what have you spent on strippers?

and way less expensive than my marriage.

Financial Documents, Receipts, Pics and Vids of the half million dollars spent or it didn’t happen.

:D

I hope you feel that was money well spent for the most part...

Good Times, Good Tomes.

My rough estimate would be a quarter million. Which says something interesting about human nature. I probably could have been more happy with some hot woman who wanted to immigrate to the US, in a 5 - 10 year marriage, if I could trust her to stick to whatever deal we made. I would have been fine with her "cheating", as long as she kept me out of any resulting drama. But I doubt it's possible to find someone who wouldn't take advantage of the fact that any such deal we made would not be enforceable in court.

I was laughing at the estimates, thinging, whoa, you guys are way too deep. However, after adding up the years I'm probably on the north side of that quarter million mark!! Damn!!! I didn't realize "fun" was so expensive!!!

One last thing, that's over a 30 year period. I'm not a high roller...lol!

About an hour or two a month at the club, but not much time with strippers. Maybe 15-30 minutes?

I don’t even want to think about it

^exactly what I was thinking.

^^ Muddy for the win

Old enough to know better but old enough to not give a shit!

When I think of all the money I've spent on strippers and in strip clubs, all I can say is that I'm so glad I didn't waste it!

Damn, I've spent about $12,000 in the last year and a half, and I thought I was a degenerate.

Most years I've spent no more than $2,000-$3,000. Especially when in Bridgeport, land of cheap ass extras.

I admit I'm a bargain hunter, I don't spend just for conversation or sugar.

Over the last 10 years I have no idea at all. If I had to guess I would guess....a lot, a real lot.

I'm with Muddy on this one.

I've had lots of fun and don't regret it (mostly...), but I suspect the tally would be a gut punch.

Probably $250K over the last 18 years.

We are looking back on how we spent and think, “wow, I sure spent a lot”

But think of it from the dancer’s perspective. They are saying “where did it all go” as they struggle to pay their heat this winter

I don’t keep track of what I spend strip-club or not – I more or less know what I’m able to spend and what I should or shouldn’t spend – I’m not one of those that keeps track of every penny I spend nor have ever had a budget – again I know what I can spend and how far I can go and also I’m single and don’t have anyone to maintain so that also makes it easier.

Thus I don’t know how much I’ve spent in my 20-year PL-career; and like others I don’t wanna know – early on in my PL-career I used to sweat it (the $$$ spent) but with time I just accepted it – now that I’m middle-aged I see it as money spent vs money wasted as I had many good times and experiences and have many good/fun memories – when I’m 80 and housebound (if I make it there) I imagine I’ll look back and be grateful for those experiences vs feeling bad that I spent the $$$ on them.

Since 2010, I typically average about $600/month. Plus another $10k or so for my “hard-core PL / White-Knight / not-quite-Full-Gawker” episode during that decade. For 2000 to 2009, tack on another $1k/yr.

I don't keep track. Jts money I put aside to spend and I stick to my budget. There have been times I went over and under but I don't count it

Post COVID and other changes in my life, I can see my spending rising to ~$800/month.

My top CF takes about 30Gs off me a year. Wild guess, she make 50Gs at the club also. She has a kid and likes the ganga, but isn't a wild spender. She's a good saver, but she lost a lot of savings due to being ripped off by a parasitic ex.

Believe it or not, $100. I know I talk the big baller game, but per stripper I've maxed out $100. Usually because I get sick of messing with third fiddle after a while. Or did you mean collectively?

Some of you act so rich and like you're better than everyone though.

I can comfortably spend like 5k a month but dont

^ I'll let the irony of those two lines just sit here. Weird flex, bro.

I'm going 10k a year

“Some of you act so rich and like you're better than everyone though.“

I don’t see anyone acting like that. Lol

I’ve easily spent about a quarter million but let’s do the math - over 40 years, that’s only about $500 per month. Hardly qualifies as a whale

For me, strip clubs would be totally NOT worth the hassle if there weren't dancers worth spending 4 or 5 figures on (not all in one night).

I'm in the top 10% in the US income-wise. I recognize its at least as much due to luck as anything else. If it weren't for sex workers and helping out relatives (before you say it, NO overlap there), I'd be totally fine on 30Gs a year. I've already got a lot of retirement money. So it would be dumb for me not to perv away big-time.

I haven't spent a dime on strippers. All of the money I have given to strippers over the years has been investments in priceless memories that will last me until I die or go senile. I am very happy with the return on my investments.

