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19 years ago
RL, why do you think a stripper might be telling you she is "AFRAID OF STALKERS"?
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19 years ago
No. I haven't heard any strippers say that.
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19 years ago
Why do you constantly put down all the criminal boyfriends RL? You know if it wasn't for criminal behavior, beer and liquor would still be against the law today. I bet there wouldn't be any smoking and you would get fined if you even stated a word not fit for public consumption. Of course I sometimes forget you are MR. BAD ASS who knows all about criminal behavior. I see the act you're putting on, trying to make us think you know nothing about being a criminal by putting them down. I bet you have stripper girlfriends all over the place being such a Bad Ass expert on strippers as you are.
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19 years ago
No. I don't agree with the original statement. I don't consider a lap dance to be sex. Some women get some crazy ideas. If I saw a girl getting a lap dance, I certainly wouldn't say that she was having sex. I think some people are prudes and I certainly wouldn't want to be married to someone who thought you were having sex just because you were thinking about it.
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19 years ago
This sort of thing gets me concerned. If a stripper suddenly decides she's going to start kissing and licking you all over, I was wondering if you can get a STD from that. That tongue in the ear or down your throat could be scary.
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19 years ago
RL, are you saying that some strippers only want Sex or friendship outside of the club? If so please provide their name and phone number and I'm sure the rest of us guys here can provide some satisfaction for the sex starved strippers.
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19 years ago
RL, if a stripper told you this, she is absolutely correct. You should consider it a priviledge to be able to hear all of her conversation. Congratulations, you have found a mentally stable and smart stripper.
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19 years ago
When a dancer approaches from behind, I have an almost immediate response of "maybe later." I say almost immediate because sometimes the dancer realizes I haven't had a chance to look her over yet to even know if I'm interested in her for her looks. I've had a couple of dancers approach from behind which I don't like, but then they stepped back and let me look them over a little bit. It's more typical though that the dancer who approaches from behind gets too close to check her out and thus will immediately get turned down. I don't like people sneaking up behind me.
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19 years ago
I guess the fear of saliva probably works both ways. A customer might not like a tongue suddenly stuck in his ear and a dancer might not like a strange guy suddenly licking her. Of course if you've had enough beer, your worries seem to disappear temporarily. I just don't want to wake up and discover saliva is dangerous too. I imagine the dancers who are giving out sloppy wet kisses and sticking tongues in the ear certainly are not concerned.
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19 years ago
I don't usually ask any questions pertaining to a dancer's personal life except maybe where they are from after they ask me. I once had a dancer say she was new and I agreed to get a dance. Then she gave me so much personal information I was getting turned off from her. Right before I get a dance she starts telling me about her 3 kids age 3, 4, and 6 or something like that and goes on and on about her personal life. I was thinking she definitely is new. I was thinking I sure hope she doesn't think this is some kind of pick up bar instead of a strip club.
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19 years ago
I overheard one or two clubs in South Carolina now do visual criminal background checks on customers. If you look like RL or otherwise like a bad ass criminal, your dress code is wrong and they won't admit you. I'm serious when I heard the dress code is business casual. I was wearing shorts and a collar shirt and didn't have any problem though.
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19 years ago
After thinking about this one for a bit, I believe this may be a dancer I have turned down many times and never got a dance from a single time. I'm not 100% sure but maybe now she will ignore me. I usually get more than enough attention from girls I am attracted to within strip clubs and outside strip clubs and don't want to bother with girls I'm not that attracted to. If some guys aren't attracted to every single girl in a strip club, I don't know why that is hard for some people to believe.
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19 years ago
I forgot to mention, the pretty blonde who was apparently the one doing the fake moaning over the DJ's microphone earlier in the evening was the one who won. She was the prettiest but I was slightly surprised she won since she had her blue jeans on the whole time until the end.
