Since ewire mentioned it in his post, I wonder how many guys leave their wedding bands oh when entering club, and how many take them off? Why do you do either? Dancers, how do you react to a wedding band, or when you see the telltale skin that they removed the wedding band?
Wedding rings don't mean a damn thing by either dancer or customer. Dancers only care about whether or not you have money. Some unmarried dancers wear rings to keep guys from hitting on them while some married ones take their's off so that guys will think they have a chance.
Just taking off a ring does nothing but expose you as a lying cheater, as opposed to a simple cheater. A phantom ring, made hairless and untanned by the ring, will expose you every time.
Out if all the years I've been clubbing I only recall seeing a dancer wear a wedding band maybe 3 or 4 times. Then again I'm probably not paying much attention. I have seen an engagement ring several time though.
I have never worn a ring, it's funny... I'll be out with Mrs S and some stupid random girl will start giving me shit on why I don't wear a ring right in front of my wife and Mrs S will tell them to mind their own business. One of my rebuttals is "if someone gave me a rock as big as hers I'd wear a ring too, but nobody did so I go without."
I keep mine on because it's obvious that a ring goes there, and because the dancers don't care. My money is green. A couple of times I've gotten to know dancers or escorts well enough that they mention the fact that I'm married; not a big deal to anyone.
I as you mentioned wear mine, of course my plan was originally for harmless fun so why no wear it. I will continue to wear it though while i figure whats next for me.
I agree with lopaw. I have always worn my wedding ring in the clubs, and it doesn't make one bit of difference to the dancers. Most don't notice or even look. Independent of my wearing the ring, I have had quite a few dancers, just in making conversation, ask me if I'm married. I always say yes (because it's the truth), and that doesn't make one bit of difference to the dancers, either. As has been said, it's money that matters.
Most of the dancers don't seem to care. In fact, I've had a few dancers that I've taken OTC tell me that they prefer married guys because they usually don't get emotional or become stalkers.
I once told a dancer i had made the mistake of giving my burn phone number to that I was getting back with my non existent ex-wife so she would stop texting me asking when I was coming in as she needed money.
Does that count?
Actually I would like to hear from one of the dancers on this site as to their views on the subject.
I think that most wouldn't care as long as you had the Harriet Tubman s and the Benjamin Franklin s.
Worn a wedding band the first few months of marriage and then took it off and didn't wear it again during a 25+ year marriage. Therefore, never a problem in clubs.
What was interesting is that dancers got friendlier whenever I told them that I was married.
Call me the exception: I take mine off. Maybe it's just a guilt thing on my part. I haven't been married too tremendously long (under two years), so the tan line/indentation isn't awful.
I don't think the dancers care. But I would feel bad about having this thing on my hand she gave me while I'm rubbing that hand all over some chick she'd hate.
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When I was married - I left it on. Now that I'm divorced - I don't have one to take off. I don't think it matters - as my money hasn't changed.
I have never worn a ring, it's funny... I'll be out with Mrs S and some stupid random girl will start giving me shit on why I don't wear a ring right in front of my wife and Mrs S will tell them to mind their own business. One of my rebuttals is "if someone gave me a rock as big as hers I'd wear a ring too, but nobody did so I go without."
The wives that are impossible would be taught a lesson. The husbands who cheat would be taught a lesson, a severe one, too.
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Fuck you Jackie
Thanks, Obama.
Does that count?
Actually I would like to hear from one of the dancers on this site as to their views on the subject.
I think that most wouldn't care as long as you had the Harriet Tubman s and the Benjamin Franklin s.
What was interesting is that dancers got friendlier whenever I told them that I was married.
I don't think the dancers care. But I would feel bad about having this thing on my hand she gave me while I'm rubbing that hand all over some chick she'd hate.