"At least hug me before you go so I don't feel like a whore"
rickdugan
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This of course after we had just finished one heck of an OTC engagement.
Frankly it was my bad. I was tired both because of the late hour and the workout I got with her. Alcohol may have also played a role.
In response I did indeed hug her, kissed her on the head and reassured her that I didn't think of her that way.
This highlights the very different thinking of a girl who advertises on escort sites vs. one who decides to accept a customer's invitation OTC. Now there are certainly some OTC girls who do indeed view themselves as whores, especially those who work in high mileage clubs, but those types of clubs are not where I shop for OTC partners. I like them low volume, but with that comes more moments like this, with higher sensitivity about how I behave after the fact. Once I even had a girl cry while she told me that she doesn't want me to think that she's a whore, lol.
Frankly it was my bad. I was tired both because of the late hour and the workout I got with her. Alcohol may have also played a role.
In response I did indeed hug her, kissed her on the head and reassured her that I didn't think of her that way.
This highlights the very different thinking of a girl who advertises on escort sites vs. one who decides to accept a customer's invitation OTC. Now there are certainly some OTC girls who do indeed view themselves as whores, especially those who work in high mileage clubs, but those types of clubs are not where I shop for OTC partners. I like them low volume, but with that comes more moments like this, with higher sensitivity about how I behave after the fact. Once I even had a girl cry while she told me that she doesn't want me to think that she's a whore, lol.
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In my younger days used to pick up street walkers. I'm not talking about the Times Square or Bronx hookers of the 70's and 80's (I went with some of them too) but the ones in Newark who were just out trying to make a few bucks to support themselves and their families.
I went out with one of them a few times and she eventually gave me her phone number and address to pick her up at her house. After our next meeting I had a florist deliver a beautiful bouquet of flowers to her, along with a note saying how sweet she was and how special she made me feel.
The next time I saw her she literally started crying on my shoulder and told me it was the first time in her life she ever got flowers. Then she fucked me like a high-schooler on prom night. Best 40 bucks I ever spent.
It’s good to give a girl a hug, or sit with her for a few minutes. It makes it feel less like a transaction. Even with high mileage whores, they might not mind a few minutes of down time.
MisterOrange - very well done! That was a smart choice.
As my bud dugan has so often illustrated - and those wallanon-ape do not understand - being a rick is not a simple 24/7 exercise in being a badass. It is a carefully calibrated life where you are an asshole (but never 100% a dick) to those who deserve it while still showing your tender side to those who deserve that.
You did good my friend. You are truly a paragon among apes. Unlike that female zebra that is constantly trolling you by pretending to be a homosexual chicken. References to homosexual activities don’t work zebra girl. To be rick is to be secure in one’s own sexuality. ROAR!!!
But amateurs overdoing the generosity of spirit thing just become saps who get taken advantage of. Don’t do that either. Like the barnacle always says: find the path of balance...and drink some rickaritas and fuck some sexy hairless apes while walking said path. ROAR!!!
She is obviously one of those girls who needs to believe that I don't think of her that way in order to be ok with leaving the club with me. 30 seconds of reassurance was a small price to pay to have her open to a repeat performance of the caliber that she gave me.
In the past some of the tusclers who frequent Detroit/Miami/COI style clubs seemed baffled by these considerations. They don't have to worry about these little niceties when they're dealing with girls who service 4-8 hairy cocks a day. But when you're targeting chicks for OTC who work in low mileage clubs specifically because they are low mileage, these nuances often come with the turf.
Testify.
And - as a hairless ape - you don’t have the challenge of penile spines. Personally I don’t know how any female creature can get into a spineless phallus, but when I whip the old BSLC out and show it to those sexy female hairless apes about 50% are really into the idea of big cat lovin’ and 50% are worried they just can’t handle it.
I treat the latter with appropriate respect... rickspect if you will... and then they get into it! ROAR!!!
The way I see it you are looking for affirmation that somehow you are better than everyone else for claiming that these mythical strip clubs that you frequent are full of unicorns, and none other than a stud such as yourself is capable of relieving them of their virtue.
Also, @Twentyfive Rick has made it clear that he's a fan of the brag threads and this just seems to be another one of them.
As much as I've done and with as long as I've done it, I'm long past the point of needing affirmation from anyone, least of all the likes of you. My beliefs are formed from my own ample experiences. Feel free to harbor your own views and share them as you will. I post these stories to have fun reliving the moment.
Fair point TFP. But there are two things I do know: (1) She didn't just service 10 guys ITC before she ended up in a bed with me; and (2) She isn't fucking as many guys as a girl who DOES give it up ITC simply because there are only so many hours in a day.
The rest you pick up by observation, including (but not limited to) her availability. Any girl who is readily available almost whenever I want her is likely not seeing too many competing hounds. One can also get a good sense over time simply from increased interactions.
I don't know what kind of jaded hookers Ricky Boy is used to dealing with, but I've never had an OTC girl not initiate a hug when we parted ways
When you pay a hooker of course shes had aex with more guys than you. Its not like shell tell you about it lol
NAAAASTY
Sex Worker is a term that, as far as I know, has started popping up because actual women in doing anything related (camming, stripping, FSSW, etc) did to want to have a more neutral tone without connotation.
It’s pretty for published media. If the writer uses “sex worker” or “prostitute”, it helps with making to figure out what the individual’s likely views are on the subject.