grinddawg

I had a crush on a waitress. I even tipped her $20 during the holidays, and she was kinda surprised because most patrons do not tip her so generously. She hugs me often when she sees me (she's also a manager) and she is GORGEOUS. The fact I'm close to her father's age keeps me honest. But man, does she have a great ass and she is so sweet.

"I spent a few hundred grand in the period of 3 years." OUCH. " I tried to treat her like a person, not an object. I told her how I felt. She told me she felt the same, but wasn't ready for a relationship. We emailed, never texts or calls. Sometimes she'd let me hang for a few days but never when she was working and thought I might come in." Here is a rule that we should always follow. Not only in the strip club, but in the office, in the gym, and in the bar. NEVER JUDGE A PERSON BY THEIR WORDS, JUDGE THEM BY THEIR ACTIONS. The fact she never tried to escalate the relationship beyond strategic emails was indicative of her intentions. You may have had noble intentions, and she may/may have liked you on a personal level, but you met her at her job and fell into the dreaded customer category. Not withstanding the fact, you admittedly spent a significant amount of cash on her. You are not a loser. You simply met the wrong person at the wrong time. Learn from it. Improve yourself. Don't make the same mistakes again.

Last night's Memphis-Cincinnati game was a great game if you're a fan of offense.

TACT. A simple "That sucks. Are you in the mood for a private?" should suffice.

Enjoy the memories Smitty. So, the truth finally came out? She is still doing tricks on the side but moved on to other clients? All part of the game. Especially with the youngsters we both like. Sooner or later, they become more popular and or more stuck up and they change. "nother dancer says she was in the dressing room in street clothes earlier getting something out of her locker. This speaks volumes to me. She has an OTC date with the new guy. She came by to pick up an outfit. She's done the same thing for me before a date. It is the only reason besides truly being sick that she would get out of work tonight. "