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8 years ago
If the dancers share a ladies room with customers, I'll occasionally see a dancer exit a stall and go right back outside w/o washing her hands. I never get any lapdances from her, that's for sure.
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8 years ago
Alot of dancers don't realize how ripe they are from dancing "down there", and I have never found a way to delicately let them know. At least with the breath thing you can't offer them gum or a mint. Offering them feminine hygiene products would probably not go over too well.
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8 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
Nobody really gives a shit, tho some strippers will comment on mine. And it has never interfered with getting an UHM dance.
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8 years ago
I love the fact that virtually any life situation has a matching Seinfeld reference!
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8 years ago
Often they are back there shooting the shit with the other girls, and on their phone phishing for reg's to come in. Add the clothes & makeup thing and it's a surprise that they ever come out at all.
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8 years ago
It was when I was in my first year at college,a fine chick hit me up in the ladies room at a Pearl Jam concert. Never looked back.
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8 years ago
Lol it wasn't me but it easily could have been. I have clubbed with my idiot friends and never again. Zero-to-stupid in one drink. I don't have the patience for clumsy rookie moves in a club that I like - I won't risk getting 86'd by some idiot, even if he is my drunken friend.
Now you guys on TUSCL are seasoned pros, so I see no issues. There are some exceptions, of course, and they're not invited :p
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Oh dear god NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
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8 years ago
Lol flagooner- guilty of both counts :)
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8 years ago
I'm willing to share, Corvus ;)
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8 years ago
Hi CaraLynn
Yes I'm a girl. Hi!
And I like your taste in women :)
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8 years ago
Only had a dancer toot once during a dance, and thankfully it wasn't in my face. She was horrified and ran off before I even had time to react.
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8 years ago
She'd definitely empty my wallet.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
2.
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8 years ago
So what do you do for the remaining 7 minutes?
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8 years ago
Wow that guy sounds like a real piece of work. You did more than most people would have done to placate him under those circumstances. No matter what it sounds like he was looking for an excuse to get out of paying for those dancers. What a POS.
When I used to get dances out in the open the stares and leers got real old, real fast. Now I will only get dances if they are offered in a private or semi-private area. VIP's are always best for privacy. Costs more but well worth it for many reasons (wink wink).
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8 years ago
The only club that I have ever heard of that has male dancers (consistently) is Olympic Garden in Vegas. They house the guys upstairs for the ladies on weekend nights.
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8 years ago
Not this woman.
I'll take the hot female strippers, thanks. And gladly pay to do so.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
My understanding is that they would be more than happy with a 3rd option. The problem is with the mandate coming down in places like NC that demands that they use the bathroom of their birth sex. But what if a man no longer has a dick, and instead now has a vajayjay? As repugnant as that may be for some to consider, it is just as repugnant to expect that person to continue to use a men's room. And that is exactly what that law demands in NC. Now if that TG still has his dick, then he's just fucked. Literally & figuratively.
A unisex restroom would make everyone happy, including TG's.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Yeah I know that the whole transgender thing is complicated. And of course I understand the concerns. But what is the solution? I still say that if a person has completely transitioned (including gemital surgery) they should use the restroom of their brand spanking new naughty bits. It's the pre-op situation that has everyone all in a tizzy. If a pre-op male-to-female person uses a men's room, they are gonna get their ass kicked in there, looking female on the outside and still sporting a shlong. And if they use the ladies room, they are deemed a threat to the women in there. Talk about being stuck between a rock and a hard place. If you have any empathy at all you have to realize how hard that is on them. It must be difficult enough going thru the transition and now you got no where to pee! The only real solution is a 3rd restroom. Hopefully businesses will agree and offer to add one.
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8 years ago
I'm in an open relationship.
Just don't tell my wife.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Nina +1
It's a very murky subject. Despite what some may think, it is simply a case of a TG person wanting to use the restroom of the gender that they transitioned to, not the gender that they were born with. If they are post-op, then it's really a no-brainer. The issue gets muddy if a TG is pre-op and still sporting their original package. What Nina mentioned is the only real solution.....but it will mean a remodeling cost burden for many businesses to install a 3rd restroom that is genderless (can be used by anyone).
And you are right about one thing, chessmaster - the LGBT community will always fight for equality.
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8 years ago
We men & women mongers like all sorts of dancers. At 36 you are far from out of the running. In my area the topless joints tend to attract dancers in their 30's. Go for it.
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8 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
It takes two to tango.
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8 years ago
An 8.5 with a potential to go higher based on other factors yet to be seen :)