Met a new dancer...and she's 37.

If I were make reference to a 37 year old stripper, I can easily guess what could probably spring to mind...

Thinking of busted and blown out, stayed in past the prime when she should have gotten out and pushed in her chips.

Maybe there is some truth in what you would find, but outliers exist.

A few weeks ago, after months away from mongering and SCing , I decided to get back in again and do it.

Going to a club I had been to before but don't go to on a regular basis.

I had a good time with a few dancers, and one really caught my eye.

Her age...37. it's not just a matter of she "looks good for her age," she just overall looks good, slender figure, very leggy, nice, firm toned ass....

However, she is essentially flat chested, a B or maybe even an A cup, and I have a thing for women with big breasts, but that doesn't detract from her being sexy at all.

She told me she works as a personal trainer and only dances one night a week. That would explain the shape she is in.

I even bring up that her being in her late 30s is outside of the usual age range of dancers.

I mentioned that Sharon Stone was 33 when Basic Instinct came out and Madonna was also 33 when her Sex book and Erotica album came out, acknowledging that 20 somethings don't have an exclusive monopoly on being hot or sexy.

As far as strippers go, she's probably the most stimulating, interesting to talk to that I've encountered and not at all an air head.

She asks for me to suggest a song. I tell her it doesn't matter, put on whatever she wants.

She asks what type of music I listen to. I tell her punk rock and that most of the music I listen to is out of what would be considered mainstream and not what would be played in a strip club.

After that, she goes on stage to Nine Inch Nails-Closer.

She hit the bullseye with that song!

Not exactly punk, more so considered alternative/industrial, but it is within the realm of what I listen to.

It's an excellent stripper song:
The way the rhythm of the song pulsates and throbs easily brings to mind pumping and thrusting.

And the repeated refrain of " I wanna fuck you like an animal/ I wanna feel you from the inside."

That's exactly where my mind was, thinking of how it would feel inside of her pussy.

Her dances were incredible.

And coming back to see her the week after I told that her dances were the most erotic and arousing ones I ever had.

She is smiling ear to ear when I told her, looking delighted.

She also liked that I told her I thought about her at times when I would jack off.

She liked that she was in my "spank bank," her exact phrasing

During the dances, I could feel the wetness of her pussy through her bottoms, and pre orgasm sounds are coming are out her mouth.

Second time around getting dances from her, the pre orgasm sounds are coming out of her mouth again, as I'm rubbing her nipples.

I increase to a more rapid pace rubbing them, yet keeping the the same motion...and she's cumming, she's having an orgasm.

That marked a first, having a stripper cum from me just rubbing her nipples, and technically this wasn't breaking the rules.

At this club, I get the vibe that extras action is not happening ITC, but a few dancers have alluded to OTC is possible.( only after trust and rapport is established)

I asked the dancer in question if extras or pay for play would be on the table as she more so gets to know me and if trust and rapport is built, and her answer was "maybe."

I'm of the mind that being told "maybe" in civee land is almost always a soft no.

But in SC land, the dynamics are different. If I'm looking for OTC, then greater trust needs to be established, and two visits with her is probably not enough to build that yet, and she said this even before our second session of dances. I asked quickly as we were sitting at the bar.

I am both hopeful and skeptical about this situation.

It might rest on the AA mantra of "keep coming back, it works if you work it."