Naming Names
doctorevil
Evil Lair
"techi1
32217
28 Minutes Ago
So I asked the reviewer for the stage name of the girls he reviewed, and he tells me sorry, it's private? What the hell, I'm asking him in private! What's this site for again if you can't identify a stripper stage name in private???" https://www.tuscl.net/review.php?id=3599…
Early on I occasionally asked for names or gave names in response to PMs from members that seem to have established track records, but my policy now is pretty much this: If I haven't met you in person, I'm not giving you any names. I may make exceptions on a case by case basis.
These girls are providing a very personal service. I think it's an invasion their privacy to provide their names to someone else, whether in the open forum or in a PM. If they are open to providing the same service to you that they provided to me, they'll let you know when they see you.
I know the subject of not naming names in reviews has come up often, but I don't think I have seen any discussions about naming names in PMs. I know at least one person disagrees with me. Anyone on my side?
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I have occasionally provided and received names of strippers who featured prominently in a review.
My policy about asking is... I just ask. Sometimes I get a name. Sometimes I don't. I don't pitch a fit if I don't get a name.
Two important points: (1) I understand that a dancer may not do for me what she did for another guy; (2) if she chooses to not give me the same level of service, I don't call her out by saying "a guy online told me you do X, Y, and Z."
Which leads to my policy about handing out names or talking about specifics... I do it rarely and selectively. That's because there are a lot of guys out there who are utterly clueless with regard to both points in the previous paragraph.
I don't want to put the dancer in an awkward spot with a customer. And I certainly don't want to be in an awkward spot with a CF. It's a choice I make.
So, as far as I'm concerned we're barely obligated to post reviews, and we're not obligated to provide any information outside of the reviews at all.
Folks who feel differently can go pound sand.
There seems to be a TUSCL subset that feel TUSCL should be like TER where every detail about the girl and what she does is explicitly commented and expected.
Also I won't ever share any information that would be a detriment to a fave. I'll even tell them that they may get a new customer because of my referral. It's never been an issue.
Like, if your at your job, flipping burgs at McDs, and under the counter your feeding a few friends. Then one of those jackasses writes on the bathroom wall “l got free food from Diamond”. Suddenly the line in front of Diamond is out the door and 30 min later the brown nosing janitor reads the thank you note on the bathroom wall, reports it, your out of a job 10 minutes later.
No good can come from over sharing.
In my reviews I describe my personal experiences; I always make up or modify dancers stage 'names'. Want a similar experience - go find one yourself.
Asking a stranger to 'out' a dancer is a stretch too far.
Also, I will tell you which dancers that provided bad experiences (beware and approach at your own risk).
I agree with doctorevil that's it's an invasion of the girls' privacy to give out too much info. Just because I had BBFS with Suzy Snowflake in a non-extras club doesn't necessarily mean that Suzy will do that with anyone else, and the last thing I need is for Joe TUSCL to tell Suzy that I told him she did it with me and now he's telling her he expects the same. If that happened, I guarantee that my next encounter with Ms. Snowflake would be pretty chilly. But more than being bad for me, it could really suck for her to be put in that position. As doc said, "If they are open to providing the same service to you that they provided to me, they'll let you know when they see you."
In addition, I have a very strict policy of not divulging any info about one dancer to any other dancer in the club. I promise the girls I wont kiss and tell -- what she and I do together (and what I paid her) stays just between us. I know for a fact that they appreciate this (because they've said so), as it's an expression of respect. By extension, I think what doctorevil asked about is related to this. Just my two cents...
techi1
32217
XXXX Gives BJS in XXXXX VIP
So I went into XXXX for lunch with dancer friend of mine and met XXXX with her bad teeth though she's very friendly. Went into VIP with my friend and noticed girl giving BJ to customer and we both wanted to wait until next song to see who the dancer was. My friend was as curious as I was. Out walked XXXX after the customer. I tipped XXXX $5 for her performance and she was a bit pissed at me for bringing it to her attention, but then blew it off (pun intended ) when I gave her another $5 tip.
Monday Afternoon
11-25
Not Provided
Place8
Satisfaction7
Value7
Review Comments
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
December 14, 2016
How the fuck is this a review, or are you just trying to tarnish this so-called XXXX's reputation?
busta_nut
Florida
December 14, 2016
Total DICK move
You and your "lunch date stripper" have nothing better to do than to Perv out in the lap area? Must be jealous.
In Atlanta though there is low hanging fruit though. It’s not a secret where to go for reliable extras.
Scuttle! Scuttle! Scuttle!
I nominate that Smith guy to be an honorary rick! What kind of animal is he? Probably something reasonably badass like a Tasmanian Devil. Just keep your devil face cancer away from me and we are all good Mr. Smith
Scuttle! Scuttle! Scuttle!
Lol you actually believe that? Lmfao
I do think there are things more important than protecting a stripper from the minute possibility that a LEO will read what we write and use it to arrest a stripper.
Personally, I don't really care to know specific names of extra's providers. By the time I get to a club with good reviews, there's only a 10-20% chance that a named dancer will even be there. The value in the reviews that give details w/o names is in knowing how common it is to get extras there, and what the typical rates are. I have enough game to talk to various dancers and find the right one(s) to take back for a VIP.
Besides all the above, no one is entitled to get personal info from you about a dancer - ever. This ass wipe has the taste of a turd in a hot dog bun.
I've always said the concerns about law enforcement on sites like these are unfounded. FBI and Cops arent idiots and go to clubs themselves for extras. Its a high stress job and bars and clubs give them a chance to unwind. Clubs get raided because of drugs, rowdy patrons, or elected officials trying to make a name for themselves.