, I doubt you'll be acting like too much of a nice guy. That sounds like the best way to screwed over and not get anything you really want. Unless you were lucky and had very nice sisters. For me, it was like a political game with lots of shouting, yelling, and bargaining. Other times though, things were peaceful. Now with my younger brother, we were fighting about every day. However we were good friends, we just settled things the old fashioned way. That was fine with me, he always lost. One of my sisters accused us of conspiring against her a few times. Total nonsense. We were always nice guys <evil grin>
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17 years ago
I encountered a lactating dancer sometime in the last month or two if you check back on the discussion board here. I didn't realize it but her breast and apparently nipple were squeezing up against me and that must have triggered some milk to leak out while she was sitting and talking to me. Then when I got a lap dance, I'm not sure what I said but I was holding my hands up to avoid getting squirted in the face. I wasn't upset about it but would have preferred no milk coming out. I remember during a stage tip in one club, a dancer warned a guy and accidently squirted him in the face. He thought it was funny. If I'm going to come into contact with somebody elses body fluids, I'd rather get to know them a little bit better or enjoy the process a lot more.
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17 years ago
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Lol, I was wondering what her reaction would be if you instead gave her a bill for $18 for the cost of the T-shirt? Probably just rip it up or toss it away. If I see her, I'll turn down dances from her and tell her she kept the tshirt of one of my internet buddies. I would have gone by there last night except I was a bit tired and it rained like hell last night for a long time. The 2 inches of rain we got we needed though. I heard Columbia got over 2 inches of rain. I think that's the most rain we've had at one time for several months.
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17 years ago
I have no interest whatsover in feet. Well, I hope they look normal but that's about it. Sometimes I feel like the guys who may be sexually excited by that may be more easily exciteable. I never understood how you could be that excited by feet.
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17 years ago
300 lbs, that would be ugly. These two females weren't ugly and looked good. I don't think I would have had a table of guys sitting next to me questioning me afterwards asking if they work here etc. etc.
I don't know, maybe they knew the one dancer was bi and she seemed to be familiar with me. Actually if they did know that, they probably would have asked me about her. One of these days, I may end up sitting with a table full of dancers and female customers all around me.
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17 years ago
I think the last time a female customer waved me over to her table a few years ago, she was laughing saying that someone thought me and her were sex partners. I'm thinking who? a bouncer or a big guy in the club? What seems amusing to a female customer might be something I have to keep an eye out for.
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17 years ago
Now that I have thought about it, I thought of a way everything could have been worked out. I would have to ask the girls what they meant about going in the back. ie, will they dance topless and give me laps or were they thinking of something else? I know of a bi dancer (didn't see her but one time though) who would have been happy to join us. I would have had 3 girls dancing for me but the bi dancer and the other two probably would be interacting with each other a bit. It looked like the 2 girls were really into each other so I have no idea why they asked me to go in the back with them.
I was a bit wary about the whole thing a few minutes later because I thought they asked another guy a question and then came back to their chairs. Then it seems like some other guys returned and had a few words with one girl, probably asking why they were talking to some other guy I wouldn't be surprised. Oh well, I remember one night as I left the same club, some people in a truck started talking to me. Then I heard a girl inside say "you like these?" She flashed me. I said "yeaahh!" Usually though, the female customers don't say anything to me.
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17 years ago
To prove the above point, I left the club within a couple of minutes of the one dancer ignoring me. Meanwhile just a week or two ago, one dancer on stage flirted with me and kept giving me attention. I ended up giving her a total of 4 one dollar bills on stage. Then I got the two for one dance special from her. I actually enjoyed the stage tipping better than the more expensive lap dances from her. It was only slight one way contact.
Now, I need to remember to stop telling dancers what other clubs I visit because they keep switching or trying out the clubs I visit. I've been asked several times by different dancers if she should work there or at her current club. I think I just need to think of a good lie to tell dancers so I can avoid the topic of club hopping. Unless I want the dancer to club hop as well.
