BLOWOUT FIGHT WITH THE WIFE

WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
New Jersey
So I wake up yesterday morning to a text massage of a picture of a small piece of steak I left on the dinner table the night before saying "disgusting".

Usually I placate things like this. But I decided this was over the top so I write back "fuck off" she replies "thanks".

I come home from therapy at 8:00 and cook the fresh squid I just got at the grocery store and cook sweet potato fries. I yell upstairs "are you hungry" i turn on on the baseball game which i don't usually watch when she's around but i'm not really in the mood to talk. She comes downstairs and eats and says "this is good". no other words are spoken Some time passes and I say "why are you picking a fight with me sucker?" she says " i didn't" i give her a hug and about two minutes later after my saying "i think it was cunty to send me that text" she is in my face like she literally never has before screaming at me. i say "i think you should go uspstairs" she says "why? are you threatening me?" i've never hit her or even pushed her but i feel i should mention i literally have 100 pounds on her most of which is muscle. i say "no but i think you should go upstairs" she continues to scream but eventually goes upstairs.

i drink a goodly amount of tequila and watch the baseball game. no additional interaction between us. i'm going to the sc tonight.

67 comments

  • gSteph
    5 years ago
    Would have been easier to pick up your plate and put it in the dishwasher.

    Or say, oops sorry.
  • Clubber
    5 years ago
    DAMN!
  • Cashman1234
    5 years ago
    A disclaimer - I'm divorced - so my advice is suspect at best.

    Some women are known to say one thing when the true issue is something very different. So, my guess is the steak wasn't the true cause of her message.

    Also, a reference to being "cunty" is not something that will placate an angry woman.

    I think the true issue will come out when she is ready to tell you what is bothering her. Right now - its best to give her space.

    Again, I'm just making wild guesses here. I've made a shitload of mistakes.
  • SirLapdancealot
    5 years ago
    My wife and I learned, over time, that it is counterproductive to get to the point of yelling at each other and exchanging "cunty" texts or words. For us it's best NOT to seek out ways to attack or even counterattack each other. All differences can be calmly and rationally discussed. If we find ourselves getting heated with each other, we step back and take a personal timeout before we reengage each other.
  • RandomMember
    5 years ago
    I have the opposite problem with my wife -- she's messier in the kitchen and leaves clutter. But @Cashman's probably right that she's angry about something else.
  • RandomMember
    5 years ago
    " i've never hit her or even pushed her "

    ___
    Good, that's the way it should be. You should never lay a hand on the opposite sex.
  • twentyfive
    5 years ago
    You sound kind of slow, why would you refer to a woman you married as kind of cunty and as Random pointed out “never hit or even pushed her” sounds like you think you deserve a medal you seem like a moron.
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    My glass-half-full approach to this story is to assume it's bullshit.
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    ^You would be surprised. I had an ex bf I got into an argument with. We worked it out, but afterwards he nonchalantly told me how close he was to hitting me. As if he did me a favor or something.

    I rolled away and went to sleep, and the next morning he gently and sadly chided me for not cuddling with him. 🧐
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Cmi ninja’d me lol
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    Oops.
  • Cashman1234
    5 years ago
    There is something very odd about a guy stating he never hit his wife - even though he's got 100 pounds of muscle on her. It sounds off. Like he threatened her - but didn't beat her this time.
  • SirLapdancealot
    5 years ago
    Not hitting a woman shouldn't be something that requires thought. Especially if it's your wife.
  • WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
    5 years ago
    She basically dared me to hot her. She got in my face and said are you threatening me as loud as she could.

    TWENTYFIVE go fuck yourself
  • rh48hr
    5 years ago
    As ther others have said. You escalated this argument. If this is somerhing she does regularly, This should have been discussed long ago.

    She was wrong for sending you a text of your mistake with the word disgusting, You were wrong and made it worse by saying fuck you. If it pissed you off that much, ignoring it would have been better.

