BLOWOUT FIGHT WITH THE WIFE
WILLYSGOTAWOMAN
New Jersey
Usually I placate things like this. But I decided this was over the top so I write back "fuck off" she replies "thanks".
I come home from therapy at 8:00 and cook the fresh squid I just got at the grocery store and cook sweet potato fries. I yell upstairs "are you hungry" i turn on on the baseball game which i don't usually watch when she's around but i'm not really in the mood to talk. She comes downstairs and eats and says "this is good". no other words are spoken Some time passes and I say "why are you picking a fight with me sucker?" she says " i didn't" i give her a hug and about two minutes later after my saying "i think it was cunty to send me that text" she is in my face like she literally never has before screaming at me. i say "i think you should go uspstairs" she says "why? are you threatening me?" i've never hit her or even pushed her but i feel i should mention i literally have 100 pounds on her most of which is muscle. i say "no but i think you should go upstairs" she continues to scream but eventually goes upstairs.
i drink a goodly amount of tequila and watch the baseball game. no additional interaction between us. i'm going to the sc tonight.
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Or say, oops sorry.
Some women are known to say one thing when the true issue is something very different. So, my guess is the steak wasn't the true cause of her message.
Also, a reference to being "cunty" is not something that will placate an angry woman.
I think the true issue will come out when she is ready to tell you what is bothering her. Right now - its best to give her space.
Again, I'm just making wild guesses here. I've made a shitload of mistakes.
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Good, that's the way it should be. You should never lay a hand on the opposite sex.
I rolled away and went to sleep, and the next morning he gently and sadly chided me for not cuddling with him. 🧐
TWENTYFIVE go fuck yourself
She was wrong for sending you a text of your mistake with the word disgusting, You were wrong and made it worse by saying fuck you. If it pissed you off that much, ignoring it would have been better.
Then you were over ther top wrong for saying it was cunty. There are thousands upon thousands of things you could have said different than you did. She seemed to be over it and enjoyed the dinner you made. You should have just said my bad and given her a different way to approach you the next time you make a mistake.
My ex- wife wrote me emails and letters ripping me a 1000 times worse than what your wife did for minor things and I never called her a cunt. I never even called her a bitch to her face. I called her a bitch in my head, but never to her face. Why? Because arguing never solved a problem and name calling never changed another person's mind. All it does it hurts the other person and damages your relationship.
The old sticks and stones adage is complete bullshit. Name calling not only hurts but invariably leads to worse things because she won't forget you said it.
This is someone you supposedly love. Instead of going to the club tonight, you should apologize and do something nice for her. She may have been slightly out of line for what she did, but you went to defcon 5 over it which was completely unnecessary.
Just my two cents, take it for what's it's worth from someone who's been there.
Last Friday, she had a car accident. Now I’m having trouble getting her to cooperate with my insurance company and she doesn’t have a drivers license. On top of that I got a ticket in the mail today for her parking in a handicapped space ($260). I’m gunna fly down and get the car I think.
These are worth fighting over; not a piece of left over steak!
Willy - After I posted my comment. I saw your response to 25. That's exactly what I was talking about. He called you names and your first reaction was to say "fuck you."
It's the same reaction your wife had to you. Did any of it advance the conversation?
Just think about it from that perspective.
Called her 'cunty' for expressing disapproval?
Going to therapy again?
Please don't hit her.
Best wishes to you both.
Was he looking for advice on handling the situation? Was he trying to sound like a big man by saying he stood up to his wife? Maybe showing that he eats steak nightly?
What would you expect when posting a discussion about calling your wife cunty and threatening her?
SJG
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As others have pointed out, this is really a dumb thing to say. Sounds like you want to pat yourself on the back. And as far as having 100 pounds of muscle on her, who gives a rat's ass?
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She's real. And she's spectacular.
Did you grow up without a Dad? I ask because it's usually guys like this who overreact to normal hen clucking.
Next time clean up after yourself you fucking pig. And while you're at it, maybe you could grow a pair and stop acting like a wounded woman with your own woman.
Right. Let's look for some deeper meaning here.
It couldn't possibly be that she was irate because (1) he left food rotting on the table overnight; (2) he responded with "fuck off" when she objected; and (3) he further followed up his "fuck off" by calling her complaint "cunty." No siree. Let's keep digging until we find this mysterious deeply rooted cause because being told to fuck off and then being called cunty by a grown ass man who is also your husband couldn't possibly be enough by itself. 😉
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I thought I was the dumb one.. now I feel smart 😁
Smart talk
(i mean my ex.) but i do miss her cooking.
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^^^ explains why you went insane and why you're stoned half the time.
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The ex had somehow managed to install herself back in to my home and my life.
Wasn't until well into mid-day that I saw that that was still kicking around in my head, and then I could show myself that it was not true, and then finally be able to relax.
I still suffer from Post Marital Stress Disorder.
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You not too boku for my big cunt!
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I really don’t know how successful you are relative to this random person but it is axiomatic that neither of you are in the same league as the ricks. So get yourself some humility and realize you’re just a damn dirty ape!
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