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17 years ago
I remember in one club I once had two dancers try to get me to take them both in the back room for a double team lap dance. I turned that down. Then they asked for a tip which I wasn't used to and it's not normal in that club. I offered each one a dollar which I thought was very generous considering I never even saw them before and was sitting in the back of the club. One dancer told me off and said to keep my dollar saying I needed it more than her. She even had the other dancer give her dollar back to me. Then she left with a snobbish wave of her hand. Less than 30 to 60 minutes later, both dancers spotted me again apparently not remembering a thing and asking me for a dance all over again. They got the quickest NO thanks possible. Some dancers seem stupid. The stage tipping is more like a way to get a guy interested in her so he'll want to get a dance later. If they don't understand that or act snobbish to everyone, they won't be making much money in my opinion.
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17 years ago
In the clubs I go to, I don't think it's expected that dancers will come by necessarily afterwards. It is a sign that you might be interested in them though. I've actually never seen a dancer rip up a one dollar bill. I have seen a few or heard a few complain but suddenly look happier if they get two of those instead of one. If I like a dancer I may tip her multiple times on different stages and others often tip a dancer after I do. If a dancer rejected my money, she may not be realizing it, but she may have lost out on 10 dollars in tips from me and other guys. I have noticed sometimes when I just sit in my chair, so does everyone else.
A dancer who ignores someone trying to tip them when she doesn't have anyone else trying to tip her is just asking to be ignored by everyone. Maybe it's not like that in busier clubs. Rejection does work both ways. I think nothing of turning down a dance. Not taking my money seems snobbish at best and I avoid dancers who may act like that. Not just once but on subsequent nights as well.
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17 years ago
I wouldn't say it's impossible to consider something like that. However I do associate a number of negatives with dancing I wouldn't want a wife to do. One thing is I would want a wife to have worked a real job and know how to appreciate the hard work some people have to do to earn their money. If a dancer doesn't know anything other than dancing, she doesn't really appreciate in my opinion how hard it is for some people to get their weekly or monthly paycheck.
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17 years ago
I guess I could have claimed I thought they worked there. Probably would have been asked to leave the lap dance room at a minimum though.
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17 years ago
I was wondering, is it still DATY if you only licked around the edges and never stuck your tongue in?
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17 years ago
in response to "I'm almost out of money." I sometimes hear "well how much do you have left? we can work out a deal."
Just remember dancers won't believe a word you're saying if you're smiling or grinning when you say it. At least the experienced dancers won't believe you.
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17 years ago
"Why aren't you married?"
Then I get to look at her and say "I've never found the right girl."
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17 years ago
I definitely would never marry anyone who was still a dancer. I take marriage a lot more seriously than someone like Britney Spears.
I've never found a dancer I was interested in marrying either.
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17 years ago
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Other general red flags
In clubs that do two for one dance specials, you tell her you're waiting for one, she tells you she doesn't do those. Definite ROB, remember to avoid her no matter what she claims she'll charge for dances.
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17 years ago
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A R.O.B. red flag.
"I'll be right back" but instead she sits and talks with other people after you already paid for her drink.
A ROB in action,
You expect her to leave your table when you do but she sits there and orders another drink and waits for you to come back to tell you. Then she leaves immediately without paying the waitress for what she ordered without asking you. Her future reward in all club reviews, I won't forget her unless I don't see her at any club I visit. If I do see her I'll be posting her name as one to watch out for.
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17 years ago
Yeah, they could even ask did the stripper ghost sexually molest you? Then you could say, well I fell asleep naked on the sofa and the next thing I knew I felt a sucking sensation. Obviously she's a horny ghost. Then say "I plan on bringing her to the strip clubs to mess up the DJ's sound tracks." "He talks too much anyway so he could use something to shut him up."
Or maybe try to be more serious and use the EVP thing and see if something really happens. Even if the only thing you hear is a ghost recording talking stripper shit, it could be an instant hit with the crowd.