Do you think money changes the the power dynamic between men and women?
If you are an average guy and want to get laid, ONS:
Problem-You creates a Tinder/Bumble(free app); most likely you get very few matches. Since most of the apps have tons of guys and girls get tons of matches too.
Solution: If you sign up for a paid app($100 monthly) like sugar dating and other paid apps, you get a lot of matches, the fact the paid keeps a lot of guys away. You can treat it as a regular hookup app since some girls are just looking for fun.
Problem: You go to a free or minimal cover nightclub, you get 80% of guys and 20% of girls, a highly competitive environment.
Solution: You pay $100 to a promoter to let you sit on the table. Since the promoter is doing drugs with his girl is only you and tons of girls. You can run your game and it's easy mode. I remember I was grinding on this girl only after meeting her 5m.
The only argument against this is the dating coaches who say, but does she genuinely like you? The answer would be I'm only looking for girls to hook up. Moreover, you have optimized your lead source to treat the girls in this environment as regular girls.
Anyway, what do you guys think?
Problem-You creates a Tinder/Bumble(free app); most likely you get very few matches. Since most of the apps have tons of guys and girls get tons of matches too.
Solution: If you sign up for a paid app($100 monthly) like sugar dating and other paid apps, you get a lot of matches, the fact the paid keeps a lot of guys away. You can treat it as a regular hookup app since some girls are just looking for fun.
Problem: You go to a free or minimal cover nightclub, you get 80% of guys and 20% of girls, a highly competitive environment.
Solution: You pay $100 to a promoter to let you sit on the table. Since the promoter is doing drugs with his girl is only you and tons of girls. You can run your game and it's easy mode. I remember I was grinding on this girl only after meeting her 5m.
The only argument against this is the dating coaches who say, but does she genuinely like you? The answer would be I'm only looking for girls to hook up. Moreover, you have optimized your lead source to treat the girls in this environment as regular girls.
Anyway, what do you guys think?
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"Anyway, what do you guys think?"
About your question or the rest of what you wrote? What would you consider to be an average guy? This thread is teetering on the edge of the trolling zone, but at least you're putting some ideas out there.
All I know is that shit trucks have more power than most vehicles to haul all those turds around! And the power is incredible when a dipshit is pleading with me and asking me not to dump a load In their basement
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@subraman
I appreciate your response. Again, I don't know why some people think my question was ill intended. I think about this ideas for a long time.
But there are limits. How much it takes to get a girl to push through her reservations is directly correlated to just how strong those reservations are. It's the reason that an obese billionaire can score a hot young wife, but an upper middle income dude who looks like the Elephant Man and is socially stunted cannot. This even plays out with some strippers in terms of what they are willing to do and with whom.
LOL...Dating Coaches?
For those TUSCLers who use dating coaches, save your money and use for it for strippers.
If a guy is naturally submissive, and he acquires money, he’s still going to have difficulty using it and being in control.
Money is generally equated with power and influence. But money alone doesn’t get you very far.
It is nice if she likes me but i am ok with her being really good at pretending to like me
Of course money does change the dynamic. Having enough of it so that it doesn't matter to you how you spend it (or even burn it) matters. The willingness to burn it, creates confidence. So enough money and the desire to spend at the club in sufficient quantity does change your success. The filthy rich south Floridians who rain $20's or even more for example do get what they want before they leave and are not worried about the rain. No one lives forever and besides they made that money while drinking their coffee playing the morning stock market.
By the way, I never thought of paying the the bouncer to introduce you to the players/regulars table. Very clever. Its very common to have all the girls with the regulars even if the regulars are not buying dances. Thanks for the tip.
I don't think there is a power struggle between men and women. And I don't think money changes the dynamics between men and women.
If you have money sure you can buy a hooker. And you can rent a golddigger. But youre paying for the illusion of being wanted by women. Youre still the same person and those women won't stick around.
As far as paid memberships on dating sites go. Just meet people in person.
Paying $$$ for bottle service in a regular club isn't worth it.