Loosing Erection while having sex
Evasparkling
Atlanta
During the period of our Breakup I stayed out of stripclubs while I pursued Vanilla Dating. I was also Masturbating during these period since I was very horny & was able to release sperms without any issues.
After some cuddling and kissing, we decided it was time to become intimate.
I'm usually very excited around her, get hard even when we are kissing and I really want to have sex with her.
But something happened.
We had sex for like 15 minutes in the Missionary Position & when we tried to switch to doggy my dick fall flat, went soft and simply stopped working.
She tried everything possible but my dick wouldn't respond and as a result I'm unable to cum.
This's almost Day 3 of us attempting to have sex & same thing happens everytime.
I mean I get hard everytime but after maybe 15 Minutes of sex my dick goes flat.
I want to have sex but the freaking think just doesn't work properly!! Even now when I am writing this I feel like I want to have sex but the thing just doesn't get hard. I feel tickling in my penis, butterflies in my stomach, I feel the need but my penis is not responding UNTIL I open my porn site then I get hard like a rock. WTF?!
What would your recommendations be?
(A) Try having sex with another Girl
(B) Keep trying with that Girl
(C) Start using pills like Viagra but will Viagra make me cum from just Vaginal Penetration?
I feel like I'm too young to start using Sex Performance Enhancing Drugs.
I really want to have a healthy sex life.
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At least during Missionary Position my dick stays somewhat strong.
She gets off whenever she’s on top but most times she gets tired easily being on top.
So I end up eating her pussy to make her cum.
I've stop masturbating for now.
It's difficult but I'm trying.
I've gone 3 days now without masturbating.
I've embarked on the No Fap Challenge.
This's only my 3rd Day.
I heard it takes about 90 days of No Fap for the body to reboot.
Is that correct?
I've to release by stimulating my dick using my hands.
I've stop using my hands for now.
What do you mean by a Cardiovascular issue.
That's what I'm currently doing.
I've embarked on a 90 days no Fap Challenge.
I'm on day three.
I've stopped going to porn sites like pornhub & xnxx
But since I follow a lot of strippers, Escorts & Sugar Babies on Instagram and Twitter I still come across soft porn on my timelines
I might need to quit Instagram and Twitter.
https://www.webmd.com/erectile-dysfuncti…
I never masturbate like the rest of you, so that's not an issue. \sarcasm
Adding to the above, getting a good nights sleep (no coffee or caffeine day before) might help. It's been proven that testosterone is released during deep sleep.
I also prefer eating light -- nearly fasting -- the day of the date. My reasoning is that it lets blood flow where it's supposed to instead of your digestive tract. Big high-fat meal an hour before sex is probably the worst thing you can do.
Stress is an obvious factor.
Lay off the porn. It sounds like you have a condition called porno creep: someone who is addicted to porn, or watches so much porn that they get to the point where normal sexual acts and/or average people don't satisfy them so they have to go to extremes to get off.
Otherwise perhaps diabetes related, and this is serious.
SJG
Where do I obtain Blue Chew from?
Is it sold on the black market?
I’ve been stressed out lately.
So I definitely agree that stress is an obvious factor but I don’t know how to deal.
You just have to answer some questions about your health and then take a brief 30 second video interview with a nurse on your phone, tablet, or laptop. The pills are mailed in a plain brown envelope. They actually taste good, kind of like Smarties.
LOL - Jack the stallion
😄
https://bluechew.com/
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/28/style…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ExtenZe
SJG
Who talks like that?
Can you still jerk off? Does a blow job work?
Normally in these situations I'd suggest that the two of you get drunk in order to relax and then treat her like the farm animal that she is. 😉
If that doesn't work, then maybe it's time for the little blue pill.
I’m able to get it up to start and I’m also able to get it up with porn
But most times if she’s on top & we decide to switch to either Missionary or Doggie my Dick goes soft.
If we maintain a single position then my dick remains hard,
i.e. Start with cowgirl & finish with cowgirl Dick remains hard
i.e. Start with Missionary & finish with Missionary Dick remains hard
i.e. Start with cowgirl & switch to Missionary Dick becomes soft
i.e. Start with Missionary & switch to Doggie Dick becomes soft,
Another important case is I’m unable to ejaculate through Vaginal Sex,
Even when she uses Both her Hands as well as Mouth I’m still unable to ejaculate.
The only way I’m able to ejaculate is by watching porn while playing with my dick that way I’m able to bust a nut.
I’m unable to ejaculate through Vaginal Sex,
Even when she uses Both her Hands as well as Mouth I’m still unable to ejaculate.
The only way I’m able to ejaculate is by watching porn while playing with my dick that way I’m able to bust a nut.
Could I possibly be suffering from delayed ejaculation?
The girl in question is my girlfriend,
She’s definitely not a 10
Probably a 6
But the good thing is I get to fuck for free.
Got tired of spending so much money on premium pussy majorly 9’s & 10’s
At least with her there’s a connection.
She doesn’t act like a dead fish.
Although most times when she’s on top she gets tired easily.
Usually when she gives me a blow job she usually works on my Balls as well.
Whenever she starts working on my Balls I get a sensation that I’m about to cum & I ask her to slow down that way she can swallow my cum that’s when I kinda loose my sensation & the building cum that’s about to come out goes back in.
Hope it makes sense to you.
Sounds like you need an extended fast from masturbation.
Have you tried looking under the bed - a lot of stuff rolls away under the bed and hard to know it's there it being dark under there - take a looksie
Sorry but I’m confused by your statement.
Yes, she looks good naked.
She definitely doesn’t look like a hot stripper neither does she look like a hot pornstar,
She’s maybe a 6 on a scale of 1 -10
That’s someone I can be able to date right now without any heavy spending involved.
The 9’s & 10’s are quite difficult to keep especially if you’re not willing to spoil them.
I haven’t fucked any other women this past few months since we started dating,
But about the 8 times or so, that we’ve been intimate so far, I haven’t been able to release through Vaginal Penetration.
Even when she adds a Blow job & Hand job to the mix I’m still unable to release.
The only way I release is by using my own hands to jerk myself.
OP, Go to a doctor. But doctors know shit! I bet you will make 3 visits and try 3 things. And doc will go "Hmm"
If the wise sages on TUSCL could not figure this out - it's certainly an interesting problem.
Last question: Does your partner have a tattoo on her ass that reads something like "Rosie Loves Bubba" ?
(assuming Bubba is not your name)
If yes - there you go.
If not - last suggestion.
You said partner is already doing Cow Girl.
Switch to RCG.
Then slowly get up.
It will still be RCG but your partner will bend down.
Better if near edge of bed.
Partner will bend as necessary to resume doggie now.
Pound away until she moans "Don't stop" !
Then you'll have a spare erection when you lose yours
WCG