If I were make reference to a 37 year old stripper, I can easily guess what could probably spring to mind...
Thinking of busted and blown out, stayed in past the prime when she should have gotten out and pushed in her chips.
Maybe there is some truth in what you would find, but outliers exist.
A few weeks ago, after months away from mongering and SCing , I decided to get back in again and do it.
Going to a club I had been to before but don't go to on a regular basis.
I had a good time with a few dancers, and one really caught my eye.
Her age...37. it's not just a matter of she "looks good for her age," she just overall looks good, slender figure, very leggy, nice, firm toned ass....
However, she is essentially flat chested, a B or maybe even an A cup, and I have a thing for women with big breasts, but that doesn't detract from her being sexy at all.
She told me she works as a personal trainer and only dances one night a week. That would explain the shape she is in.
I even bring up that her being in her late 30s is outside of the usual age range of dancers.
I mentioned that Sharon Stone was 33 when Basic Instinct came out and Madonna was also 33 when her Sex book and Erotica album came out, acknowledging that 20 somethings don't have an exclusive monopoly on being hot or sexy.
As far as strippers go, she's probably the most stimulating, interesting to talk to that I've encountered and not at all an air head.
She asks for me to suggest a song. I tell her it doesn't matter, put on whatever she wants.
She asks what type of music I listen to. I tell her punk rock and that most of the music I listen to is out of what would be considered mainstream and not what would be played in a strip club.
After that, she goes on stage to Nine Inch Nails-Closer.
She hit the bullseye with that song!
Not exactly punk, more so considered alternative/industrial, but it is within the realm of what I listen to.
It's an excellent stripper song:
The way the rhythm of the song pulsates and throbs easily brings to mind pumping and thrusting.
And the repeated refrain of " I wanna fuck you like an animal/ I wanna feel you from the inside."
That's exactly where my mind was, thinking of how it would feel inside of her pussy.
Her dances were incredible.
And coming back to see her the week after I told that her dances were the most erotic and arousing ones I ever had.
She is smiling ear to ear when I told her, looking delighted.
She also liked that I told her I thought about her at times when I would jack off.
She liked that she was in my "spank bank," her exact phrasing
During the dances, I could feel the wetness of her pussy through her bottoms, and pre orgasm sounds are coming are out her mouth.
Second time around getting dances from her, the pre orgasm sounds are coming out of her mouth again, as I'm rubbing her nipples.
I increase to a more rapid pace rubbing them, yet keeping the the same motion...and she's cumming, she's having an orgasm.
That marked a first, having a stripper cum from me just rubbing her nipples, and technically this wasn't breaking the rules.
At this club, I get the vibe that extras action is not happening ITC, but a few dancers have alluded to OTC is possible.( only after trust and rapport is established)
I asked the dancer in question if extras or pay for play would be on the table as she more so gets to know me and if trust and rapport is built, and her answer was "maybe."
I'm of the mind that being told "maybe" in civee land is almost always a soft no.
But in SC land, the dynamics are different. If I'm looking for OTC, then greater trust needs to be established, and two visits with her is probably not enough to build that yet, and she said this even before our second session of dances. I asked quickly as we were sitting at the bar.
I am both hopeful and skeptical about this situation.
It might rest on the AA mantra of "keep coming back, it works if you work it."
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last commentShe sounds like a very fun girl!
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Did you ask her about itc extras
“ and two visits with her is probably not enough to build that yet, and she said this even before our second session of dances. ”
What did she say? That sounds like it might be a hustle.
What are you spending on each visit with her? I definitely wouldnt do these visits with her mostly in the hopes of some possible future otc or extras. She might just not do extras, might have a bf etc
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@M_Scorpio_LFK
I will play along and comment on your discussion.
You wrote and I quote: “she's having an orgasm.”
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
Despite of what Chris Rock said “There is no sex in the Champagne 🍾 Rom”
We all know that it really depends on the girl personal preferences, and for the right “price”.she will have sex inside the club and outside the club.
We all also are aware that there is more than me way to “convince” a stripper to have sex with you.
What has worked for me, for good ITC to transition to OTC, is to build a trusting relationship with a girl, make sure she knows I am a respectful reliable gentleman, safe, clean, discreet, and fun, funny. (Think Edward (Richard Gere) from the movie Pretty Woman).
