Customer Accuses Me of Watching Lap Dance
OK, I'm a big guy, not fat, but fit. Aside from my size, I look like a goddam knuckle dragging cave man. When I enter a room, I get noticed. I cannot disappear even in a crowded room. People look and I'm beyond being over it decades ago. So at a club a guy is getting a lap dance nearby and is repeatedly looking at me so hard I can feel it. The dancer comes over and says I am making him nervous by looking at him, I said I was watching the girl on stage but yes I did glance their way a couple times because he was looking at me, but having an altruistic nature, I agreed to move. So I move well away, my back to them and half the furnishings of the club between us. The place is dead and I am the only one watching the dancer on stage. I don't look without tipping and I'm saving it all for my fav, so I move again to a spot where I absolutely can't see anyone, but apparently this customer says I am looking at them again and shorts the dancer and leaves after telling her she lost money because of me. I may be a tiger, but I cant see in the dark and I certainly don't have x-ray vision. I told her that maybe the guy was just making an excuse to cheap out, and that he had her, this fine beautiful attentive dancer to entertain him, how could he tear his eyes away from her to notice what I was doing anyway? When I get a dance, my full attention is on the girl, and I don't give two shits what anyone else is doing, because I'm spending my cash for my entertainment and I'm going to enjoy it.
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The other customer was just paranoid - and he acted like a jerk when he shorted the dancer. Think about that logic - I think a dude is watching us - so I'm going to short change the girl? Obviously the other customer has issues and he fucked up.
On the other hand I have watched someone get a dance before at another table. I tip her later too. I am a perv. She was dancing for me and winked at me.
The customer sounds like he was paranoid and has some other issues. If it bothered him so much, he should have paid to take her private. Screw him.
For me, the answer is simple, take the customer to a private dance area. Lap Dance area, VIP/Champagne Room, etc. That's usually the trade off between a table dance and a private dance. You gotta fork over the cash for the privacy.
Reminds me of a DS story. She is doing bunches of cheap dances for me soon after I arrived. Table of old geezers next to us can't take their eyes off her for even a second through multiple songs. They'd been there a while and I hadn't seen them tip even a penny or get any dances from anybody.
After several songs of this bullshit, with consent of the DS, I talk to them. I tell them they have great taste in women because she is gorgeous. I tell them what dances cost, and offer to let her come to their table and dance for them so they can pay her to watch. The little pussies just turn away like they can't hear me. We then went to another part of the club to play.
There's nothing wrong with a dancer speaking up in this situation if she is upset by giving the free show. And the customer can speak up, especially if like me he is doing it in her behalf. But only a complete pyssy sends the dancer over to fight his battles.
1) looking is not against the law
2) you are in a public place (if you are in your house and someone is looking at you thru your window then yeah that is a violation; but in public you can’t think so much of yourself that you can’t be looked at)
As others – it doesn’t bother me if others look at me and my dancer – I can understand wanting/desiring to look; but within reason – i.e. don’t get up from where you are and purposely sit as close to us as possible and stare (most won’t do this of course but there are always some douches).
I look at dancers giving dances b/c I want to get dances from them myself and spend $$$ on them – pretty much every time they have taken my looks positively as me being interested in them and wanting/desiring them – but I normally don’t’ stare non-stop – kinda on and off.
Finally – strip-clubs are often filled w/ losers and weirdos so one should take anything anyone says in them w/ a grain of salt.
I'm a tall guy - (6'4" and skinny) and I know I can't hide. I would have probably moved too - so as to not draw any additional attention to myself. But after reading this discussion - I'm thinking it wouldn't have made a difference.
If that guy was a real man - he would have come over and spoken directly with you - and not send the dancer over. The dancer did his dirty work - and he only tipped her $5!
When I used to get dances out in the open the stares and leers got real old, real fast. Now I will only get dances if they are offered in a private or semi-private area. VIP's are always best for privacy. Costs more but well worth it for many reasons (wink wink).
That's what I first thought too.........and then one day it struck me.......
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Lol!
Ace point!
Just take this board for example! I hear that there is some weirdo that's obsessed with wiener dogs that includes the word "brilliant" in all of his posts! What's up with that?
I'll put it to you like this, I can literally stand a few feet away from the oval bar, and I mean stand not sit, and for 20 minutes, if I don't position myself literally close to a throng of strippers of to a man who's talking to a stripper or two I won't get approached or even looked at.
Maybe it's just NY has a far different mentality when it comes to noticing people. And no these don't be the black "make it rain" clubs neither.