This of course after we had just finished one heck of an OTC engagement.
Frankly it was my bad. I was tired both because of the late hour and the workout I got with her. Alcohol may have also played a role.
In response I did indeed hug her, kissed her on the head and reassured her that I didn't think of her that way.
This highlights the very different thinking of a girl who advertises on escort sites vs. one who decides to accept a customer's invitation OTC. Now there are certainly some OTC girls who do indeed view themselves as whores, especially those who work in high mileage clubs, but those types of clubs are not where I shop for OTC partners. I like them low volume, but with that comes more moments like this, with higher sensitivity about how I behave after the fact. Once I even had a girl cry while she told me that she doesn't want me to think that she's a whore, lol.
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last commentRight up until the end you almost avoided sounding like a dugan.
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Conversely wallanon you sounded like a pompous jerkoff with every word you posted. ;)
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I've never seen the percentage in treating them like "whores" even if that's how they refer to themselves. Especially in the last decade or so, like you, I've mostly tried to stick with the low volume girls. Haven't always succeeded, but I try.
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Throughout my 30-plus years of mongering, I've always treated both the nice girls and the whores as a gentleman would. I think it's served me well because follow-up visits have always been more personal, more realistic. Don't get me wrong, I like to do some real dirty, kinky shit... and I do. But I always try and make them feel like a lady.
In my younger days used to pick up street walkers. I'm not talking about the Times Square or Bronx hookers of the 70's and 80's (I went with some of them too) but the ones in Newark who were just out trying to make a few bucks to support themselves and their families.
I went out with one of them a few times and she eventually gave me her phone number and address to pick her up at her house. After our next meeting I had a florist deliver a beautiful bouquet of flowers to her, along with a note saying how sweet she was and how special she made me feel.
The next time I saw her she literally started crying on my shoulder and told me it was the first time in her life she ever got flowers. Then she fucked me like a high-schooler on prom night. Best 40 bucks I ever spent.
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Hell yeah! I love it when ricky kisses my erect head! 😉 💞 He is sooo sweet to me!!! 🥞🧇🍪🎂🍰🧁🍦🍧🍨🍩🥧🍫🍬🍭🥂
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I think Rick makes a good point. He’s looking for low mileage otc girls. This type of girl can be sensitive to certain things or certain parts of the interaction that might make it feel like the guy views her as a whore.
It’s good to give a girl a hug, or sit with her for a few minutes. It makes it feel less like a transaction. Even with high mileage whores, they might not mind a few minutes of down time.
MisterOrange - very well done! That was a smart choice.
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You are truly a gentleape mrorange. Almost rickish in your generosity of spirit.
As my bud dugan has so often illustrated - and those wallanon-ape do not understand - being a rick is not a simple 24/7 exercise in being a badass. It is a carefully calibrated life where you are an asshole (but never 100% a dick) to those who deserve it while still showing your tender side to those who deserve that.
You did good my friend. You are truly a paragon among apes. Unlike that female zebra that is constantly trolling you by pretending to be a homosexual chicken. References to homosexual activities don’t work zebra girl. To be rick is to be secure in one’s own sexuality. ROAR!!!
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Advice for amateurs hoping to be ricks: don’t overdo the generosity of spirit thing. The point is to show those who deserve it that you care. Which you should!
But amateurs overdoing the generosity of spirit thing just become saps who get taken advantage of. Don’t do that either. Like the barnacle always says: find the path of balance...and drink some rickaritas and fuck some sexy hairless apes while walking said path. ROAR!!!
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I didn't put an lol in my last post because dear lord there was a day where the oversensitives didn't need it, but "carefully calibrated life" gets it. You guys do better when you don't try to put words in our mouths or worry about what we think. It's not that serious.
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Aww, that's sweet. A kiss on the head. Hopefully she kissed your head, too.
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@Mr Lion: while I appreciate your refined ability to see the all-too-obvious greatness of another Rick, even the hairless ape variety like me, I'm afraid that your comments about my "generosity of spirit" and "tender side" might have been a bit misplaced. That was 100% OTC partner relations. I was initially going to say "ho management" but decided against it lol.
She is obviously one of those girls who needs to believe that I don't think of her that way in order to be ok with leaving the club with me. 30 seconds of reassurance was a small price to pay to have her open to a repeat performance of the caliber that she gave me.
In the past some of the tusclers who frequent Detroit/Miami/COI style clubs seemed baffled by these considerations. They don't have to worry about these little niceties when they're dealing with girls who service 4-8 hairy cocks a day. But when you're targeting chicks for OTC who work in low mileage clubs specifically because they are low mileage, these nuances often come with the turf.
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^^^
Testify.