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19 years ago
I was at a club last night when they had amateur night. One of the girls competing I happened to be sitting at the table next to. There were 2 slightly overweight girls (not real bad) and one chubby girl and one guy. I kept hearing the DJ make announcements for signing up and after an hour or so I heard one girl tell the other (I'm going to go make me $100, come on.) An hour or two later she was in the contest. She had some tough competition and they looked decent. I heard they were from like Jamaica, the keys, the midwest, and some places a little bit closer. Either some of those girls were not dancers or they were never any good at dancing. They didn't look that bad topless though. If someone likes girls to take off their street clothes on stage, that would have been a good spot.
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19 years ago
But what if you tell a stripper you are out of cash after she asks for a dance and she says she wants to NEGOTIATE for whatever you have left. Then I say no thanks maybe later and then she invites me over to her house. I have to admit, I don't recall getting invited over to a stripper's house after turning her down for a dance after I told her I was out of cash. I was suspicious so I just hesitated and said "maybe later." Then she said "I knew it wasn't about the money." I wasn't attracted to her so I didn't feel like playing any games with her if that's what it was. I guess if I had a few more beers I might have regretted where I woke up in the morning. Fortunately I just said NO. You can't trust what the strippers might have in mind especially if it's at THEIR house.
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19 years ago
It can be easy to let your fears get out of control. I remember I was slightly concerned when the government started talking about the possibility of mass smallpox vaccinations in case of an attack and then all the side effect warnings came out and they advised people not to get it unless they needed it etc etc. Then I heard people born before 69 or 70 something already had it. I was going like the government puts out a big scare and then I find out I was already vacinated and didn't even remember it. I do believe there are real dangers out there though.
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19 years ago
Can someone define small club versus large club? Is a small club one that has hundreds of people in it or is that a medium size club? I know of one club that has less than 50 to 100 people in it including dancers. I do believe some clubs instruct the dancers not to give out any personal information while small clubs may not care. It might depend more on the management than anything else. I know of some small clubs that are very strict on no personal exchange of information at the club.
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19 years ago
That actually sounds amusing in hind site. I must have got her upset without even trying. Her Stripper S. didn't work on me.
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19 years ago
I remember going to one very small club where all the customers were dressed nice knowing that they did have a dress code. To my surprise I ran into someone I knew at work who always acted like he was into religious bible studies and that sort of thing. He introduced me to some of his "friends." He told me this one guy is the son of the mafia leader for the county we lived in at that time. I was thinking, ok now, I better be on good behavior. I didn't even know there was a mafia where I lived but I knew I kept hearing a about a high profile murder about every month. I don't know if those murders had anything to do with the mafia but then again I didn't want to. The dress code at that club sure didn't keep out potential criminals. My coworker then asked me not to tell anyone that his friends dragged him along to the club.
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19 years ago
I think the answer to this question depends on two things. The dancer and management. If the dancer likes you and management is not going to be all over her case then you are more likely to get personal info. I remember going to one club where the girls had no problem at all with seeing people outside the club. I remember visiting one time and a dancer who I had never seen before told me about a party someone was throwing somewhere and she invited me to come along with her. I passed this one up since I was no longer a local in the area and was going to leave the next day.
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19 years ago
Actually I might add, my coworker did more than just ask me to keep quiet. He said pick any girl and I'll pay for the dance. That was fine by me.
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19 years ago
The first time I met a stripper OTC I didn't realize all the Stripper shit that went on many times. This dancer was actually quite nice and didn't try all that stuff with me. Of course she was the one who suggested we go out to eat after she got off from work. I spent some time hanging out with her OTC. It just seemed like I was hanging out with an ordinary girl except she was 2 years older than me. After encountering other strippers, I am wiser now and usually try to avoid getting to know any stripper OTC. Just say no to S.S.
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19 years ago
Lol, Yoda must be using the force on the dancers. (just a little star wars joke) :)
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19 years ago
If I like a dancer and her dances, I enjoy it when they offer to do a free one or do more at a reduced price. I always ask any dancer I'm not familiar with what the price is ahead of time because I think we have all been burned before. I typically only pay 10 to 15 per lap dance. I turn down all the other girls or don't get any dances if the price is higher than that. It works for me.
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19 years ago
You can read the reviews for any given club to get a clue. Of course some customers and dancers have been known to lie on occasion. (Looking around at all the other people, lol)