^Thank you Whodey. Nothing more needs to be said.

^I like this sentiment a lot! Let's not focus on what you've given to the strippers in your life over the years... let's focus on what they've given YOU! Surely that's priceless?! 😉
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At my peak it was probably $7k per year for around 4 years. Outside of that it was less than $1k per year. Nowadays it's even less.

And LMFAO at another self-own post by icee. Trolls others for bragging about being rich and then immediately follows it with her own brag about having the potential to spend like she's rich. Such a clown. 🤭🤡

I don't spend a lot, maybe five thousand dollars a year or sixty thousand dollars in the twelve years I've been going to clubs. I like to get out of the house and get a change of scenery so I go about once a week, pick a girl and just buy two or three lap dances with her. I like drinking and people watching while I'm there too. I do that in strip clubs and also cocktail bars, sports bars and small clubs with live music.

I could increase my income and spend more at the strip club but I'm lazy. I only work four hours a day. I could increase that up to eight hours and make more money but I like working four hours a day. I've always been lazy. I got bad grades in high school, even though my father was a high school teacher. My dad would say I was "smart but lazy". I don't think I'm that smart but I'm definitely lazy.

Stripping is a good gig precisely because a lap dance is a fleeting satisfaction, but regardless, we want to repeat it. It would really suck for a stripper if her lap dance was like going to Venice or something. Very glad I did that once, but don't feel the need to go again.

Only started going back about 3.5 years ago and no idea what I spent in my 20s, but didn't go often. I think since my "return", maybe $10k-$15k?

But holy shit. Some of you need to add me as a beneficiary to your trusts and / or wills. Wowzers.

It's too painful to think about. I would probably puke if I calculated the number.

Sorry Duderino I doubt your tits are nice enough to get into my will. nicespice however...

Damn. It was worth a shot.

Today, I do well enough that I don't need to think about what I spend. I spend less annually than I used to, but more per trip; but I do well enough that I don't feel it.

When I was a new college grad working an entry level job, my friends had all gone to work at union jobs right out of high school and were making twice what I was. My best friend was a strip club hound to the point of being an addict. Of course, we hung out every weekend at strip clubs. I would use up all my discretionary income on strippers and beer in one weekend. Even at the time, I knew it was dumb but I could not help it.

To answer the original question, too much to count.

Oh, CRAP.

Just read an email from my bank:"We are happy for announce that we recently increased the daily limits for debit card purchase and ATM withdrawal transactions."

Now I'm really gonna need to leave my debit card at home. I can't make good financial decisions when drunk!

To* announce, not for announce

I'd say just under 2K.

67 lap dances at $20 (pd $40 for 1 once, $10 once, plus $25 room charge twice) equals $1,400.

Add up LD tips, stage tips, couple dozen bottles of water, hmmm, maybe just over 2K.

And I can remember- something - about each dancer. Love my little memories (mammary) spreadsheet.

I'll clarify. It's not so much the money I have spent... but WHERE I spent it... Las Vegas. For 4 years I had a very adormal addiction to the strip clubs in Vegas. I lots of fun... But that money would have been well spent at other cities with great strip clubs and much lower prices.

I’ve spent more than I want to acknowledge, but it’s been fun and I don’t want or need to stop. Worth it. Winning.

It’s probably a used a car a year give or take. Right now it’s used Honda’s and Toyotas not yet BMWs

6 figures for sure. No regrets at all.

I only started going to strip clubs when I joined here. In the past 5 years I spent about 11k. Most of that was at Follies up until they closed. Haven't been to a local Club since. Made one trip to Tijuana last year and will try to go again later this year.

less than I would have spent on health expenses if I didnt go. If we gave every guy in america a free lapdance a week I think you would see a lot more physically and mentally healthy guys walking around.

I spent $6,000 in 2019 but then again everyone calls me cheap.

I’ve spend at least a vacation home over the last 35 years

As a nerd friend of mine used to say, about half.

With Bronze Ballacare you get one dance a week, two with Silver, three with Gold.

If I include AMPs, Sugar Babies, SC's, OTC...it's too painful to total. Let's just say I could be lounging on a nice beach in Thailand right now instead of riding my cube.

To be candid much of the money was just waisted. The learning curve with mongering is expensive.

The mongering rabbit hole runs deep. Very deep. Sometimes I think it's a good thing most men don't know the opportunity because it's fucking mind blowing.