Three Words I Didn't Expect to Hear...
Monday, August 17, 2015 5:42 PM
I was at my local club last week. I'd expected to see her, but she wasn't the reason I was there last night. Just chillin. I've known her for a few weeks now. She's around 20 and I am very attracted to her based on her face and nice derriere. I've danced with her around 4-5 times. No VIPs, just regular dances, with an average total expenditure of between $50 and $60 per visit on her. Mileage is low. I am middle aged, fat, boring, poor, and horny (the polar opposite of young, fun, and hot). Our conversations usually consist of her complaining about financial difficulties and me lending an ear to her gripes and being nice. I've never had a remotely sexual conversation with her or pried into her personal life.
So anyway, she was walking into the club behind me on this night and she looked kinda messed up. Not sure if it was coke or weed or maybe she had a rough night. Idk. I didn't talk to her at the time and she didn't say anything either. She went back to get ready, and I chilled and got a drink. They called her up to the stage and I sat at her rail. She said hi and after her set was over, she told me to meet her at the bar.
I bought her a drink and we caught up a bit and I told her that there are a lot of guys here, encouraging her to hustle so she can have a decent night. I don't like to waste her or my time: I buy her time for her hotness and because I really like her as a person. She thanks me and she starts getting her hustle on. They call her up again an hour or so later, and I sit at her stage again.
She comes over to me after and asks me if I want to dance now or later. I tell her let's go. Before the next song, she sits on my lap and holds her face close to mine, and puts her hand on my face. Normally, I think she sits next to me so this is unusual. Then during the first dance, she says something about giving me her phone number after we are done. At this point, I am confused. I have never talked to her about this, and I am thinking maybe my regular perusals of this forum have result in the OTC Deities rewarding me with some type of gift. Not that I am remotely interested. Remember, she is less than half my age, and a very sweet person. I don't reply and she continues to dance. She never offered me her number after.
She forgets how many songs she's done (she has trouble keeping count sometimes), and asks me if it was 2 or 3. I tell her it's 3.
Then she tells me "I love you".
Those are the three words I would never expect to hear from her or any dancer. I have heard "you're cool", "that was fun" (after dances), or other compliments but nothing like this.
My thoughts:
1) Trying an angle to get my number to put me on her text list so she can send out those "come see me" or "I need money" type texts.
2) She appreciates me as a loyal customer. I always sit at her stage show, buy her drinks, and dance with her. I've never tried to finger her, proposition her, ask her out, be nosey, or otherwise act in a manner that she would find offensive.
3)She was loaded and got emotional.
It was a unique interaction to be sure. I don't specifically recall a dancer ever saying these words to me, and I guess I should take it as a compliment. I think the facts that she sometimes is insecure about her abilities and hotness, and I'm a reassuring and encouraging voice had something to do with that.
Idk. But it was definitely a strange moment for me.
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