when they put on weight part duh
rickdugan
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OK, I am, as I type, staring at a girl that I used to eagerly take OTC. She has been hanging with me for an hour, giving me clear signs that she would like to go out again, but there is only one problem. She has gained 25 or so pounds and it doesn't look so great on her. I am just not as eager to take her out now.
Anyone else face this? How did you deal with it?
Anyone else face this? How did you deal with it?
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i actually like the extra weight, because i like my women with meat on their bones
and besides, most women, especially ones who work in strip clubs, aren't carrying too many lbs. it's like when women say/think they're "too fat" when they only weight 115lbs LOL
I'd pass. If you aren't feeling it going into it, you'll probably regret it later. And during.
But, I've definitely had girls put on an extra 10%-15% and was still crazy about them. If I were meeting them for the FIRST time, I might take a pass. But once I'm crazy in lust, I can deal
Well said
If none - try this line (YMMV):
"I've had fun times with you and I'd like to spend money on you but gosh you've put on some holiday weight. Can we do "Jello Wrestling" back in my hotel and see where it goes." (assuming Jello Wrestling is your thing or tickles your fancy. Or insert something that's on the wild side for you)
Point is, overweight woman will work harder to please you - but you have to tell what pleases you.
25 lbs is bit much though.
Then this past summer I got up to 128. I looked fine, although for the first time ever my stomach wasn't completely fat, so ate nothing but salads for a week or so and got back to 120 or so. I just had another anxiety attack last month and lost 15 pounds again, dropped to 105. Then I was finally able to eat again and a couple weeks later I already gained 9 lbs back. I am 114 and will probably be back to 120 by Christmas. I think as long as I stay toned I look best between 115-122 lbs.
Anyway, whether I was 105 lbs or 128 lbs my earnings stayed pretty consistent. I think the most important thing is to keep your stomach flat and toned. As long as that's happening, IDC if my ass, thighs, and boobs get better. More to twerk with when people want to make it rain on me.
About 6 months later I walked in and the weight was off and she looked perfect. She said her house mom said she was getting fat so she went on a diet. Lol - good for her.
Nina is 100% right btw - 20lbs is different for every girl and a lot has to do with their height and also if their boobs get bigger as well.
The other thing I do is step up my eating skills to fill the lonely space inside myself. My shrink says I'm only eating my feelings, but I told him "then feelings are delicious!" My wife and kids are the only people that get to see me when I have anxiety, but I tell the doctor I'd rather take food than prescription drugs like Prozac. End of rant, sorry.
I am the opposite, usually - the more I eat the happier I am. I actually have a hard time eating when my anxiety gets really bad because with my anxiety comes horrible nausea.
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After about six weeks, she was fired from the club for missing too many shifts because she was too lethargic from using heroin with her friend who was also a dancer/user.
Moving forward six months, a dancer with the same name showed up on the roster. This girl was just plain fat and pretty lethargic. Then I noticed the very distinctive tatoo on the back of her right shoulder. Holy shit, what happened to her?
My ATF told me later that the girl was on methadone which apparently can lead to weight gain. That girl ended up losing a lot of that weight. Unfortunately, she apparently did it by falling back into heroin use. She ended up being fired for stealing from the other dancers.
I've also seen this more than a few times. Talk about a Catch 22 - it is good to see them pull themselves together, but then they start to look unfuckable. Worse though is that I never would have touched them in the first place if i had known about the heroin use. It is amazing how often I end up learning about a girl's heroin use AFTER she has switched to methadone and put on some weight.
"I never would have touched them in the first place if I had known about the heroin abuse."
That's compassion my brethren! Take note.
My ATF put at least an extra 25 on her 5' 2" frame after her last child but, whether because it all went into the right places or there are other reasons more related to my affection for her, she is still hot as fuck.