Wedding bands

I wear mine all the time, I can't get it off anymore. I haven't encountered any negativity from wearing it. They want my money, not my heart.

It could get you more attention but some will think your a cheating asshole

^ they’ll still take your money no matter what they think about you.

I remember a stripper telling me once “I know at least 3/4 of them men that come in here are married.”

Yep. Majority of men itc are married ime. I know it's all about the money. I leave mine on too but have had some comments before. Still accepted my money all the same lol

Some of them wear rings too. Some are married and some just want you to think so, so that you won't hit on them.

And many dancers prefer married men. Less likelihood of long-term drama if the guy isn’t interested in leaving his wife.

Wedding ring = has money, less likely to try to date her

I believe it’s a non-issue. I always wear my ring (afraid I’d lose it if I took it off). Occasionally a dancer will ask me “are you married?” I say “yes”, and that’s the end of the discussion. Once in VIP, I had a girl say to me “no disrespect to your wife” just before she started to blow me. None taken.

Wearing the ring itc? Honest pl.

Ring off, telltale hairless untanned ring of skin? Lying, stupid asshole pl.

Or an understood experience of a fantasy to escape real life and be entertained. If they ever ask me, I tell them my status. Don’t ask, don’t tell, and so t ruin my fun.

Just for research purposes, I probably ought to put back on my wedding ring that I had taken off about 15 years ago when I split from my wife. (That is if I can find it… ) see if it makes a difference.

No dancer gives a shit if a guy is wearing a ring except for baby strippers, who don't yet understand the realities of strip club dynamics. In fact, I think that some dancers prefer married customers because they aren't likely to get obsessive and do crazy town shit.

OTOH a lot of dudes seem to care very much if girls are wearing rings. They need the illusion that these girls are single and available, so married girls go without rings and in general most of these girls lie about their relationship status.

The reality is that strip clubs are a cheaters' game. Older guys with money and young hot girls with codependency issues tend not to stay single for long. When you seriously mess around with a stripper, the odds are good that at least one of you is cheating and often both. When it's her, she's probably also lying to her SO about what she does to make the cash.

C'est la vie.

@rickdugan my issue with the married strippers and even escorts is the fact they are in my opinion more likely to have boundaries and rules like no kissing or no bare blowjob or no pussy licking or no toys no fingering etc. also just the general sense of giving her money when most of it may be going toward supporting some leech sort of guy. I dont want to date her myself and wouldnt care at all about her having a bunch of clients. But i will assume she will have a bunch of rules so she can provide the sex work while also in her mind cheat on her partner. The no kissing rule seems to be incredibly common amongst the american sex workers. Some girls even provide bbbj but draw the line at kissing.

*not cheat on her partner

Her: “Are you married?”

Me: “Why? Are you looking for a husband?”

About two years ago I was walking hand in hand with a dancer I’d known for a few years. As we were entering a sex shop (her choice) on the way to my hotel, she noticed that I had noticed the diamond ring she was newly sporting. She quickly told me that it had been a gift from a long-ago boyfriend that she kept in case she ever needed to pawn it.

About five months later I stopped into her club to see her. Alas she no longer worked there but her friend made a video call for me. She was now married and pregnant. lol, you just have to love them