Comments by wallanon (page 29)

If you know there's another recent thread on Vegas why didn't you post your question on that one?

"Net-net if I'm seeing her regularly as a SD and she sees me playing around with strippers, it's hard to predict how she's going to react, especially if she learns of any stripper OTC activities." Is she new? If she's not new, there's a decent chance she's already assuming the worst because you're a customer. All of us who've been doing this a while know it's stupid that strippers/SWs look down on customers when do many are perfectly content to shack up with losers. But many people need to feel superior to someone especially when they're common. Customers give that outlet and station (in the club at least) to people who people who can feel marginalized OTC. "Maybe she'll be fine and maybe not, but IDK." If that's the issue here's my take. Don't make a pre-emptive decision because you don't know how things are going to go. If she's your instant fav with a glory box that's headed for the hall of fame, then if she has an issue you can win points by dropping other girls. She could also be a lousy lay and then you went and made concessions for no reason. Not that'd I'd have any recent experience with this lol.

Sometimes people try too hard. Something is off about DeSantis. If you didn't know who he was and saw footage of him talking about the weather he projects a totally different vibe than his political messaging. But that's not so different than a lot of politicians. There's a senator who projects "trailer trash" and late night hookup, and yet gets taken seriously when she speaks because she won an election. And she's not even cute (nevermind hot) without makeup. What a world!

"Assuming our upcoming date goes well, things could get awkward for me at this club. I very much want to get her naked under the sheets, but the cost, beyond money, might be to limit my ability to play with the dancers there." What's the downside? Is it that you'd have someone inside a club you frequent who knows you shop on SA? Or is it that you share more information about yourself with one set of girls than another? "I'd be very interested to hear any thoughts on this." I've been lucky the past few years that the girl I see the most stopped dancing, but even as an active dancer she was the rare girl who really didn't seem to care what I did with anyone else so long as I didn't talk about what we've got going on. Or didn't let it get in the way of what we've been doing. But besides her, every other dancer including my ATF is very aware and interested in who else is in the mix. It's a money thing but also a health thing. You've been saying your arrangements don't last that long anyway, so maybe it's not a big deal unless you're trying to keep your stories straight. But in that case you can just treat the SA girl like a dancer and keep the details lighter, unless it's already too late for that. This is one reason why I like to keep my sexy time options in a single channel. If I treat them all the same then I'm not needing to sort out who knows what. It's enough to manage that the girls keep club hopping more post-COVID and more of them know who their competition is.

"Do you really want a permanent record that you withdrew from a strip club atm?" It depends on why you would care. Any decent divorce lawyer (or auditor) is going to know that BigLuck's Steakhouse is really Jimmy's Jackshack where Sally blows Billy for a few bucks.

Hey muddy, when you write this is up can you add a quick recap on how the clubs were put into the tourney?

I've been to both places, but saw Flight Club more recently. And that was still 5 years ago. I'll vote Flight Club, even though I had to cut my visit short because I wanted to go another round with a dancer from BT's I done the night before at my hotel. Detroit is underrated for stripper hotties. Plenty of towns have dancers that put out. Detroit has dancers who put out you'd admit to notching a bedpost with. The talent gap with LA isn't as drastic as you'd think.

Ok I'll ask. What's a TL? Some kind of loser?

How did BT's make it to the Final Four? I don't have anything against the place, because I cracked a VIP booth by ramming it with the body of a 9+ stripper hottie over and over again, but it's not a place that would jump to mind for me when thinking about the top clubs. I suppose I'll go back and look at the bracket now.

I saw that, too. Somebody needs to knock on something.

"Taking a week off rn" Enjoy. May whatever you're up to involve hot chicks.

"Having done some sales before I got totally used to 49 No's in search of that one Yes. You learn that what you have is not for nearly everybody." I also worked in sales for a little while. Did ok with it because I had this flawed approach where I asked people what they wanted and offered them that. "The problem comes in a slow club." Thanks COVID and terrible economy and decades of hypocrisy ruining the great club scenes of the 80's, 90's, and early 00's. It's not been fun getting marked as money on a slow shift. "She has already heard No from everybody already there." Putting that shoe on the other foot. Maybe. But even if she hasn't been turned away by everyone that shift she's heard it enough since Day 1 to not want a hard pass. "When you walk in you are her only new prospect. She has nothing to lose from being a bit persistent." Mostly agree with this about a dancer approaching. The guys on the "go away" side seem to have a beef with dancers who can't or won't take a hint. If I know the dancer is an automatic no, it's typically for a few reasons. More on those later, but I do try and say something polite but clear that I'd rather they not sit down. If I do the pointing thing at another dancer, her getting a visual on what I like is usually enough for them to process and then walk. Counter on the persistence angle. Opportunity cost is a thing. The guys saying they're trying to save both sides time have a point. I'll routinely ask a girl if she wants to do the rounds even if I'm enjoying her company so they get another chance to make money. I've put off doing dances or a room so dancers could do this, even ones I've just met if I know I'm going to spend on them for a while and it's getting late in a shift. Girls will stay late if it's worth their time and lots of clubs will stay open if a customer is spending on dances.

It seems like there:s something with the site update that is causing all of these misposts. Maybe they're hitting a link thinking it's going to post to a club discussion forum and it's defaulting to the front room instead.

"Lol, she called me a boring loser who is destined to die lonely and finally went on her way." This *is* funny.

"Unless I actually am waiting for someone, which usually isn't the case, I then have to make up an imaginary stripper that I'm there looking for." Just point to the dancer you'd rather be talking to. Then you've told the truth and maybe the "go away" girl will mention you're waiting to the one you want.

People know a good review when they see it. If something got downvoted, you can always PM the person who did it. Sometimes it is just a difference of opinion and that's how life works.

"Does make all the dancers come to you first but that’s also overwhelming when they all want your money." Trade the word overwhelming for annoying and that's basically my experience since the pandemic started.

How do you guys view non/low tippers? +1 for none of my business. Or yours. Does it impact your tipping style? Nope. I'm there to "get mines".

These guys are so excited whodey forgot how a calendar works and JamesSD forgot his manners.

I've messed around with girls in porn without knowing it at the time. $1000 doesn't seem that bad if she's legit in the industry. See if she'll let you make a video with her and have fun.

Something about a possum and like a girl's good and bad sides.

Yes

Just read the whole post. If I'm having that kind of day, 2.5 hours is doable...

Does anyone see the name of the club or anything that narrows down who might be able to answer this question? I get that it's a question most dudes here wouldn't to answer in the open anyway, but I didn't see anything that would give a person an idea of what club they're talking about.

Lol