If your gut feeling is that she is open to OTC ask her if she would be interested in meeting you outside the club; “we can go to a nice place where we are more comfortable, and you won’t have to split the money with the club”
Let her know that eliminating the middle man (the club) would be a better deal for you two.
Just don’t forget that typically you get what you pay for…
if you don’t have the money or you can’t afford it economically, mentally, morally, emotionally, physically, intellectually etc etc etc then don’t buy things you can’t afford…
In any case; Let’s be careful out there there, and don’t fall in love with a stripper.
:D
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Sounds a lot like the "MILF" I still see sometimes here. She's in her mid forties, but looks at least a decade younger, has 5 kids, but you can barely see the C-section scar if she didn't tell you it was there, and her body is still banging nice, perky D boobs.
She still comes out and fucks me from time to time, but she won't let me pay her. She doesn't want to be a "whore". She'll take my money in the club for dances, though.
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^You must be blessed.
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My ATF is 34 and she is the most beautiful woman I know with the most amazing body. No one else in their 20s can even come close.
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Old women suck and fuck the best!
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Just keep in mind it's part of her job to pretend to return your feelings. When there's only one stripper you want dances from, that is called "monopoly". Not known to go well for the customer.
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@skibum609: "^You must be blessed."
Maybe. She says she likes my head game. Given her responses, I believe her.
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To OP:
She’s very good at her job. This is what enables her to be successful despite her age and being flat chested. Just remember that you’re getting played, and it sounds like she has you exactly where she wants you. But if you’re OK with that (and it sounds like you are) it’s a win-win. This is exactly how this hobby is supposed to work, and everyone’s happy.
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A 37-year-old dancer, in this day and age is sadly more likely to be slim and fit than a 25-year-old. It's all in the nipple so breast size is meaningless imo.
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If shes openly saying that she needs you to visit her more before potential otc/extras thats just a hustle
She only dances one night a week, who knows what her situation is, that means her dancing income might just be for discretionary spending so she doesnt really need it
I would only see her if you think what your paying for is worth it, without thinking about potential future otc
Also there are certain extras you can get away with at non extras clubs unless theres staff just watching the entire dance. Things like OTP or ITP HJ, touching and seeing the pussy, possibly removing pasties etc
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"It's all in the nipple so breast size is meaningless imo."
@skibum609 Generally speaking, this is my philosophy as well. Just give me some awesome nipples, and I really don't care if they're on A cups, B cups, C cups, or whatever. Ideally, the breast will also have the right shape and firmness to put everything in perfect harmony, but for me, great nipples are far more important than breast size...
Of course, then we could all get into a debate about what makes the perfect nipple... 😁
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@ClubFan81077 what makes a nipple good? I like those huge nipples that take up half of the entire breast
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🔺 I would want a girl 30's, 40's Or 50's,
60+ Taper's Off
Most girls at mi SC experiences be in
their 18 to 30 age.
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@chunkychicano So you like large areola, right? I tend to like a relatively perky nipple on top of a small to moderately sized areola... But there are no wrong answers here, and plenty of different breast/nipple combinations out there to satisfy just about every taste! 😁
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@chunkychicano
She said "maybe."
I asked her if extras or pay for play would be on the table if we built more rapport and trust, and she said "maybe." ( And I didn't specify ITC or OTC.)
I asked because in reading the room when bringing it up or hinting at it a few dancers at this particular club were saying "not here," implying not here, but somewhere else, implying OTC, not a complete shutdown.
At another club I used to go to, same area, it's like extras were a known secret, not on the table for just anyone, but for repeat customers upon repeat visits.
I am applying the same strategy.
I usually spend around $60-$80 with her: Three dances, plus tip and buying her a drink. I was thinking about increasing what I spend.
As we know, often, the more you are willing to spend more so likey opens up the door for extras.
She was doing more in our second dance session than the first, so following along that trajectory is where the possibility or hope of this going in the direction I would like, and if it doesn't, I'll shut off that valve and move on to someone else.
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Age is just a number. You can look good or bad at any age
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^of course a pedophile and granny fucker would say that
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