    Then you were over ther top wrong for saying it was cunty. There are thousands upon thousands of things you could have said different than you did. She seemed to be over it and enjoyed the dinner you made. You should have just said my bad and given her a different way to approach you the next time you make a mistake.

    My ex- wife wrote me emails and letters ripping me a 1000 times worse than what your wife did for minor things and I never called her a cunt. I never even called her a bitch to her face. I called her a bitch in my head, but never to her face. Why? Because arguing never solved a problem and name calling never changed another person's mind. All it does it hurts the other person and damages your relationship.

    The old sticks and stones adage is complete bullshit. Name calling not only hurts but invariably leads to worse things because she won't forget you said it.

    This is someone you supposedly love. Instead of going to the club tonight, you should apologize and do something nice for her. She may have been slightly out of line for what she did, but you went to defcon 5 over it which was completely unnecessary.

    Just my two cents, take it for what's it's worth from someone who's been there.
  • gawker
    5 years ago
    It’s funny. I had an argument with my ATF today. For 10 years we’ve been tight. She finally sobered up about a year ago. I left her with my car in FL and she’s living with an ex-con in recovery
    Last Friday, she had a car accident. Now I’m having trouble getting her to cooperate with my insurance company and she doesn’t have a drivers license. On top of that I got a ticket in the mail today for her parking in a handicapped space ($260). I’m gunna fly down and get the car I think.
    These are worth fighting over; not a piece of left over steak!
  • twentyfive
    5 years ago
    I stand by my statement the OP is a moron
  • rh48hr
    5 years ago
    Sorry for the couple of typos, my phone's auto correct is weird.

    Willy - After I posted my comment. I saw your response to 25. That's exactly what I was talking about. He called you names and your first reaction was to say "fuck you."

    It's the same reaction your wife had to you. Did any of it advance the conversation?

    Just think about it from that perspective.
  • gSteph
    5 years ago
    Just came home from therapy?

    Called her 'cunty' for expressing disapproval?

    Going to therapy again?

    Please don't hit her.

    Best wishes to you both.
  • twentyfive
    5 years ago
    ^ It’s not name calling to call someone that has the original thought to beat up on a female a moron, it’s demonstrably low IQ, and shows that the OP is a bully, and is capable of using violence just to browbeat a person that has a different opinion than his, SMH
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Listen Willy, You need to get more PC. You go around insulting women, no wonder you are using a battery to suck your dick versus the lips of a real woman. If you don’t stop treating women this way, you will get detention for a week, and if you act up in detention PC Principal will have no choice but to pull down your pants and spank you like the little bitch you are. Trust me it will be for your own good as my goal is to have you crush pussy, not use battery operated devices as cum gadgets.
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Oh shit...wrong account 😢
  • WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
    5 years ago
    rh48hr I appreciate your feedback. The difference between my wife and TWENTYFIVE is that my wife is really important to me. If TWENTYFIVE died today I wouldn't care.
  • WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
    5 years ago
    NICE my wife sucks my dick regularly and I had no intention of hurting her. She's the one who brought the idea up. Also, I am extremely respectful to women. My behavior on TUSCL does not reflect my behavior in real life. I'm not convinced that you are real.
  • WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
    5 years ago
    TENTYFIVE you're the one who's taking breaks from dinner with his family to go outside to talk to a stripper. My intellect is far superior to yours.
  • twentyfive
    5 years ago
    ^ Lol someone’s triggered for sure
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    @25 if you’re taking breaks from family dinner and going outside to chat with strippers, can you prep me a plate of chicken fried steak while I’m chilling in your backyard?
  • twentyfive
    5 years ago
    ^ Sure baby I’ll fix you a plate while your lounging in the pool😷
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Trained in what? Are you implying that you actually managed to seduce him?
  • Cashman1234
    5 years ago
    This is getting beyond strange. I'm still wondering why the OP posted this discussion.

    Was he looking for advice on handling the situation? Was he trying to sound like a big man by saying he stood up to his wife? Maybe showing that he eats steak nightly?

