Wedding bands

I wear mine all the time, I can't get it off anymore. I haven't encountered any negativity from wearing it. They want my money, not my heart.

It could get you more attention but some will think your a cheating asshole

^ they’ll still take your money no matter what they think about you.

I remember a stripper telling me once “I know at least 3/4 of them men that come in here are married.”

Yep. Majority of men itc are married ime. I know it's all about the money. I leave mine on too but have had some comments before. Still accepted my money all the same lol

Some of them wear rings too. Some are married and some just want you to think so, so that you won't hit on them.

And many dancers prefer married men. Less likelihood of long-term drama if the guy isn’t interested in leaving his wife.

Wedding ring = has money, less likely to try to date her

I believe it’s a non-issue. I always wear my ring (afraid I’d lose it if I took it off). Occasionally a dancer will ask me “are you married?” I say “yes”, and that’s the end of the discussion. Once in VIP, I had a girl say to me “no disrespect to your wife” just before she started to blow me. None taken.

Wearing the ring itc? Honest pl.

Ring off, telltale hairless untanned ring of skin? Lying, stupid asshole pl.

Or an understood experience of a fantasy to escape real life and be entertained. If they ever ask me, I tell them my status. Don’t ask, don’t tell, and so t ruin my fun.

Just for research purposes, I probably ought to put back on my wedding ring that I had taken off about 15 years ago when I split from my wife. (That is if I can find it… ) see if it makes a difference.

No dancer gives a shit if a guy is wearing a ring except for baby strippers, who don't yet understand the realities of strip club dynamics. In fact, I think that some dancers prefer married customers because they aren't likely to get obsessive and do crazy town shit.

OTOH a lot of dudes seem to care very much if girls are wearing rings. They need the illusion that these girls are single and available, so married girls go without rings and in general most of these girls lie about their relationship status.

The reality is that strip clubs are a cheaters' game. Older guys with money and young hot girls with codependency issues tend not to stay single for long. When you seriously mess around with a stripper, the odds are good that at least one of you is cheating and often both. When it's her, she's probably also lying to her SO about what she does to make the cash.

C'est la vie.