Is there anything about the strip club scene that frightens you?

Nope.

Not That I can think of. Maybe meeting the ex-cunt in a club. Though that would probably just be funny as hell.

Not at all. The only thing that concerns me is my own $$$ self control.

Nope.

Yes it can. That's part of the thrill, from "watching my six" through a shitty neighborhood to the "what if I get caught" factor of taking Ms. Right Now to the back, to wondering if a coworker or polite society friend sees me.

How many girls are open to FS
How often these girls have some wild drama in their personal lives
How consistently girls believe in Astrology and want to get into Real Estate

It has a very scary underbelly....

Disease; hepatitis, colds, flu, and STDs.

it can be scary how easy i am...

I saw a bouncer brandish a handgun, and toss it to the house mom, Who throws a semiauto?

Chaindog, an idiot, that’s who.

Going to clubs in less enlightened areas where multiple patrons (and a dancer once) showed visible support for the side that lost the Civil War.

Most club owners have incentives to keep their clubs safe as old men and younger sissies spend money too, sometimes a lot of it. In the few hundred or so clubs I've visited over the years, I can count on one hand the number of places where I was on edge. They do exist, but they are rare. Each one was an urban (Latin or Black) club in very bad part of a town with a high murder rate.

IHV - are you black or Latin? If not I'm not sure why redneck clubs make you feel unsafe.

Yes absolutely the music. Often times it’s just animal noises. I just can’t take it sometimes it’s truly horrific.

Only when she starts to gag and turn blue. That frightens me that she my spill some on the floor.

I was walking in the alley from the Pink Slip to Roxy's in Brooklyn, IL (east of St. Louis) a while back. A cop stopped his car alongside me and recommended that I patronize a safer area. A guy had been beaten to death a week or so prior outside the Pink Slip. Victim was white. Assailants were black. Don't know any of the circumstances. Yes, this could happen anywhere in America, you just multiply your chances greatly by being in certain areas.

Never been in a strip club that concerned me. Some of the clubs in the area are in somewhat dangerous areas; on the other hand, drunk strippers walk to and from their cars, the local bars, and the strip clubs on their own, so none of the areas are too too bad. Of the three clubs in bad areas, I only ever went to two of them. One of them had garage parking so close that the walk was fine even at night. The other hand a liquor store behind it that was legit dangerous -- there were drivebys and shootings, clear gang presence, etc. At the time the strategy was, we all just avoid that street. Last time I drove by the neighborhood was gentrifying, and the former liquor store was a club filled with happy white people and happy Asians dancing, so I imagine things have changed a bunch

My main-concern is with dancers - I typically get a good # of dances from a good # of dancers and that kinda increases my chances of running into a ROB since I deal w/ multiple-girls during a visit - I have little patience these days for a floozy trying to put-one-over-on-me and that combined w/ my low-EQ means a decent-chance I may get into it w/ her in part b/c I go to dives where the dancers are often hoodrats that won't back down from trying to ROB you and think they can intimidate you; and the "management" in many of these places are are often kinda roodhats themselves.

I also specifically avoid clubs w/ aggressive tip-parades - this gets on my nerves - what I mean by aggressive tip-parades is dancers in a club that circle the club all night asking for (and in some cases demanding) tips, vs only asking for a tip when they finish their stage set; i.e. they milk the club's tipping-system - these aggressive tip-paraders ask for tips all night long whether they've been on stage or not and a certain # will give you the stink-eye or will get nasty when you don't tip-upon-request.

These things don't make me scared of going into a particular club, but makes me not wanna deals w/ certain clubs at certain times.

I've had a couple of run-ins w/ some aggressive black-guys in the black-dives I hit but it's never gotten physical except once but it was nothing major - but for the most-part w/e issues I've had in the dives I hit have been w/ hoodrat dancers and rarely w/ a custy - and I don't mean to imply that a visit to a dive club I hit means I'll have issues w/ a dancer at some point in the visit, it's def more of the exception than the norm.