    What would you expect when posting a discussion about calling your wife cunty and threatening her?
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    A woman can rage, for like 36 hours, barely taking time to sleep. But if during that time you say even one unkind thing to her, then she will feel that she has won. She had surfaced your ill will, evidenced by your one unkind statement. So her raging was completely justified.

    SJG

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  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    ^and I thought *I* looked at especially weird shit online. 😂
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Dang it, that was meant for txtitty, not SJG
  • skibum609
    5 years ago
    If I did what the original poster did I would spend the rest of my life [preventing people from findin g out, not posting it. Why would you post it? To prove that you're a tough guy? An abusive guy? A thin skinned guy? Why? Why? Why? If she came to me with that story, givenm your 100 pound weight advantage, we'd be in Court tomorrow; she'd be living alone in your house and you'd be on your friend's couch or in your car. Unimpressive.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    ^^^^^^^^^ for the very first time, I am agreeing with something Skibum609 posted!

    SJG
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    I'm standing by my optimistic hope that this is bullshit.
  • skibum609
    5 years ago
    I hear shit like this every day Ish. I bet its real.
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    Keyword... optimistic.
  • Cashman1234
    5 years ago
    Ishmael - I’m starting to agree with you. This story is not something to post - it’s something you hope nobody discovers.
  • Cashman1234
    5 years ago
    The one thing that makes it believable is the OP is from New Jersey...
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    ^^^ Now that's funny.
  • JAprufrock
    5 years ago
    "i've never hit her or even pushed her but i feel i should mention i literally have 100 pounds on her most of which is muscle."

    As others have pointed out, this is really a dumb thing to say. Sounds like you want to pat yourself on the back. And as far as having 100 pounds of muscle on her, who gives a rat's ass?
  • MackTruck
    5 years ago
    I am heading over to dump a load in your basement Willy
  • crazyjoe
    5 years ago
    OP is such a retard. Willy, if you did really treat women with respect you would not have to say so. It would be apparent. The opposite is apparent based off of thos thread as well as the link posted below


    https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
  • wallanon
    5 years ago
    "I'm not convinced that you are real."

    She's real. And she's spectacular.
  • rickdugan
    5 years ago
    Willy, you sound like a hypersensitive twat. First you tell her to fuck off after she called you out for being a pig, then you double down by calling her cunty. Then when she becomes so fed up - rightly so since you were the one being a cunt - that she gets in your face and yells, you interpret it as a dare to hit her.

    Did you grow up without a Dad? I ask because it's usually guys like this who overreact to normal hen clucking.

    Next time clean up after yourself you fucking pig. And while you're at it, maybe you could grow a pair and stop acting like a wounded woman with your own woman.

  • pistola
    5 years ago
    Guess is that something else was bothering her. Could’ve just cleaned up and asked her if anything was on her mind. Maybe she just wanted you to take her out for some drinks or give her some attention.
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    5 years ago
    ^^^^ As a thread, that would have gotten far less attention, which I'm assuming was the ultimate goal.
  • rickdugan
    5 years ago
    ===> "Guess is that something else was bothering her. Could’ve just cleaned up and asked her if anything was on her mind. Maybe she just wanted you to take her out for some drinks or give her some attention."

    Right. Let's look for some deeper meaning here.

    It couldn't possibly be that she was irate because (1) he left food rotting on the table overnight; (2) he responded with "fuck off" when she objected; and (3) he further followed up his "fuck off" by calling her complaint "cunty." No siree. Let's keep digging until we find this mysterious deeply rooted cause because being told to fuck off and then being called cunty by a grown ass man who is also your husband couldn't possibly be enough by itself. 😉
  • skibum609
    5 years ago
    I look at this thread and laugh because this is how I make my living every day. I have 32 calls to return from people seeking an initial appointment because ppl never learn to shut the fuck up.
  • MackTruck
    5 years ago
    "Listen Willy, You need to get more PC. You go around insulting women, no wonder you are using a battery to suck your dick versus the lips of a real woman. If you don’t stop treating women this way, you will get detention for a week, and if you act up in detention PC Principal will have no choice but to pull down your pants and spank you like the little bitch you are. Trust me it will be for your own good as my goal is to have you crush pussy, not use battery operated devices as cum gadgets."