And - as a hairless ape - you don’t have the challenge of penile spines. Personally I don’t know how any female creature can get into a spineless phallus, but when I whip the old BSLC out and show it to those sexy female hairless apes about 50% are really into the idea of big cat lovin’ and 50% are worried they just can’t handle it.
I treat the latter with appropriate respect... rickspect if you will... and then they get into it! ROAR!!!
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I wasn't intending to comment on this thread, but I felt it necessary to clarify something here, Rick you really are kind of slow here, just like your ho's high or low mileage need some reassurance, you seem to be looking for reassurance yourself, because it's delusional thinking on your part that their mileage is any less because you are the consummate whoremaster.
The way I see it you are looking for affirmation that somehow you are better than everyone else for claiming that these mythical strip clubs that you frequent are full of unicorns, and none other than a stud such as yourself is capable of relieving them of their virtue.
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I find the whole low mileage/high mileage girl thing kinda funny. Like because you pick up some stripper in a low mileage club means SURELY she's not fucking a ton of guys in her private life right? Whatever helps you sleep at night.
Also, @Twentyfive Rick has made it clear that he's a fan of the brag threads and this just seems to be another one of them.
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The women you fuck reflect on the man you are.
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25, when you're not being hypersensitive you're being horribly stiff necked. Why does someone need to have an agenda to post an interesting stripper story on tuscl/ Isn't this the place for it?
As much as I've done and with as long as I've done it, I'm long past the point of needing affirmation from anyone, least of all the likes of you. My beliefs are formed from my own ample experiences. Feel free to harbor your own views and share them as you will. I post these stories to have fun reliving the moment.
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===> "Like because you pick up some stripper in a low mileage club means SURELY she's not fucking a ton of guys in her private life right?"
Fair point TFP. But there are two things I do know: (1) She didn't just service 10 guys ITC before she ended up in a bed with me; and (2) She isn't fucking as many guys as a girl who DOES give it up ITC simply because there are only so many hours in a day.
The rest you pick up by observation, including (but not limited to) her availability. Any girl who is readily available almost whenever I want her is likely not seeing too many competing hounds. One can also get a good sense over time simply from increased interactions.
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Damn Rick, if you wanted a hug just say so.
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LOL 25. Thanks for the overture, but we both know you like them younger than me. MUCH younger. ;)
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The ironic thing is that is what i ask from the girls so they don’t think I’m a John. 😞
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Just another admission from Ricky Boy that he once again fell for the "I only do this with you line."
I don't know what kind of jaded hookers Ricky Boy is used to dealing with, but I've never had an OTC girl not initiate a hug when we parted ways
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And then when the 25 screen name gets a whack the doctorevil account inevitably shows up, known best for his "blow job at Baby Dolls (Dallas)" story. That completes the BBC/25/doctorevil troll account trifecta. ;)
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Extras girls jn low mileage clubs are generally doing a lot of guys coz thats their hustle plus not much competition.
When you pay a hooker of course shes had aex with more guys than you. Its not like shell tell you about it lol
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I also don't get being squeamish about just being another trick. Which is what a guy is to a hooker
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Dugan you really love the drama don't you it's a bit feminine at this point, you seem to only post to take shots at folks, try having a sense of humor it might serve you better. And that winky emoji you like to use is so fucking gay, not that there's anything wrong with being gay.
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25, do you have anything else topical to add to this thread or do you intend to just keep trolling it? Just curious. ;)
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Thanks RickyD for all of the refurals to all of the other ricks! 😉 RickyLion was a really good fuck! Keep the refusals cumming! The only ricky I font have interest in is rickycrab. Gettin the Crabs are no fun huh
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I get this kind of stuff sometimes too. It’s very cute and I like it. And the same people calling her names are the same people who will not be paying the bills.
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Treat her well from beginning so as you don't have to try to salvage her feelings at the end. If she was a whore up until the hug, a forced hug doesn't change it but it can make her feel a little better about it.
NAAAASTY
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Whore sounds better than "sex worker." That term is so clinical and dumb sounding.
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Whore has a negative connotation and often implies something past just simply one individual paying money to rub body parts together. It’s often used to describe an individual who engages in unethical behavior such as lying or wanting to sabotage another for one’s own satisfaction.
Sex Worker is a term that, as far as I know, has started popping up because actual women in doing anything related (camming, stripping, FSSW, etc) did to want to have a more neutral tone without connotation.
It’s pretty for published media. If the writer uses “sex worker” or “prostitute”, it helps with making to figure out what the individual’s likely views are on the subject.
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^omg I apologize for the terrible grammar. Gonna have coffee 😕
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I make it a point to always be a gentleman, else she might not unlock the handcuffs.
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Yeah nicespice. Stop being so dumb sounding!
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^^^ you mean Randumbmember sounding? He’s the righteous troll of grammar police.
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SJG - that explains so much. If he had only hugged you - it would have helped so many goats from your wrath.
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