The wife finding out where I am and showing up.

Salty: you bring up an excellent point I hadn't thought of. Back when I was married, I always had a fear in the back of my mind that one of her friends or coworkers who knew me, would see me there. Or maybe walking on the street into the club, or with a CF OTC (since I did my OTCs during the day)

@rickdugan: I'm black.

@heaving: Thanks. I tried to go for 'accurate, but not too heavy-handed'.

I guess my main fear is that someone that knows me will see me walking into the club from the parking lot. I live in a fairly small city and I am active in several organizations.
No one I know knows I go to clubs.

I haven't been scared when clubbing. I think my lack of fear was due to drinking heavily and having a good amount of liquid courage. Some of the dives I went to when I was a heavy drinker, were in sketchy locations.

If I could remember the clubs - I could have written some enjoyable reviews of a few Irvington clubs.

No nothing frightens me. But I do think one has be be alert. Desperate people in the club, creepy meat head bouncers, and nutty girls that provoke problems. Need to use common sense.

Most of our underground places are always in Mexican Bars, lots of alcohol flowing.

SJG

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The only thing that concerns me in a club is one of the ulta-conservative religitards (who are at least consistent in following their religious morals even if they *are* delusional) for whom I work finding out somehow that I used to regularly get my wick wet in the clubs.

I have a cover story and a loving wife who has my back though, so I'm not *too* concerned.

Guy in parking lot for Center Stage wanted "protection money" for my car. Gave him a couple of bucks. Wanted more. Said no. Asked bounder to walk me out when I left. Fortunately car was still there and troll was gone. Never went back.

^^^^^ If I saw such, THAT WOULD FRIGHTEN ME!

SJG

^^ You sound more afraid than concerned. Imagine an adult male being afraid of someone so beneath them that there is even a childish derogatory word, just for them. "Nothing frightens me" is the cry of the agoraphobic.

I know you're a lawyer, supposedly having mastered use of the language, but I didn't understand your post at all.

^^^ Speaking to me? Protection money guy like that would give me great concern. Not accustomed to seeing that in my regular doings. SJ not that wild and woolly.

SJG

Stupid Jerkoff Guy is frightened by a thug in a parking lot but is going to fuck me up when he comes for my guns.

Right.

Anxiety is a spectrum. A strip club is not as comforting and calming as my warm bed in my locked home, but a strip club is not as stimulating and anxiety inducing as a casino heist or a mass shooting at a rave.

^^^^ Pervert, difference between a street fight and performing an execution.

FTS is making a good point.

SJG

Guy posing to vandalize your car when you are not there, no good.

Never seen any kind of business parking lot anywhere I go where that kind of stuff is going on or would be tolerated for 1 second.

Fear, an unreasonable fear, is one thing. But taking reasonable precautions when a threat has manifested, that is very different. No cop would put up with such a thing.

SJG

I’m scared of the police coming in

I’m scared of a recession happening or economic upset, as in, if trump were to be impeached everyone would freak out and clubs would go radio silent.

I’m scared of younger generations of men becoming our main customer demographic and not patronizing strop clubs—no demand for the supply. Hopefully I’m long gone by then.

^^ I'm a millenial... lookin' at your photo, I'm quite confident in writing that millenials won't stop going to strip clubs as long as girls as hot as you are working there.

Thank you, this convo is for another thread.

The younger generation will go they just need more disposable income. So as long as the club is in a healthy economic area people will go

I've had a beer bottle thrown at my head by a stripper at wiseguys in Washington park.

I'm frightened by what a black light might reveal in the private dance areas.

“Execution”

LOL!

You idiots who’ve never fired a shot in anger in your lives and would piss and shit their pants at the sound of a bullet whistling past their heads talking about “execution” make me laugh. Out loud.

I’m scared of falling in love with a stripper.

===> "I'm frightened by what a black light might reveal in the private dance areas."

That is probably the healthiest fear I've seen so far. 😉

I'm scared I'll be broke when I retire and eating dog-food

Frightens - is too strong a word.