    ^^^ good advice willy. O wonder you have to resort to battery operate toys... haha 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😝😂🤣😂🤣😫🤣😂🤔
  • MackTruck
    5 years ago
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    ^^^ Just dumped a load on willy... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
  • MackTruck
    5 years ago
    25 said...You sound kind of slow, why would you refer to a woman you married as kind of cunty and as Random pointed out “never hit or even pushed her” sounds like you think you deserve a medal you seem like a moron.


    I thought I was the dumb one.. now I feel smart 😁

    Smart talk
  • Jascoi
    5 years ago
    my life is more peaceful away from my wife.

    (i mean my ex.) but i do miss her cooking.
  • skibum609
    5 years ago
    I miss my wife starting when we both leave for work every day. Miss her now and this thread makes me appreciate her even more.
  • RandomMember
    5 years ago
    " I have 32 calls to return from people seeking an initial appointment because ppl never learn to shut the fuck up."

    ____________

    ^^^ explains why you went insane and why you're stoned half the time.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    I had to decide, do I want to die, or do I want to go on living. So as I selected the latter, I had to terminate the marriage.

    SJG

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  • Htxx
    5 years ago
    Yeah I believe it happened. I don’t miss being married at all. Congrats to those who are happily married. I was fucking miserable and quite proud to say I’m very happily divorced now for 11 years!
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    I had another bad dream about a week ago.

    The ex had somehow managed to install herself back in to my home and my life.

    Wasn't until well into mid-day that I saw that that was still kicking around in my head, and then I could show myself that it was not true, and then finally be able to relax.

    I still suffer from Post Marital Stress Disorder.

    SJG
  • SJGsAMPGirlfriend
    5 years ago
    Rroyd don’t be soooo angwy big boy!

    You come to massage parlor and I make you feel like big man!

    You not too boku for my big cunt!

    You bring Wirry too! We have sword fight!!!
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ You are on ignore. #3. My ignore list is always on my profile.

    SirLapdancealot, txtittyfag, SJGsAMPGirlfriend

    SJG
  • SJGsAMPGirlfriend
    5 years ago
    Why so angwy Rroyd? You need get raid!

    We pray 16 candles - you be Rong Duck Dong - and I be Morry Wingwald!!!
  • SirLapdancealot
    5 years ago
    He's so angry because he can't come to terms with his divorce because he's in denial that it was all his fault for excessive mongering. He wants to blame it on his wife and make it as if he would have died if he stayed married but in reality deep down he knows and is just staying in denial that it was all his fault. That's why he has PTSD. The truth haunts him even in his dreams.
  • skibum609
    5 years ago
    Random. It explains why I am a success and you're a failure. Not your fault. Progressives are failures.
  • ricktheturtle
    5 years ago
    Don’t get too big for your britches ski-ape. There are only three or four truly successful hairless apes on this planet and they are all named rick!

    I really don’t know how successful you are relative to this random person but it is axiomatic that neither of you are in the same league as the ricks. So get yourself some humility and realize you’re just a damn dirty ape!

    Aah...yup!
  • MackTruck
    5 years ago
    Listen Willy, You need to get more PC. You go around insulting women, no wonder you are using a battery to suck your dick versus the lips of a real woman. If you don’t stop treating women this way, you will get detention for a week, and if you act up in detention PC Principal will have no choice but to pull down your pants and spank you like the little bitch you are. Trust me it will be for your own good as my goal is to have you crush pussy, not use battery operated devices as cum gadgets.
  • Uprightcitizen
    5 years ago
    Somebody needs a new therapist...
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