what really goes on in vip?

It depends mostly on three variables: the locality and their prevailing rules, the type of club you're in, and the girl you're with. In some localities not much is ever going to happen - rules are strict and enforcement is high. I categorize clubs into four groups: the neighborhood titty bar, the GC, the medium-sized club, and the LD factory. Neighborhood titty bars rarely ever have a VIP room - if laps are done they're usually done out in the open or in a designated area without much privacy, and most guys are there to drink and watch, not to buy private dances. The GC's will often have many different rooms at different prices, but supervision is pretty strong in many of them, depending on the locality, because they have high investments to protect. Again, most guys go to GC's just to watch and don't buy private dances. There are also medium sized clubs that fall somewhere in between these two extremes in both size and price, and they will often have one or more private rooms, sometimes with a lot of contact, and guys are more likely to buy private dances because they aren't too expensive. But I've always found that the most contact occurs in the LD factories, places that are usually BYOB with not much in the way of stage shows, they exist solely for the laps and that's why everyone is there. Again it depends on the locality, but in many places such as this anything goes, especially if there are private rooms. And some girls will always do more than others, but girls who work in LD factories know why everyone is there and they don't last long if they object too strongly.

Extra note: The regular vip rooms where lap dances are performed that I know of are not that private. Lots of other customers and dancers are often within sight with bouncers keeping an eye on things hopefully off to the side and not right in front of you. The dancers at different clubs have told me about hidden cameras and visible cameras which also keep an eye on things. I prefer to know a bouncer is watching than some mysterious hidden camera even though the camera is better sometimes since it's not in your face.

Then there are a few guys attempting to take pics within strip clubs using cameras or cell phones if the management didn't screen for it. I don't believe people are supposed to be doing that though.

I'm not completely sure what you are referring to as a vip room. I know some clubs call the vip room as a room with sofas that a lot of dancers take customers back to and perform lap dances in front of for $10 to $40 dollars in some clubs. These clubs often have a champagne room or other more private room where the costs skyrocket to hundreds of dollars just to get in (often includes a bottle of champagne I believe) and then you have to pay the dancer and tip on top of that. What goes on anywhere will of course depend on the individual dancer, her relationship with you or attitude, and how strict the management is and whether or not they closely watch (many hidden cameras in clubs now). I never desired to pay a club hundreds for a private room. I'm one of the guys only paying $10 to $15 per song for regular lap dances but I usually get at least two dances. I believe dance prices are a lot higher elsewhere in the country.

heatherlake, I guess it really depends. It can range from an Air Dance to Outright Sex. And it really depends on alot of factors. Meaning: YMMV.

I've been disappointed beyond belief to so surprised that the fantasy is permanately burned into my brain. And the mind blowing one is one of the main reason I still go to strip clubs.

"She was hot & I was young/horny/stupid."

Lol, strip clubs exist for this reason....

Mo one has really answered the question...Hasn't anyone been and had fun???

General Rules:

1> Be Extremely selective prior to any VIP visit. Get Test Dances first.
2> Negotiate outside the VIP room First!!!
3> Make sure you have a certain level of trust first.
4> Have extra cash for the Tip.
5> But most of All select a "Rule Breaker"

But always ask yourself, am I that desparate or is this a deal? Can I just go to a massage parlor and save money?
Could I get the same thing for less by hiring an escort?

Never Fall for the "BBD" Pitch - "Bigger Better Deal!!!" it's always false advertising!

Why roll the dice?
"Impulse buy" doesn't just apply to stereo equipment!
She was hot & I was young/horny/stupid. But what the hell, I was curious & she was extremely hot! That was a life lesson I really didn't mind too much!

Do you, (or should you), really go into the VIP room for that type of fun?? I've never been but would reallllly like to go with my husband..I think it would be a grrreat show. Were you the only girl getting a lap dance??

I had my first visit to the VIP room when my husband's friend surprised me by buying me a dance. I was pretty shy, but she wasn't. I got fingered, and it ruled. She even licked her fingers when she was done. ;)

There's a great web site.."inthevip.com".......Really hot..pics & movies

Who knows what would have happened for that $1000. What I can tell you is that for around $300 you can get a hour with an beautiful escort in a nice hotel room and something will DEFINITELY happen...maybe even 2 or 3 times. Why would anybody roll the dice in the VIP room?

I went to a club and met a really hot blonde. She talked me into going into a VIP booth with her -- $500 a pop for an hour. This basically ended up being lots of bump and grind, mutual touching, but no sex. However, she (and a host) said for $1000...anything could happen (wink, wink)...along with getting her beeper number for "dinner dates" later. No thanks...but I sometimes wonder what would've happened?

Based on what some of you say, there are obviously exceptions to what I've found. But I've never seen anything illegal take place in a VIP room that has room for more than one couple at a time, which is most of them. In these kind of VIP rooms what goes on is little different from what goes on in the more public lap area, if the club has one, the only difference is that you're paying by the half hour rather than by the dance. The only times I have ever been offered extras was where each couple had their own private booth or tiny room. If that's the way the club is set up and there are no cameras in the booths, there are almost always going to be extras available from some of the girls. But you may have to become a regular if that's what you want. Girls are usually (but not always) pretty careful with strangers.

Hi GoldieMack, the forums only go back a week or so and there is no archive that I know of. What goes on in VIP rooms varies greatly from club to club, some places just have the normal lap dances you are probly used to getting, while others go as far as full on prostitution if you ask. The best way to get an idea is to read all the reviews of the clubs in your area. Most reviews are pretty honest in my opinion, but just because one person got something special does not necessarily mean you will also! It all depends on the dancer, the night, the money youo are spending, etc. Just use them as a general guide as to what can be done, but yes there is more than private dances going on in some VIP rooms.

You can read the reviews for any given club to get a clue. Of course some customers and dancers have been known to lie on occasion. (Looking around at all the other people, lol)

I've been in a number of VIP rooms. Cost has ranged from $30 to $200 plus tip. I've yet to leave less than pleased, except one time. That time I realized I'd payed for nothing more than an air dance, so I just got up and left without tipping. Sure upset the dancer, but oh well. Also, I've not returned to that club.