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4 years ago
"Paying for sex or using the money for sex is stigmatized"
Being stupid and indiscreet is stigmatized. Paying for sex is something that a lot of guys who don't or can't would like to know how to make happen. Problem is, doing it wrong can easily get a guy looking stupid and indiscreet.
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4 years ago
For some places it would be the third shutdown. I started making visits to clubs again around August (after the second reopen) because I thought I needed to tune the lineup, but then one dancer who was about to get cut suddenly upped her game substantially. Still seeing how that plays out. She's barely drinking age so there's a lot of drama there.
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4 years ago
Actually I think I'm good right now lol
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4 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
"I guess they thought I had lots of cash?"
Bank robbers also specialize in "discounted cash flow creation and analysis" and some girls like that sort of thing, right? Think we've discovered the secret of Cash's success!
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4 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I didn't put an lol in my last post because dear lord there was a day where the oversensitives didn't need it, but "carefully calibrated life" gets it. You guys do better when you don't try to put words in our mouths or worry about what we think. It's not that serious.
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4 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Right up until the end you almost avoided sounding like a dugan.
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4 years ago
Why burn the hour if you don't have to? Secrets should be open now, right? If you don't like what you see then point the car toward Greensboro.
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4 years ago
Here's 3 more TJ articles on TUSCL from 2020:
Tijuana Mongering: Travel Notes
https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=57299
jascoi and tijuana visit on june 15-18
https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=57291
Anyone else ruined for SCs after Tijuana
https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=57209
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4 years ago
Here's an article from Nov 2020 about getting to TJ and back: https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=57577
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4 years ago
If this was ten years ago then sure. Now my TJ info is beyond stale. What I mean is there are TJ diehards posting about it all the time. You can filter down just to "TJ Mongers" threads.
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4 years ago
"without going into details, drinking could kill me."
Seriously? If that's the situation you should take a wingman with you. Prep is good. You're reading the site I used when I was going to TJ for the first time. But you're posting a fuck ton of basic questions on an open forum when there's a bunch of TUSCLers you could just send PMs to.
If "New to this" is just TJ and you've been in the hobby for a while, go have fun. If "New to this" is you don't know your way around any clubs and sex workers, then maybe try and level up stateside first. Yes TJ is the easy button for crazy hot sex with crazy hot women, but it's still not the kiddie pool. If you're a noob and insist on going anyway, consider taking a battle buddy.
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4 years ago
"Do you think money changes the the power dynamic between men and women?"
Yes?
"Anyway, what do you guys think?"
About your question or the rest of what you wrote? What would you consider to be an average guy? This thread is teetering on the edge of the trolling zone, but at least you're putting some ideas out there.
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4 years ago
Whenever I see something out of the ordinary these days in the clubs, the next thing I'm doing is checking for cell phones recording it. And trying to avoid ending up in someone's snapchat.
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4 years ago
How far "can" they go depends on the person who goes up on stage. I haven't seen a club force a customer do something on stage they were unwilling to do in the moment, but I've seen some pretty out there stuff. Just remember in 2020 that most phones have cameras.
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4 years ago
Hey doc, is there a story that's inspiration for the thread?
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4 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
If we're just talking about photos, I like these. https://tuscl.net/member.php?id=625903
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4 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
I'll pass, thanks. If that's a challenge to Eve, better hope you deliver. The Internet knows no mercy. lol
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4 years ago
lol. The end of the story is she didn't shit right for a week...
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4 years ago
"Since I'm too old to be a potential stripper boyfriend"
You're never too old to be a potential stripper boyfriend. As much as the stereotype of the slacker dude who smokes and plays video games 24/7 is out there (and yeah there's something to it), it really comes down to whether she relates to you or not. Just like any other woman. If you're viewing them as replaceable fuckstix, they can tell and that doesn't scream "date me". The rest of the post covered the not interested in dating strippers theme, so this is mostly for the lurkers.
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4 years ago
This thread belongs in the political forum.
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4 years ago
I went to a club yesterday and it was pretty slow. But the club was open so that was a good thing.
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4 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
"what else would you think?"
That you weigh 300lbs and have oddly long balls? But golf is a thing for lots of people so I guess there's that.
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4 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
"though no idea if dancers actually read the reviews here". Some do.
My screen name was meant to be a throwaway to get some info on local clubs, but then I was traveling so much I started writing reviews. Some of them I even finished.
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4 years ago
Heard XTC got shut down. It actually stayed open when the other clubs closed down around town because it's BYOB. Rumor has it the closure was about them getting busted once too often, so I guess having the cops show up every other day finally caught up with them.
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4 years ago
"I guess word to the wise at FC is to go to VIP right after a girl's stage set unless you are going to be quick?"
I'll try to handle things that way regardless of the club. Helps the vibe if we're not both half listening for a mush mouthed DJ to call her to stage.