Once in a blue moon some local club has had the cops show up for some late night drunk and disorderly, but since I club in the light of day, that's hardly a concern.

Like SaltyNuts, I used to be concerned wife would find out, but once I told her, and got a limited permissions pass, my only (mild) concern is other family finding out. Unlikely, and not "frightened" much.

Hah good one Electronman!

Ironically enough for the first time ever a few days back I had a dancer ask me to use Purelll (she used it also).

I've been able to supress the 'concern' about being seen going into a club by someone I dont want to see see me - but it still exists.

You should be scared of her pimp if you don't pay

Its frightening to think that despite knowing how much I hate people lying to me (I don't hate the lying, just the idea that they think I believe them) that I allow dancers to lie to my face and pretend I believe them.

Wait, wait, wait!! I just thought of something.....

Your momma!!

I think most of you are closest racists. The amount of emphasis on race between who does crime and who is a "good citizen" is getting a bit ridiculous. You cant just say someone did a crime and leave it at that? If I was unaware, I'd assume all crime is done by black people because that's as much description as I'm getting

A blanket name callking of "racist". My how progressive. Most of us here are racist? Well I know someone here who is whiny, insulting and just may be a racist himself. Give us some examples or apologize.

I'm frightened that my favorite club might get shut down.

^^^^^ Knowing what that club is, that would indeed be a huge loss.

SJG

Never scared for my safety or anything like that. Concerned that on rare occasions in the heat of the moment in VIP I've allowed myself to...cross some lines that I know better than to cross, and that despite knowing better I could perhaps be convinced to do so again.

Clubs are fairly safe. In fact they are safer than most places. Think about it, its one of the few places where men and women of all races, body types, and religions come together for one thing some drinks and fun. Its a better uniter than sports as you can fights with fans of different teams. The only time you could be scared is if you idea of fun is hanging around the front door around 2-4 am. But as they say nothing good outside happens at 3 am in the morning.

From time to time I've landed in some odd, even dodgy situations. These were never in the Club or even walking out of some dives at 3am.
One time I was dropping two girls back to a club after an OTC. One of them was late and her fone had lit up with texts. A mile or so out I realized I was being followed. Fortunately I recognized the car. I did a couple of laps of a block to confirm how I was going to drop the girl in trouble off (and she'd be fine) ... all went okay. I then took the other girl for a drink and dropped her back an hour later.
Another time I got to a CFs apartment for the pick-up only for a suspicious big car pull up; and a very big guy got out.
I waited a few seconds and got out too. The CF appeared about a minute later. She walked straight past the guy and over to me and said there had been a change of plan. I said quite loud "You best go, enjoy the new club". I then drove straight off and congratulated myself on always leaving a clear exit when parking up in those 'hoods. She took the big car! I correctly guessed the club, got there first and confirmed all was well. Drove away. Got some interesting stories later that week.
She gave me a lot of kudos for being brave and looking out for her.
There have been other uncomfortable situations but pretty much at all of them I felt okay about at the time due to local knowledge of the towns from day-time drive arounds and good 2-way trust with the girls involved.

Mostly that some of them will close sooner rather than later.

The fact that the whole industry is dying.

That I might get herpes on my lips. That's a fear worth making rubber lips for

Yes, I live in fear of no touch clubs!

I will not go to a strip club that doesn't let me touch above and below the waist. This is non-negotiable.

Seriously though, strip clubs in my area are safe as fuck.

@tiburon. DENTAL DAMN.

@Nidan111 kissing too?

@tiburan. Yep. Only way to prevent, but is sucks pond water.

I’m never frightened. Being frightened is a non-rick non-lion kind of thing. I am both a rick and a lion, so I’m the thing people should be scared of. ROAR!!!

I get scared when I go in a club after Crazyjoe destroys the shitters and dancers are running around screaming bloody murder.. I had a nipple ring stuck in my zipper when thos happened

Roar!!!