Comments by Doverman (page 3)

New Year Eve is amateur night for the drinkers and partiers, so I try to stay close to home.

There certainly isn't any fantasy to work. Work sucks.

90% of the time I don't hate my job, in fact I like what I do. It's that damn 10% of the time that unfortunately overshadows the fun times. Work IS reality, which is why I don't think there's any fantasy to it... whether you like what you do or not.

The fact that mommy keeps him locked in the basement after the run-in with the police is a main factor. The dude definitely has some major anger management problems.

Happy New Year to all of the sane posters here. Hopefully it will be better than 2005 was.

It seems like more and more clubs are bringing in ladies to do massages. I think clubs are seeing it as a nice option for guys who are just getting out of work and grabbing a drink or two before heading home. I don't think it will ever replace the famed "shot girls" on a busy weekend night, but I like the idea of relieving some stress this way to end a work day.

Bouncers with peering eyes in the VIP / CR rooms. VIP rooms that are too dark... I like to be able to touch AND see.

I once saw a feature dancer (porn star, don't remember her name) put ping pong ball into her cooch and shoot them across the stage at customers/tippers. She had good range, but not much accuracy.

"Honey, I think it's time we see other people."

It would make me nervous... whether I was doing anything illegal (or having anything illegal done to me). The whole atmosphere would be ruined, and I likely wouldn't stay too long. Now, if they were outside making sure my car didn't get broken into, I'd probably buy them a cup of coffee or two.

My first time was last November... in a CR room with a pretty little lady whom I never would have expected it from. She went from stick shifting on the outside, reached for the zipper.... and let's just say I didn't stop her.

"Most of my favorites do not drink while working but I have noticed an increase in mileage when they do take a drink." That's why I go to SC's late in the afternoon. The afternoon shift ladies have had a chance to have a drink or two and there are generally less (if any) bouncers than at night. A less inhibited dancer without someone watching over her shoulder can be a very good thing indeed.

I've been to clubs where it cost $X to get one of those paper wristbands which are good for your entire night, but never one with a more permanent set-up.

I'm not entirely opposed to the wristband idea for the VIP room. If the cost is reasonable ($5-$10 for a whole visit) it seems like a better way to pay the attendant/bouncer instead of the dancers having to tip him. Who knows... if an extra $$ happens to slip into his hand, maybe he'll be smart enough to look the other way each time you go in there.

Now see... I thought I should ditch the sneakers in lieu of some nicer shoes when going to a club. Maybe not "dressy" shoes, but casual shoes. I guess I'm missing the boat on that one. Maybe the dancers think I'm an undercover cop?????

Most everytime I go to Las Vegas I'll spend half a day at the hotel spa getting a massage and other things. It truly is relaxing and makes you feel totally at peace. I should treat myself better at home and get them here too, when I need one after work and not during a vacation. Never had an FBSM... but the thought does interest me. Kinda doubtful they'd have a place like that out here in boonies where I live.

tropicalH2O: A question... would a guy wearing a bracelet make you more or less likely to ask him if he wanted a dance? Pro: He's got the bracelet, so he's got the money and motivation to go to the VIP Room Con: He's already been to VIP room and could be tapped for $$$. Your thoughts?

I don't need it to have a good time, but it sure does help. If I had to choose between clubs with alcohol/topless and no-alcohol/nude -- I'd probably go with topless only and alcohol.

AMP=Asian Massage Parlor -- often known less for the beginning of the massage but more widely recognized for its happy ending.

In the world of escorts a "spinner" does refer to a very small, petite woman. Generally about 5' and around 100 lbs. I think (although I cannont verify) it's because they are so tiny you can pick them up, spin them upside down, and do a standing 69.

I've tried Cialis a couple of times, but never for a strip club trip. It gave me a wicked bad headache, and the benefits were far outweighed by the discomfort of the headache while having sex. Since I don't need it, I won't try it again. If I ever get to the point that I would need it, I'd have to explore my options or put up with the close to migrane headache.

Just a quick rant.... my top gripe has got to be NOSEY BOUNCERS. Damn it, I was at a club last night in the private dance area, things were just starting to get "more" than interesting, and the damn bouncer starts staring down the stripper. All of the sudden her hands move back to acceptable places and she moves my hands away from some tempting locations. Sorry... just had to get that off my chest.

shadowcat: Why Levitra? Does it provide a benefit that the other two drugs don't or is it because it doesn't have the side-effects of the other two? Happy lapping!!!

I have only tried Cialis. I don't have a problem getting it up, but I was looking for something that would make it firmer. It did do that. Maybe it was the drug, maybe it was the mental reassurance that the drug gave me that things were "guaranteed." I would try Levitra if it would give me the same effect downstairs without the adverse side effects Cialis did.

I paid for a TUSCL membership before a trip and wanted to make sure I didn't get steered wrong about where to go. Since then my reviews keep me active enough to be a non-paying freeloader. Same with TER on the escort side of the world.